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posted January 11, 2016 03:12 AM            

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I have notice this with my family. I have two cancer moons in my family and I have noticed that they can tease and make fun of you, but then get mad when you do it to them. I had a friends a long time ago that used to do this with me. I just think that sometimes it's annoying that they can dish, but can't take it?

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posted January 11, 2016 03:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Geminiyoungster:
I have notice this with my family. I have two cancer moons in my family and I have noticed that they can tease and make fun of you, but then get mad when you do it to them. I had a friends a long time ago that used to do this with me. I just think that sometimes it's annoying that they can dish, but can't take it?

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That's happen when I usually ignore them or when they want to show act in front of other family members.

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posted January 11, 2016 03:54 AM            

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I live with 2 females (one currently away) that can't stand to be teased. One is a Cancer moon and the other a Cancer sun. So I don't tease them.

The Cancer moon (being a Sag sun) will tease me sometimes. It's not too bad, and I have ways of shutting her down if she gets too annoying about it, but generally speaking, I consider myself tough enough to take it while she's not. I don't let her walk over me, however (her Scorpio placements couldn't respect me if I did anyway). Of course other times she can be very sweet. I don't consider it a problem and if I'm annoyed by it then I'm probably cranky already.

There's also a boy (and a Leo at that) who loves to dish it out AND take it. He's outgrowing it but he'd pester and tease me trying to get me to do the same to him, and he'd laugh when I did so, especially if I chased him. (It probably didn't help that when we both got lightsabers to play with, I'd teach him Dun Möch in the hopes of teaching him not to let others provoke him into doing something stupid through taunting. Of course, he is a boy...though I have known boys who can't take teasing either.) I've had to explain to him that his mom and sister just can't take it, and his life would be easier if he didn't. But then I've got so much Sag (including moon) in my chart AND I was raised with much worse, that his teasing doesn't bother me at all (unless I need to concentrate on what I'm doing), and I know it's just play for him, and even a type of affection that doesn't make him feel awkward.

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