posted January 15, 2016 09:56 PM            

Oh okay Enjoy your laziness!

@cchampliss

Leos are too appealing, and this is a problem? Ohhh because they trine and captivate your Sag Venus? Threatening your independence? :-/ I know allllllllll about that.

posted January 15, 2016 10:36 PM            

I can't believe I'm talking about this especially since mercury retrograde brought this Leo back into my life again this past week.

posted January 15, 2016 10:42 PM            

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
Mostly yes. The most recent Leo, my Venus fell in their 3rd house and it brought out the most sweet talking, poetry reciting, cuddly little centaur in me. I was nuts Faith! Nuts!

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
Just that ego upkeep is hard work.

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Aw but you do it so well! I hope you call them "angel," "sent from above," etc etc too! It works on my Leo ASC like a charm!

Good luck

posted January 16, 2016 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Aw but you do it so well! I hope you call them "angel," "sent from above," etc etc too! It works on my Leo ASC like a charm!

Good luck

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Thanks Faith! I appreciate it!

posted January 16, 2016 05:49 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Is it normal for a Leo (especially a male Leo) to act like they don't care about their ex's because that would wound their pride? Like they always have to be the best and come out on top, even in the game of love. I got dumped by one and the way he acted was really uncaring and selfish. Guess Leo guys only do seem to care about themselves...

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posted January 18, 2016 02:19 PM            

Personally if I had messed up badly, I would apologize and admit it and try to make up for it if possible (the whole thing we are proud and dignified comes here). If amends wouldn't be possible, I would walk away FOR GOOD licking my wounds and sit in my cave for awhile and learn from my mistake. This would be the time when no one sees or hears from me, because I don't want to show that vulnerable side too exposed/shown.

Edit: Let me add that for a Leo to break up (at least this from a female perspective), it has to be really the last resort possible. We are one of the toughest and most resilient females out there and can go through the most difficult situations for someone we love or to save a relationship we think (and here it comes that word again...) is worth it.

posted January 18, 2016 05:05 PM            

bascially it was the other person's loss according to them

they were doing just fine overall

posted January 18, 2016 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
The Leo I broke up with, avoided me for months afterwards. I never knew they felt so strongly towards me but they hid it well.

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Yup, that's normal reaction. Only a very close friend will know the pain we go through (when it's a hard break up), but in social settings we don't let it show.

Sometimes that could be the pride playing games too like "see how well I am without you" type of thing, but in reality we are hurting.

posted January 18, 2016 09:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Sunnya:
Yup, that's normal reaction. Only a very close friend will know the pain we go through (when it's a hard break up), but in social settings we don't let it show.

Sometimes that could be the pride playing games too like "see how well I am without you" type of thing, but in reality we are hurting.

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Well I didn't know and that sucks. I was very much in love.

posted January 19, 2016 06:26 AM            

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
Well I didn't know and that sucks. I was very much in love.

Thank you for the insight. Quite a bit of peace I just found here.

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A big hug to you, take care.

posted January 19, 2016 08:10 AM            

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Originally posted by madelineleo23:
I'm a Leo woman. After a breakup I cut off all ties with that person. I will never speak to you again. If that person were to see me in public I would act as if I didn't know them. I don't see the point of staying friends. Yes it has a great deal to do with my pride.

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This is normally how I am with people I want no part of as well, but I can't help but feel it's digging into childish behaviour territory.

posted January 19, 2016 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
I had a Leo woman ignore me because I didn't want to cheat on my girlfriend with her. She didn't even want to be friends. Acts as if I was in the wrong.

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posted January 19, 2016 05:15 PM              

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Originally posted by Southern Sun:
This is normally how I am with people I want no part of as well, but I can't help but feel it's digging into childish behaviour territory.

However, people have to keep in mind that we are mostly kids at heart, and just want to be in an honest relationship. Some leos overstep their bounds in an earnest desire for happinesd and have to be reminded to tone it down.

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Dont say that, you know all people want to do is beat the spirit out of leos because our life force is so strong. Youre really a leo saying something like that?

That we should be reminded to tone it down?

I call imposter.

posted January 19, 2016 10:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Sunnya:
Female Leo here.
We have our naturally "mourning" period, but after that it will be very hard, if not impossible to get us back.
It's a mix of pride with the optimism/hope/future oriented focus that we will find a partner who will be more suitable and more worthy of us. (Not mean to offend with the "worthy" word but that's how we think, we don't like to waste time, we give it all to every one we care so that's what I mean...)

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posted January 19, 2016 10:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Spongebob:

Dont say that, you know all people want to do is beat the spirit out of leos because our life force is so strong. Youre really a leo saying something like that?

That we should be reminded to tone it down?

I call imposter.

If you are one we should be able to file papers to have you expelled from our team.

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posted January 20, 2016 12:49 AM            

There was this Scopio ex who dumped me after I found out he got his previous gf pregnant. I thought I should b the one doing the dumping but he beat me to it cos he got caught.

posted January 20, 2016 06:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Spongebob:

Dont say that, you know all people want to do is beat the spirit out of leos because our life force is so strong. Youre really a leo saying something like that?

That we should be reminded to tone it down?

I call imposter.

If you are one we should be able to file papers to have you expelled from our team.

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posted January 20, 2016 06:53 AM              

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Originally posted by Southern Sun:
You are right... This Leo sun persona is just a cover to hide Capricorn grumpiness

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posted January 22, 2016 12:27 PM            

When Scorpio ex dumped me, he wanted to look like Mr. Earnest. Since I showed up earlier than expected, he told me he wanted to take me out for food and do it.
And I told him I'm glad he didn't do that, and that I don't want him to do that.

At one point he told me that I am taking this well. (Seriously?!)

But when I was like "okay, well let me get my things...." He started crying and told me that he wanted to be friends. And begged me to wait to get my things, and that he would pack them for me. I was like fine.

Though he was the one who dumped me, my friends told me he had some strange reactions to my reactions. It really seems like my reactions didn't satisfy his ego. Just because I didn't beg him to give me another chance, does not mean my heart didn't break.

But I could finally see that we were not going to be happy together.

I even had a friend who would try to tell me his business, I told her I wasn't interested multiple times... I finally went off on her, and didn't speak to her for 4 months.

Does this sound Leo to any of you?