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Geminiyoungster
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posted December 29, 2015 03:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geminiyoungster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is this more of a synastry thing?

I don't know what it is, but i've been noticing people getting angry at you for no reason.. I know some people have anger problems, but its crazy how some people will get angry with others then be nice to other people. I have had people in the past that just go off the meter on me..

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posted December 29, 2015 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it's in the synastry.

I've always got an issue with hard aspects between MARS and MERCURY in synastry. So many misunderstandings to the point where it's unreal. MERCURY and SATURN hard aspects also cause me issues. Being a Gemini Sun and having a Gemini Mercury, it's obvious that speaking to people I care about is important to me - as is being understood. So, when people get annoyed by what I have said... DOWNHILL spiral from there tbh.

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posted December 29, 2015 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Geminiyoungster:
Is this more of a synastry thing?

I don't know what it is, but i've been noticing people getting angry at you for no reason.. I know some people have anger problems, but its crazy how some people will get angry with others then be nice to other people. I have had people in the past that just go off the meter on me..


Are you asking about people who react angrily to "nice" people, but then reacting nicely to other non nice or equally nice people? or is something that happens to YOU often? if that were the case (you attracting angry people). if that were the case, then I would invite you to look at your mars and how are you living it. which sign (how you get what you want), which house (in which area of life you need to apply your martian energy) and which aspects (how difficult, easy) and how personal or impersonal is the the go for it drive. if you have mars afflicted by neptune or saturn, or in 12 house, i would not be surprised you are attracting such angry people..

I would say if that helps ( i dont know about your chart or life experience or age) that you are not living your mars energy and are repressing and projecting it. the more you OWN your mars energy, the less you will attract anger from the outside

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posted December 29, 2015 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ikja:
I've always got an issue with hard aspects between MARS and MERCURY in synastry.

Interesting timing for this thread...

Current transits:

Mars 27 Libra
Mercury 27 Capricorn

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posted December 29, 2015 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geminiyoungster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
Are you asking about people who react angrily to "nice" people, but then reacting nicely to other non nice or equally nice people? or is something that happens to YOU often? if that were the case (you attracting angry people). if that were the case, then I would invite you to look at your mars and how are you living it. which sign (how you get what you want), which house (in which area of life you need to apply your martian energy) and which aspects (how difficult, easy) and how personal or impersonal is the the go for it drive. if you have mars afflicted by neptune or saturn, or in 12 house, i would not be surprised you are attracting such angry people..

I would say if that helps ( i dont know about your chart or life experience or age) that you are not living your mars energy and are repressing and projecting it. the more you OWN your mars energy, the less you will attract anger from the outside


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posted December 29, 2015 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rabidtalker     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've noticed it with aspects to my saturn, mostly conjunct or opposition the person's sun. Sometimes I have a person who aspects the mars-uranus opposition in my chart who will be overly, irrationally angry with me but it is rare. Most of the people who aspect that are overly excited by me.

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posted December 29, 2015 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uranus in the 7th + Pluto in the 5th, working together.

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posted December 30, 2015 06:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
Interesting timing for this thread...

Current transits:

Mars 27 Libra
Mercury 27 Capricorn


That is extremely interesting to know! It definitely makes sense! That means tMars is opposite my nMars and tMercury is square my nMars. Nonsense transits lol

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posted December 30, 2015 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars.

Last time it was tMars conj nPluto. tMars was square person's nMars.

In synastry we have Mars/Pluto square. Also, Sun sq Sun.

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posted December 30, 2015 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LittleBlackCat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When talking about people who get angry for no reason in general (opposed to specifically you)...

Mars Square Aries Rising. Also any person that is both heavily Mars and Cancer influenced at the same time will go off and then try to be Mr. or Misses harmless cuddle bunny right after. My sister has Aries rising square Mars in Cancer....omg. We call her Sour Patch Kid. First she is sour...then she is sweet.

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posted December 30, 2015 11:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I don't get angry for NO REASON but some people annoy me more then others and they do not want to catch me when I'm in one of my moods.
I do have mars in tough aspects with saturn
and cancer mars and moon

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posted December 31, 2015 12:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It happened to me when Neptune was all over personal planets, and when Saturn was also hitting my Cardinal planets negatively. Pluto, Uranus, and Saturn were all involved.

As a result, I can now be more angry. Not tonight, but in general.

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posted December 31, 2015 12:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

If you want to figure it out then I'd start looking around.
Transits, condition of their moon in your synastry, etc. Do they have something in common? (Generational, etc)
I have a thing or two in mind but LL seems to be extra sensitive today.

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posted December 31, 2015 12:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Geminiyoungster:
Is this more of a synastry thing?

I don't know what it is, but i've been noticing people getting angry at you for no reason.. I know some people have anger problems, but its crazy how some people will get angry with others then be nice to other people. I have had people in the past that just go off the meter on me..


For me, it's usually synastry.

If someone's planets irritate my Pluto/Saturn square, or my Mars (all Cardinal), they will tend to grate on my nerves to the point that I *might* go off.

Unless I feel pity for them, in which case I tend to ignore/avoid them.

Other people, I think, seem to simply have issues.

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posted January 01, 2016 01:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for racole12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know if someone said this but it doesn't have to be synastry related. It can be prog/SA/Transit related.

When I went through Transit Pluto opp ASC and conj Mars I was raped.

And when I went through pr Sun conj Mars it seemed like I ****** off everybody. (and had anger issues too).

I probably had synastry aspects with those people that caused them to be angry at me but you can also have it in your chart to attract those type of people.

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posted January 01, 2016 01:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by racole12:
I don't know if someone said this but it doesn't have to be synastry related. It can be prog/SA/Transit related.

When I went through Transit Pluto opp ASC and conj Mars I was raped.

And when I went through pr Sun conj Mars it seemed like I ****** off everybody. (and had anger issues too).

I probably had synastry aspects with those people that caused them to be angry at me but you can also have it in your chart to attract those type of people.


I keep forgetting that my Mars progressed into Aries. That coincided with my Moon moving into Scorpio. My anger came out because I couldn't understand what was going on/how or why it was all happening, and I was tired of being attacked. I had a specific group of people attacking me, on top of what was happening and really scaring me/leaving me unstable, at home.

All of that Neptune and Cardinal in transits, as well. I used to be so mild-mannered, LOL. Seriously.

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posted January 01, 2016 01:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Violets:
For me, it's usually synastry.

If someone's planets irritate my Pluto/Saturn square, or my Mars (all Cardinal), they will tend to grate on my nerves to the point that I *might* go off.

Unless I feel pity for them, in which case I tend to ignore/avoid them.

Other people, I think, seem to simply have issues.


I have been worried that I was hopping away on your last nerve at times. I don't mean to, if I do. I think my Mars usually meshes well with your Sun, but I have felt so brittle at times, and bristly, that I affect the people around me, which I don't like.

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posted January 01, 2016 06:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
I have been worried that I was hopping away on your last nerve at times. I don't mean to, if I do. I think my Mars usually meshes well with your Sun, but I have felt so brittle at times, and bristly, that I affect the people around me, which I don't like.

No way! I have never felt that way about you, Teasel! Seriously. No, I enjoy your posts, and I don't think that you've ever offended me (not that I can recall anyway).

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posted January 01, 2016 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for socialgraffiti     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hard mars aspects, most likely.

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posted January 01, 2016 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
People with an Unaspected Mars seem to have a very explosive( and unpredictable) temper

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