posted January 08, 2016 03:28 AM            

I would like to know how the "combination" of both saturn and uranus influence the sun's ego. (I could not find the topic about this combination on LL search engine.)

posted January 11, 2016 06:29 PM            

But she did not cooperate, nor was she diplomatic. At all. And she was insanely competitive. And she displayed all her trophies and ribbons, which I jokingly referred to as "the shrine." (Her sense of humor was erratic, she sometimes laughed with me, at other times could go into a rage.)

Perhaps with age she'll mellow and her Libra Saturn will modify her Aries sun, stellium, ASC.

Though she could be surprisingly romantic at times, in very effective ways...though partially, I expected so little from her in that regard that anything she did was automatically magnified, and yet I shouldn't downplay how good she could be at it when she wanted (OTOH, I shouldn't forget she was doing the same for others behind my back at the same time).

I vaguely recall reading somewhere (when I was researching her chart) that an Aries sun faced with a Libra Saturn felt as if the world limited them which made them even more aggressive and harder to get along with (or words to that affect). I remember that much because I spent a lot of time thinking about it, she did think along those lines, and yet she was also right: as a blasian, her Korean American family abused her (even breaking her arm) while she caught racist flak from everyone (white, black, etc), that is until she became such a star athlete which may be why she prized her trophies and ribbons so much, they were proof to the world that she deserved love and acceptance that she felt the world refused her.

Of course, were she able to get past that expectation of rejection and worse from others (easier said than done when raised as she was) she could finally find what she wants, but keeps sabotaging herself as much as being sabotaged by others around her. (Her attitude--mixed with her tattooed muscles--could be funny, though, I about laughed again just now as I recalled a 13-year-old boy who was crushing on me running away in terror as she drove up and "erupted" from her jeep, with her asking me what his problem was. )

posted January 26, 2016 05:40 PM            

What makes me a lil bit curious is that I seems attracting sun oppose saturn/uranus people combined with the mercury conjunct mars. What I've learned that those people are totally insecure with self, like to follow their own path in detached way (it's not a real problem with me but when they won't listen to anyone can be a bit annoying and affection seems unstable), have problems with parents/family, and also sometimes can verbally abusive. - Correct me if I'm wrong.

Since my relationships ware all gone wrong but with a similar pattern, I've come to check their charts and I've found both ex (I only talk the long one) have sun opposite saturn & uranus, also they have mercury conjunct mars tight orb! and right now a man who comes very strong has sun oppose uranus and mars in aries (I'll check again where's his saturn).

What's wrong with sun opposite saturn/uranus people?