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Topic: what has been your experience with placements that like control?
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saadsarah8
Knowflake Posts: 31
From: Ottawa, Canada
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 24, 2015 01:28 PM
  
Specifically scorpio and capricorn placements in the natal? IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 14629
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 24, 2015 04:02 PM
I'm a Capricorn sun square Pluto, with an 8H moon and Scorpio NN.When I was younger I would get my heart set on an outcome, invest a lot of effort into it in various ways, then get discouraged when it didn't work out. Often these schemes depended upon other people, or were an effort to change people, and I would get out of whack trying too hard to achieve my goal. I guess I still do this a bit, striving for change here and there, trying to steer a situation towards a certain outcome...but with some maturity I'm able to do my part and then let the chips fall where they may. I don't feel so invested in everything the way I used to, driving myself and others nuts. I just try and control myself and my emotional responses. I've seen how, with self-control, I accomplish things easier and quicker. IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 2528
From:
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 24, 2015 06:39 PM
I have a lot of cap placements.I like control over my life and personal choices, and fight tooth and nail to keep it when I have to. In relationships and friendships, I cut off ties quickly when others push the boundaries. As I grow older, I put more effort into keeping the bonds, listening for what they have to say and their intentions, but that prickling, uncomfortable feeling remains. It's not easy to find people whom I truly feel relaxed around. Most of the times people step on my boundaries, unknowingly or purposely. I like the relaxed, easy going ones, who offer advices/assistance when asked, and leaves my personal matters to me - they makes me feel strangely nurtured. IP: Logged | |
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