posted December 26, 2015 05:32 AM            

Shes a Scorpio Asc, Leo Sun, Taurus Moon, Venus in Cancer mix.

Good Parts
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-Her Pluto is conjunction my South Node
-Her Moon is conjunct my North Node
-My Moons trines her North Node

Also, our suns land in each others 7th house and our moons land in each others 3/4th house.

Bad Parts
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Lots of squares ex mars square mars.

As a result we can generally sense each others mood. When she started I could sense she was undergoing a really tough
time and at the same time I would do my best to accommodate her as best as I could.

She's a very warm friendly trusting Leo, but she's been hurt several times in her past trusting and getting involved with
the wrong people.

I went way overboard with the friendliness and she reported me to my boss.
I was lucky because my boss knows me well enough to know that I was just trying to be helpful, but they did keep an eye on me without me knowing.

I didn't find out until some time later.

When I did find out I distanced myself and got away from her as much as I could.

She now:

1)Tries to be really nice to me.
2)Tells me everything.
3)Trusts me even more.

She has a lot of insecurities and I do make the time to talk, but I still try to keep my distance.

She's normally really happy and smiley when she does get the chance to talk to me.

I will admit she's made me more sympathetic and brought the "nice twin" out especially when I needed it most.
I was on a grumpy Gemini streak before I meet her.

I told her "you put me on nice streak, its the really small things that you can do for people that can go along way
to brighten there day" say bring food for your coworkers and I really believe that.

My problem is I'm planning on leaving and moving on to bigger, better things and to a different city.

At the same time the karmic debt gives a sense of "connection" and not to brake the connection.

However, the counter to the argument is if you get to friendly you won't be so lucky , you got lucky the last time ( Gemini luck in tough situations).

One twin says don't bother, but the other twin says you might develop a good friendship in the end.

I've asked several different astrologer/psychic opinions then compare the similarities and differences.

The consensus is she definitely appreciates and likes having someone to confide with, one astrologer/psychic said
she's never had anyone to confide with before and brighten her day, but added some caution.

She has an interesting relationship with her Gemini-Cancer-Leo mix mother, very assertive and pushy.

Her Virgo Father can be a bit critical.
She has some competition with her Gemini-Cancer cusp sister

Her group of friends are a "mix bag"

What do you guys think?
Cut and Run or Stay and Listen.

I tried asking a platonic Leo friend of mine, but shes a different type of Leo.

Shes more of a Leo-Virgo, the one I'm asking about is a Leo-Water mix.

posted December 26, 2015 09:09 AM            

@Sunnya. I posted our charts in a different thread, as were not suppose to post charts in Astrology 2.0

its under, http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/004000.html

@Nine, That's what I'm thinking although she's asked me politely not to quit or leave, but that was before she went to the boss.

@Southern Sun, that's what I'm thinking is the best solution because this year I've encountered nothing but Leo's re appearing, might as well make a friend at a distance.

I can tell she was assaulted when she was younger and a group of friends tried to take advantage of her last summer.

She told me how she got out of it, I listened but didn't want to get involved because I was still upset about her trying to report me to the boss the previous summer.

Going back to reporting me to the boss part,
She mistook my friendliness as if I wanted something.

Plus her Scorpio rising has her being concerned with knowing to much and I kinda figured more then I should have, Gemini fault or my fault.

That's why I was lucky, because my virgo boss really knows the nice gemini side of me.
Not the mean gemini.

I've talked to my boss confidential about it later on and she said not to worry she's completely forgot about everything.

Shes trying her best to be really nice to me , but I will never trust her the same again and that's when the caution comes in.

But I still have a sense to listen,
That's why i'm wondering is my karmic debt paid or not?. Since I can move on to other things maybe it is?

Given the type of people that live here I would never hang around any of them and the way this city is headed its going to get worse, I have the option to leave she doesn't.