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Topic: Shutting down your feelings 😯😐😔😉
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StubbornVirgo
Knowflake Posts: 375
From: Sittin' on Mercury
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted December 30, 2015 12:33 AM
  
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
StubbornVirgoI agree but sometimes the time you spend locking this feelings is enough to make you fall in love with another person.Then you definitely seal the box.
I've never been able to do that, before. I'm a Gemini Moon/Mars but I have a crap ton of Earth and a little water. To everyone else, I look like I'm moving on quickly from somebody (which I have to admit, is how I want it to appear), but in reality I'm still upset about it. I eventually get to the point where I let go, but it takes a while. It takes even longer to get the point where I can even think about seeing another person. I have a bunch of squares with my Moon, though, and also with my Venus (which is in Virgo). I guess I was speaking more to the immediate day-to-day emotional reactions. Like, there's only so long I can be mad/sad/etc. before I just change the subject. Asking a Gemini moon to feel intense emotions for an extended period of time is not realistic, lol. I'll send it away and promptly forget about it - and then people get mad later when they recall an argument/fight we had and I have no recollection of it.  IP: Logged |
12muddy
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 30, 2015 06:20 AM
I sort of react in similar ways. Although after everything are over, a bit of affection remains, but there is no deep feeling or love to cage up. I usually spend those when things aren't over yet. I suppose it's a cap thing. Oh the "distant" feeling, yes. I think it can be a defense mechanism. Idk. I always feel kinda surreal, as if what happened to me were someone else's stories, not mine. And it always seems like they happened so long ago. Once all efforts don't yield any result, then the whole thing is a lost cause, letting go is better for both parties. And it means saving time for me. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 564
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 30, 2015 11:40 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
. I always feel kinda surreal, as if what happened to me were someone else's stories, not mine. And it always seems like they happened so long ago.
Exactly how I feel,great description 👏👏
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Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 564
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 30, 2015 11:42 AM
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Asking a Gemini moon to feel intense emotions for an extended period of time is not realistic, lol.
So true!lmao 😂😂😂 IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 1605
From: The land of WP
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 30, 2015 11:42 AM
^^^
Same here!
(Edit: I meant two posts up regarding 12muddy's post)IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 564
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 30, 2015 11:43 AM
Thanks for sharing!! All of you.IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
Knowflake Posts: 943
From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
Registered: May 2014
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posted December 30, 2015 01:36 PM
Cancer Venus (trine Saturn no less) never lets the feelings go..."Those are the memories that make me a wealthy soul" But 10th house Leo Moon, so with a dramatic flair encouraged by sq. Jupiter... *swoosh* Rawr!  IP: Logged |
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