posted December 30, 2015 10:35 AM            

Here's my experience; feedback on proper Mars channeling is welcome.

I tend to have conflict with coworkers (not always, but often enough), as well as my primary care physicians.

I think that my Cap Mars often notices anything that resembles incompetence or a patronizing demeanor, and I just can't deal with it.

Sometimes it's ego on my part, but often it's that I legitimately feel that the other person in question is either a bully, or taking advantage of their position by deliberately ignoring the needs of the patient (usually because it's not convenient for them).

This can happen either when I am the patient, or when I am at work helping patients/residents.

Wondering if anyone else with 6H Mars has experienced this, and if anyone has advice on how to channel Mars energy more productively so that it doesn't come out sideways like this.

At work I'm very diligent, and really get into what I'm doing, so I feel that my Mars energy is put to good use in that sense.

I don't have the proper setup right now for the kind of hard labor I prefer to do that satisfies my Mars, so I wonder what kind of alternatives there are to working outside...

Anyway, if you have input, experience, etc., please share.

posted December 30, 2015 12:03 PM            

I do always have conflicts with co-workers, but it's mostly people attempting to undermine me as I'm a special kind of perfectionist and they feel it makes them look bad by proxy. I have Jupiter in H10 so supervisors/bosses and I are always on good terms, but classmates/co-workers on a "micro" level definitely seek me out as a target. That often happens whenever one stands out and doesn't blend into the accepted "herd" vibe, though..

posted December 30, 2015 12:18 PM            

And I'm also usually on very good terms with my supervisors.

posted December 30, 2015 12:22 PM            

And yes she does get into it with her personal physician and mine which is why I never take her along when I go in. Last time I went into ER I was looked after a resident in their presence she said "this person doesn't look competent/confident - specially for the procedure you're about to get, let me call in the attending physician" :/ and so she did.

She is a HUGE animal lover as well with those placements.

I hope this is of some help, oh and her moon is in Libra 5th house and Neptune/Uranus in the 8th (surgery)

P.S Could be that she probably has a big ego as well but she takes her work very seriously thats for sure.

"Wondering if anyone else with 6H Mars has experienced this, and if anyone has advice on how to channel Mars energy more productively so that it doesn't come out sideways like this."

posted December 30, 2015 12:27 PM            

I have uranus conjunct Lilith in the 10th so i already know i should find a career where i don't have to work in teams with people on a regular basis, because it wouldn't be that hard for them to have me ousted after a couple rounds of office politics.

posted December 30, 2015 12:37 PM            

Julz, your sister sounds like a woman after my own heart, lol. I'm not a physician, but I work with people with mental health/dementia issues, and I'm very serious about the care I give, and the care they receive from others.

(I'm currently not working right now, as I've gone back to being a stay-at-home mom, which is also really nice...for the record.)

Spongebob, I know what you mean.
Unfortunately, I have Mercury in H6 conjunct my Dsc in Aquarius, so I really *need* to communicate with others in my work environment.

But ideally, yes. I would primarily work alone with clients/residents, and only work with coworkers very minimally.

posted December 30, 2015 02:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:

She works out 4x's a week for about an hour or two..said it helps her stay calm since she's always so jittery.

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I used to do that as well, or I would chop wood, work in the yard, etc.

But as of now, we're living in a small, cramped apartment for the time being, and there's no privacy or room to work out, lol.

Not sure where the nearest gym is, as we just moved here.

But yes, working out is GOOD. However one chooses to do it, this helps me as well.