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Topic: Aspects for being told secrets
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socialgraffiti
Knowflake Posts: 483
From: uranus
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 22, 2015 02:24 AM
  
For some reason, people I don't know very well or even strangers will approach me, and tell me deeply personal information (which many of them do not tell their close friends or families).What aspects or placements would cause this? IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted December 22, 2015 02:32 AM
heh, if they tell you about their traumatic experiences, I guess it's chiron aspects - the healer. Neptune aspects - empathetic vibes. Or well aspected moon - nurturing, soothing vibes. IP: Logged |
WhiteSunshine314
Newflake Posts: 14
From: California USA
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted December 22, 2015 02:36 AM
This happens to me all the time! I tend to think its all the Neptune in my chart. Makes one empathic and people sense this so they tend to feel more comfortable I feel. I have Neptune conjunct descendant, a Pisces sun and Mercury. IP: Logged |
Bluejay
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posted December 22, 2015 03:21 AM
I get this too. I'm a Scorpio Sun opposite Chiron, and Scorpio Mercury with Moon conjunct Pluto in the 8th. My Moon is also sextile Neptune exact. I'm everyone's therapist. I'm also an empath, so I'm naturally in tune to the emotions of others. People often cry when telling me about painful experiences and then say that they never cry in front of anyone, even family members. IP: Logged |
Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 22, 2015 07:49 AM
^ I'm similar.I'm not sure how many times people have told me an actual secret, but they tend to get emotional, and a different side comes out than what I was expecting. 8H Pisces moon, Venus-Neptune, 12H Saturn... IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted December 22, 2015 11:05 AM
I have strong neptune aspects in my chart and people act like that with me too.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 22, 2015 11:15 AM
Me, and perhaps it's my 5H stellium which includes moon and Neptune. Though when it happened the most was in my teen years as Pluto transited that stellium in which people shared a lot of intense stuff with me. I think my Neptunian aspects either make me appear as a kindred spirit or terrible threat depending on other factors. Some people have thought some really bizarre stuff about me whether they considered me a kindred spirit or a threat to watch closely. IP: Logged |
socialgraffiti
Knowflake Posts: 483
From: uranus
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 22, 2015 07:37 PM
quote:
Originally posted by 12muddy:
heh, if they tell you about their traumatic experiences, I guess it's chiron aspects - the healer.
Yeah, I do have many aspects to Chiron, it aspects my big three: trines ASC, conjunct Sun, square Moon. quote:
Originally posted by WhiteSunshine314:
This happens to me all the time! I tend to think its all the Neptune in my chart.
I don't have much Neptune, only Pisces MC and SN. It does sextile Mercury, however. quote:
Originally posted by Bluejay:
I get this too. I'm a Scorpio Sun opposite Chiron, and Scorpio Mercury with Moon conjunct Pluto in the 8th. My Moon is also sextile Neptune exact.
 We have similar aspects: Scorpio sun conj. Chiron
Scorpio Mercury conj. Pluto
Mercury sextile Neptune by one degree
Moon in the 8th sextile Pluto quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
8H Pisces moon, Venus-Neptune, 12H Saturn...
Fellow moon in 8th quote:
Originally posted by PixieJane:
I think my Neptunian aspects either make me appear as a kindred spirit or terrible threat depending on other factors.
Do you have harsh aspects to Neptune?
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PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 7422
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 22, 2015 08:19 PM
quote:
Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
Do you have harsh aspects to Neptune?
No. But the Mars-Uranus in the same stellium as my Neptune might possibly contribute to a "rebellious" feel to some people. Some people can feel I'm a kindred spirit until I say the wrong thing, which can even be demonstrating knowledge about topics that they don't think I should know about. (But then many people can't understand my desire for knowledge and believe if I know about something then I must obviously be deeply involved with it.) Though I think the oddest "kindred spirit" illusion was a guy who thought I was a hardcore right wing Christian fundamentalist who (after revealing many sentiments he didn't casually reveal to others as he did to me) advised me to shoot to kill any lesbians before they could rape me and turn me gay (unaware that I was in a lesbian relationship at the time). Having received such violent advice, I was careful not to reveal too much about myself (and glad he made so many assumptions about me rather than asking me, because I'd have been honest if he'd asked instead of assumed), but did ask him how his intuition was so good about me (  ). He said because I carried a gun (this was at a gun range I used to belong to) and the guy knew I was charitable and aided some people who needed it, but it wasn't my charity that made him think I was a Christian, but that I carried a gun! Though in all fairness my Texas accent can throw some Californians off--though it's ironically amusing when they assume I'm a small minded bigot "unlike me (the Californian)" based on my accent--and it's understandable that some (who aren't Texan) would think Rick Perry/George Bush after hearing me talk, though I think I sound more like Janis Joplin (well, without the smoker's croak).  Though that said, a Californian lesbian partner who visited my Texas family and went through the small East Texas towns was also baffled why guns were mixed up with Christianity as well (as it seemed to contradict Christian values to her mind, and also demonstrated a lack of faith in God), and like the number of bumper stickers that said things like "pro-God, pro-gun" but hardly any that promoted love, charity, and forgiveness, and even having grown up in Texas myself, I wasn't able to explain it at the time. Ironically, in Texas I tend to have the opposite problem (though it's happened in California as well), where fundies think I literally worship the devil! (Though for what it's worth, most of these assumptions of my Satanic activities were when Pluto was transiting my 5H Sag stellium--that in turn was sextile to my 3H stellium which includes natal Pluto--that again includes Mars-Uranus and thus perhaps a "devil may care rebel" vibe that disturbed them and was then magnified by Pluto in both my natal chart and transit-wise.) IP: Logged |
Steph22922
Knowflake Posts: 73
From: United States, Kansas
Registered: Jan 2015
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posted December 22, 2015 08:37 PM
Omg this happens to me all the time too! And working in retail/customer service I tend to get alot of random people coming up to me and telling me their problems without any prompting from me, they just kind of assume they can tell me! It must have to do with Pisces or neptune in some way. I've got Mercury, Venus and Saturn in Pisces, all conjunct. All of these planets are also conjunct my Sun which is in the last few degrees of Aquarius in my chart. I've also got Neptune and Uranus trine Moon, Moon trine Ascendant, Ascendant Trine Neptune and Uranus, so I'm guessing from this I can pick up on ppl's feelings and they can pick up on my caring nature and just starting going on about their issues, maybe without even being aware of why they're telling me! IP: Logged |
Piscean Tigress
Knowflake Posts: 97
From: Everywhere and Nowhere
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 22, 2015 11:11 PM
I got this all the time! even with strange people!! My Mercury conjunct NN in Pisces, Sun in pisces too. Neptune conjunct Ascendant (Saturn), trine venus and Chiron and opposite moon. Venus conjunct Chiron in Aries. Venus sextile Moon (Aries-Gemini) IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 60462
From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 24, 2015 02:08 PM
Pluto in the First.IP: Logged |
misspriss
Knowflake Posts: 67
From: London
Registered: Nov 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 03:02 PM
that's interesting.My pluto is in the first and this happens to me very frequently. People I barely know, even strangers tell me the most intimate things! IP: Logged |
Bluejay
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posted December 24, 2015 03:54 PM
@socialgraffiti, we do have very similar planetary energies. My Sun opposite Chiron forms a grand cross with my AC/DC and nodal axis in Aquarius/Leo.IP: Logged |
Bluejay
Knowflake Posts: 544
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 24, 2015 04:28 PM
Edit..off topicIP: Logged |
Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 839
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted December 24, 2015 05:08 PM
This has happened to me a lot of times. Its kinda weird cuz when i was younger i was not very good at keeping other peoples secrets and could talk about them to somebody else because i cared so much and they knew i had a tendency of spilling the beans but for some reason they still kept telling me their secrets and i never understood why they would do that even after they knew i wasn`t the best choice to tell secrets to. I got a few neptune and pluto aspects and a cancer moon. IP: Logged |
socialgraffiti
Knowflake Posts: 483
From: uranus
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 24, 2015 07:48 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Pluto in the First.
I also have Pluto/ASC, but aspecting. quote:
Originally posted by Bluejay:
@socialgraffiti, we do have very similar planetary energies. My Sun opposite Chiron forms a grand cross with my AC/DC and nodal axis in Aquarius/Leo.
Very cool. My Sun is at the base of YOD between Node & Saturn, and Sun/Chiron trines my ASC. IP: Logged |
Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 1627
From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 26, 2015 06:34 AM
All. The. Time.I figured it was either my third house stellium or the fact that my natal Chiron makes so many aspects in my chart. ------------------
“Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
Federal_Reserve
Newflake Posts: 16
From: -
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted December 26, 2015 09:17 AM
I use this trick when I need to manipulate someone, I tell them 'secret' which might not even be true, or I ask them 'Can I trust you, I'm sure you won't tell this to 'Name' ?', and people jump in, they think this is some kind of secret information, they open themselves more easily too. Since you just told them a secret, they start to 'trust' you. *Magic*IP: Logged |
socialgraffiti
Knowflake Posts: 483
From: uranus
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 26, 2015 11:45 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Federal_Reserve:
I use this trick when I need to manipulate someone, I tell them 'secret' which might not even be true, or I ask them 'Can I trust you, I'm sure you won't tell this to 'Name' ?', and people jump in, they think this is some kind of secret information, they open themselves more easily too. Since you just told them a secret, they start to 'trust' you. *Magic*
I don't trust those people.
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