Which singns or placements fo you think find it particularly hard to let go of pain?

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misspriss Knowflake Posts: 104 From: London Registered: Nov 2015	posted January 17, 2016 10:00 AM From their childhood, past relationships do you think certain signs or placements are awful at this? IP: Logged
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 687 From: Registered: Aug 2015	posted January 17, 2016 10:39 AM Aargh. Gosh, I can't find an answer to this that's not a cliché. But a cliché is one for a reason, right? Almost any Scorp placement. Unless they have a healthy amount of Sag in the chart. Personal planets in 8th, Plutonic moon/venus (by that I mean Scorp moon/venus, moon/venus in 8th or moon/venus-aspect-pluto) - love has the capacity to devastate them, utterly. Special mention: Cancer mars. P.S. I'm thinking this post has a little something to do with recent Mr Scorpio? Edit: We should probably include synastry in this. People who are normally easy-going can once in a while be struck by a mad love, the ties to which are binding. Major glue interaspects could also be the factor in difficulty letting go. IP: Logged
misspriss Knowflake Posts: 104 From: London Registered: Nov 2015	posted January 17, 2016 10:44 AM Hey! No it had to do with me actually. Things seem to hurt me forever, whereas I know people that just let it go and forget it! IP: Logged
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 687 From: Registered: Aug 2015	posted January 17, 2016 10:45 AM quote: Originally posted by misspriss: Hey! No it had to do with me actually. Things seem to hurt me forever, whereas I know people that just let it go and forget it! Right, yeah, that's what I meant. I remember you saying at the end of that thread - about how hard it was to let things go. What are your other placements btw? Moon/Merc/Venus/Mars/Pluto? IP: Logged
Violets Knowflake Posts: 5238 From: Registered: Apr 2011	posted January 17, 2016 11:12 AM quote: Originally posted by Elysia: Aargh. Gosh, I can't find an answer to this that's not a cliché. But a cliché is one for a reason, right? Almost any Scorp placement. Unless they have a healthy amount of Sag in the chart. Personal planets in 8th, Plutonic moon/venus (by that I mean Scorp moon/venus, moon/venus in 8th or moon/venus-aspect-pluto) - love has the capacity to devastate them, utterly. Special mention: Cancer mars. I agree. In my experience, water and some earth, like Capricorn... H8 placements. Not really sure about Virgo and Taurus, but I'm thinking that Virgo could be responsible for holding onto resentments. Unless, as you mentioned, there are some fire placements like Sag and Aries to cancel it out. My husband and my mom both have Cap Moons and H8 placements, but my husband has a lot of fire/air (Sag, Leo, Aquarius) to balance it, and very little water in his chart. My husband rarely, if ever, holds onto resentment for longer than about two minutes. My mom is a Cancer Sun with Scorpio Asc, and she NEVER forgets a slight. Although she's an expert at forgetting crappy things that she's done herself, lol. I have water/H8 placements, and Cap Mars. I require either therapy, or tremendous introspection before I can forgive or get over hurt/anger. It's not fun. IP: Logged
misspriss Knowflake Posts: 104 From: London Registered: Nov 2015	posted January 17, 2016 11:27 AM Yes, with me pain never really goes. I don't forget it completely ever really. I know people who just let go and don't let it stay inside! My placements are: Sun, Scorp Moon, Pisces (7th house) Merc, Sag Venus, Scorp Mars, Leo Saturn, Virgo Asc, Libra IP: Logged
Cappi112 Knowflake Posts: 536 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: May 2015	posted January 17, 2016 11:28 AM Yeah, At this point in my life I feel like most days I am still processing sadness caused by something from 1 year ago or more.It takes forever to 'get over'that stuff, and I'm learning to just accept that being the way I feel from now on. Moon is in my 8th, in Libra. I am Cap sun in the 12th. Pluto in Scorpio in 8th. My moon is also way more dominant than my sun, aspecting almost everything in my chart (My sun is very 'quiet'.) So yes, my emotions rage pretty hard all the time under the surface and when something breaks my heart, I feel it. I always lose tons of sleep and weight. I suffer health problems. It's just the way I am. IP: Logged
DannyCappy Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: Jan 2016	posted January 17, 2016 11:37 AM Scorpio IP: Logged
charlie Knowflake Posts: 3526 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted January 17, 2016 01:01 PM My husbands doesn't forget, barely forgives, anything. He's an Aries Sun, Taurus Moon. Cap Mars. Pisces Venus/Asc. I forgive almost everything and forget nothing. Cancer Sun, Cap Moon. Virgo Mars, Asc. My mom doesn't forget anything either. Not sure if she forgives but if she doesn't, she's a good player. Scorpio Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury. IP: Logged
Spongebob Knowflake Posts: 324 From: Registered: Nov 2015	posted January 17, 2016 01:14 PM quote: Originally posted by Elysia: Aargh. Gosh, I can't find an answer to this that's not a cliché. But a cliché is one for a reason, right? Almost any Scorp placement. Unless they have a healthy amount of Sag in the chart. Personal planets in 8th, Plutonic moon/venus (by that I mean Scorp moon/venus, moon/venus in 8th or moon/venus-aspect-pluto) - love has the capacity to devastate them, utterly. Special mention: Cancer mars. P.S. I'm thinking this post has a little something to do with recent Mr Scorpio? Edit: We should probably include synastry in this. People who are normally easy-going can once in a while be struck by a mad love, the ties to which are binding. Major glue interaspects could also be the factor in difficulty letting go. This is true. Four planets in the eighth house (including moon conjunct pluto); cancer mars, and venus parallel pluto, here. IP: Logged
misspriss Knowflake Posts: 104 From: London Registered: Nov 2015	posted January 17, 2016 01:23 PM I have no planets at all in the 8th house. I sometimes feel my moon in pisces and the 7th house makes me very dependent on actions of others for my own emotions though Unlike most Scorpios, i am VERY forgiving, but I think much of that is down to working through things in my own life - reading - learning the beauty of forgiveness as part of my own journey. The one person I am very hard on is myself. Often feeling unworthy of love, often feeling to blame for the actions of others and allowing myself to feel pain unusually deeply IP: Logged
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 687 From: Registered: Aug 2015	posted January 17, 2016 01:42 PM Well, that Pisces moon alone is quite a handful. Add to that Sun & Venus in Scorp - and you know what that makes it. And yeah, moon in the 7th needs a partner to feel complete - emotionally very influenced by the S.O. Don't know any quick fixes or magic mantra for dealing with any of this. But one thing I've learnt, is you have to live it. The best way out is through. IP: Logged
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 687 From: Registered: Aug 2015	posted January 17, 2016 01:48 PM quote: Originally posted by Violets: My mom is a Cancer Sun with Scorpio Asc, and she NEVER forgets a slight. Although she's an expert at forgetting crappy things that she's done herself, lol. Gahh, that must be hard to deal with. quote: Originally posted by Violets: I have water/H8 placements, and Cap Mars. I require either therapy, or tremendous introspection before I can forgive or get over hurt/anger. It's not fun. I feel you. It's the cross that people who feel deeply have to bear. You're a Pisces sun too, right? Sensitivity and depth of feeling together create a massive ripple effect for outside negativity; that you have to deal with for a long time to come. IP: Logged
Violets Knowflake Posts: 5238 From: Registered: Apr 2011	posted January 17, 2016 01:52 PM quote: Originally posted by Elysia: I feel you. It's the cross that people who feel deeply have to bear. You're a Pisces sun too, right? Sensitivity and depth of feeling together create a massive ripple effect for outside negativity; that you have to deal with for a long time to come. Yep, Pisces Sun here. I personally believe that my Saturn in Cancer also contributes, even though it's considered semi-generational. It's not a good placement for it, and it's in H11. IP: Logged
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9667 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted January 17, 2016 02:03 PM Moon in hard aspect to Saturn and/or Pluto. Add to that some Scorpio energy and you're pretty much f**ked. IP: Logged
misspriss Knowflake Posts: 104 From: London Registered: Nov 2015	posted January 17, 2016 02:38 PM I think I am pretty much f**ked I was thinking of trying to form some exercises to resolve this issue in me - because I sepnd so much of my life sad about things that are over -it feels a waste of life IP: Logged
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9667 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted January 17, 2016 02:42 PM I'm an extreme case, misspriss. So you're not alone. IP: Logged
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 687 From: Registered: Aug 2015	posted January 17, 2016 03:17 PM quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Moon in hard aspect to Saturn and/or Pluto. Add to that some Scorpio energy and you're pretty much fked. Hehe. Moon sq. Pluto. Moon in 12th. Sun in 8th. Merc, Mars in Scorpio & in the 8th. Yeah, pretty much f**d. Been years since my last 'relationship'. Still reeling. IP: Logged
LF DX Knowflake Posts: 184 From: Paraguay Registered: Sep 2014	posted January 17, 2016 03:19 PM Moon in 11th Square Pluto in 8th. Sun-Mars-Pluto in Scorpio in 8th almost exact. Quite ****** up. IP: Logged
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 687 From: Registered: Aug 2015	posted January 17, 2016 03:21 PM quote: Originally posted by misspriss: I was thinking of trying to form some exercises to resolve this issue in me - because I sepnd so much of my life sad about things that are over -it feels a waste of life Hmm.. I've heard that meditation works. It bears looking into. So far, I just go for retail therapy. Also, #StuffYourFaceWithFood therapy. IP: Logged
deepseablues Knowflake Posts: 880 From: the ocean floor Registered: Jan 2014	posted January 17, 2016 05:12 PM quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Moon in hard aspect to Saturn and/or Pluto. Add to that some Scorpio energy and you're pretty much fked.** truth. added with afflicted Cap ASC, and reincarnation can seem quite futile. IP: Logged
Mystic_Cat Knowflake Posts: 579 From: Jupiter ♐ Registered: Jan 2014	posted January 17, 2016 05:20 PM Scorpio Leo Cancer moon conjunct Pluto ------------------ Correlations of ancient astronomy and astrology. IP: Logged
diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 95 From: Registered: Jul 2012	posted January 17, 2016 05:35 PM Cancer Scorpio IP: Logged
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 237 From: Registered: Jan 2015	posted January 27, 2016 01:59 AM quote: Originally posted by charlie: ... My mom doesn't forget anything either. Not sure if she forgives but if she doesn't, she's a good player. Scorpio Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury. It's funny, someone I know once told me that she forgets easily, it's hard for me to ask her because she always says she barely remembers. She often uses "I don't remember" when people confront her with issues/questions. IP: Logged
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1834 From: Registered: Jun 2015	posted January 27, 2016 07:30 AM Pisces moon has to be near the top of the list imo. I don't mean that in a bad way because although they feel the pain like it was yesterday they do continue to function normally. When they "revisit" the pain, there it is just as powerful as ever. IP: Logged

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