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Topic: Confusion: Leo Man
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 2138
From: The Valley of Restoration
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 18, 2015 10:39 AM
  
Question please (anyone!)If a Leo man spends time arguing with you via voicenote (don't laugh). Does he like you or is it just an attention thing? Surely, anyone who spends nearly most of the day sending you voice notes is into you? He hasn't come right out and said it, but it has me thinking... He knows I like him, but 😕
I am too confused by this lol (His other placements: Cancer Rising, Cancer Mercury, Capricorn Mars, Virgo Moon) IP: Logged |
curiouspisces89
Knowflake Posts: 173
From: UK
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted December 18, 2015 12:36 PM
If I guy likes you he will show it to you in a more direct way and not just arguing over some voice thingy. i do know some men who seem to show that they like you by being mean but most of them are immature. This is for guys in general not for Leo men. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 2138
From: The Valley of Restoration
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 18, 2015 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by curiouspisces89:
If I guy likes you he will show it to you in a more direct way and not just arguing over some voice thingy. i do know some men who seem to show that they like you by being mean but most of them are immature. This is for guys in general not for Leo men.
I think you've hit the nail on the head about the immaturity thing hun. Thank you. The amount of effort he puts into the voicenotes, if he didn't like me... I would be surprised. However, you're right. Just going to make sure he is more direct. IP: Logged |
curiouspisces89
Knowflake Posts: 173
From: UK
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted December 18, 2015 03:01 PM
I mean he probably does like you, but I wouldn't make any move until he is more direct and you actually know for sure that he likes you a lot! Good luck!IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 2138
From: The Valley of Restoration
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 18, 2015 05:27 PM
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Originally posted by curiouspisces89:
I mean he probably does like you, but I wouldn't make any move until he is more direct and you actually know for sure that he likes you a lot! Good luck!
Thanks sweetheart!
I definitely agree. I'm an Aries moon, so I'm more direct.
If he wants to continue his cat/mouse antics, he can do so alone for the minute lol. Can't be bothered with the back and forth! IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 1497
From: The land of WP
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 18, 2015 06:27 PM
Not necessarily. A Leo will most likely try to romance you and do things to win your affection.
If a Leo is arguing with you it's most likely just in order to be right. (In which they believe they are right.)
That said, people and astrology both are very complex so it's not always so cut and dry.
This is my experienced opinion though regarding Leos. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 2138
From: The Valley of Restoration
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 18, 2015 08:31 PM
DG ❤️ You've just blown it wide open all over again lolIP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 1497
From: The land of WP
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 18, 2015 09:18 PM
There is something to be said about sending lots of voice notes. (I've done it. With someone I liked and later loved). It means that he finds you worthy of his time and more importantly, cares about what you think/feel enough to use voice note to have better understanding. (Hey it's better than email/text). If he didn't care then he probably wouldn't bother.
Now if he likes you in a romantic sense. I'm not sure. I'd be looking for compliments, romantic and thoughtful gestures, and things of that nature. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 2138
From: The Valley of Restoration
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 18, 2015 09:58 PM
Thanks DG.I really enjoy his company and I've told him that I'm someone who is pretty straight up about how they feel. I don't like mind games etc., but I expect the same in return. He doesn't seem to be getting that part! You know the whole 'treat em mean, keep em keen' saying that supposedly works - yeah, that's wasted on me 😂. I find it insulting. That is the issue... he is NOT being romantic! There's no urge on his part to do anything. However, I think this is where I have to step away and show that that is a key component when getting to know me - reciprocity! You can't spend your time taking up my time - getting my attention, but not giving anything back! lol I really appreciate your insight! He isn't "attached" to me like that. That's the problem I think, how to fix that? No idea lol; but distance will help me! IP: Logged |
lundan
Knowflake Posts: 42
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Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 18, 2015 10:49 PM
As a leo, he likes the attention and proving you wrong quote:
Originally posted by curiouspisces89:
If I guy likes you he will show it to you in a more direct way and not just arguing over some voice thingy. i do know some men who seem to show that they like you by being mean but most of them are immature. This is for guys in general not for Leo men.
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 2138
From: The Valley of Restoration
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 18, 2015 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by lundan:
As a leo, he likes the attention and proving you wrong
I don't doubt this!
He has a Capricorn Mars and I have an Aries Mars (both very strong willed, we could do it all day). I'm always the one who has to say 'so, what's the conclusion?' 😂
Anyway, it's just odd to me that a guy would actually take so much time out to "settle" misunderstandings and communicate all the time; but at this moment as implied, his actions and words aren't matching up. That's the reality of the situation and for the fact that I'm confused, it's definitely not worth putting anymore of myself out there! Thank you x IP: Logged |
curiouspisces89
Knowflake Posts: 173
From: UK
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted December 19, 2015 03:16 AM
Aww you have Aries moon! My mum does too and she is one strong direct woman! Love it. Good luck with this guy but my advise still stands that he need to be direct and stop playing games.I hate when men play this mind games and you are suppose to read their mind lol. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 2138
From: The Valley of Restoration
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 19, 2015 04:34 AM
Thank you CP!I actually think having an Aries moon is one of my natal chart defects. I'm getting to the point where I hate it, because I can't seem to find people who are to the point and upfront - it's annoying! I appreciate all of your contributions. I will definitely keep you updated on progress. Until then, I'm going to have to be onto the next one! IP: Logged |
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