posted January 09, 2016 03:16 PM            

I just started tSaturn Squaring Venus and Mars (which are conjunct in my 1H). I'm already feeling the heaviness. I feel like everyone I love is pulling away from me, like all the forward motion of my relationships has stopped and like I'm about to lose everything.

posted January 10, 2016 11:19 AM            

I've gotten some feelings like that, and worse, feeling like there is something wrong with me that everyone would be WISE to reject.

But in another light, I catch the opportunity here, to step out of my ego and enjoy life from a spiritual and detached perspective, which can bring so much joy, just from tapping into that inner spring of connection to life, that it dwarfs my other concerns.

And truthfully, you are lovely and do not have to to be afraid.

My brother usually calls me on my birthday and didn't call this year....for a few moments my heart would sink and I'd feel that "worthless" feeling...but then I'd remember how little it matters in the grand scheme of things...all we can do is our best in each moment. And then, my brother wrote me the nicest email instead....which was just icing on the cake.

Sorry if I sound too out there but this is how I've been dealing with the similar transits.

posted January 10, 2016 02:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Tr Saturn is conjunct my Venus and opposing my Mars.

I've gotten some feelings like that, and worse, feeling like there is something wrong with me that everyone would be WISE to reject.

But in another light, I catch the opportunity here, to step out of my ego and enjoy life from a spiritual and detached perspective, which can bring so much joy, just from tapping into that inner spring of connection to life, that it dwarfs my other concerns.

And truthfully, you are lovely and do not have to to be afraid.

My brother usually calls me on my birthday and didn't call this year....for a few moments my heart would sink and I'd feel that "worthless" feeling...but then I'd remember how little it matters in the grand scheme of things...all we can do is our best in each moment. And then, my brother wrote me the nicest email instead....which was just icing on the cake.

Sorry if I sound too out there but this is how I've been dealing with the similar transits.

Good luck, and it'll be okay

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Ohh Faith this is really what I needed to hear.

I keep going through that 'heart drop' feeling you're describing, and it is all in my head. I brought it up to my boyfriend today - just stating I knew nothing has changed with us, but I'm FEELING really lonely right now, nothing he's doing, etc. And he was sweet and basically just laughed at me - it was what I needed, honestly. I am too sensitive for my own good.

posted January 10, 2016 03:13 PM            

Usually Saturn squares or opposition (unlike confusing Neptune or excessive Jupiter challenging aspects) removes from our life things that are not good for us. Sooooooooo, if your boyfriend ends up breaking up with you, in the end, when you look back, you will see that it's all good.

And keep in mind that a boyfriend is not a husband. Yes, that little piece of paper that differenciates the two matters. Saturn likes paper.

Also good time for you to lose some weight if you have too much poundage.

I know this is not probably what you want to hear right now, but that's all I got without more info on your chart.

posted January 10, 2016 11:28 PM            

Then Saturn went rx and I stopped being miserable, went out and mingled. Eventually entered a new relationship.
We stayed together though the transit the second time around.

Now it's 6 degrees away from my Venus, so I guess you could say I am done with it.

posted January 11, 2016 07:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
This transit as hard as it is, will not kill you.

Usually Saturn squares or opposition (unlike confusing Neptune or excessive Jupiter challenging aspects) removes from our life things that are not good for us. Sooooooooo, if your boyfriend ends up breaking up with you, in the end, when you look back, you will see that it's all good.

And keep in mind that a boyfriend is not a husband. Yes, that little piece of paper that differenciates the two matters. Saturn likes paper.

Also good time for you to lose some weight if you have too much poundage.

I know this is not probably what you want to hear right now, but that's all I got without more info on your chart.

~ I had to edit this post 7 times. Damn you, Mercury Rx!!!!

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Interesting, I am actually working on eating healthier (I don't need to lose any weight, but it's more for overall health). What do you mean by Saturn loves paper? Like, Saturn is more likely to disrupt marriages (which are on paper) ? Or Saturn is going to potentially remove relationships?