posted January 19, 2016 02:17 PM            

He claims I am the only woman he is talking to. He says he doesn't talk to more than one woman at once.

But he moves SO slow. He calls me everyday and we talk for hours but he doesn't want to meet up. We have went on a date but not since. He says I need to fix myself, to which I reply he needs to fix HIMSELF!

(He is going through financial problems and has recently needed to move back into his family home. I understand he is stressed...)

He gets jealous easily when I talk to other guys or hang out with my guy friends. He is very possessive and seems to want me all to himself but doesn't make a concrete physical effort.

Who can help me get into the mind of a Taurus venus male?

posted January 21, 2016 03:20 AM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
I'm dating a Taurus Venus right now. As with all men, if they want to be with you they will make it happen. No excuses. Women are always finding reasons and excuses to why a guy can't commit to us or why they don't want to be with us. It's exhausting analyzing everything. But if he wanted to be with you, it would happen, no matter what his Astrology placement are.

Back to Taurus Venus for a quick second. Yes they move slowly and cautiously in relationships. But I feel like they have to know 100% that you're a good match for them. They don't seem to just get involved with anyone. Especially with Capricorn Mars. Very slow moving. But if they're into you, you'll know because they will pursue you. Neither of these placements are wishy washy. If they want you, they'll go after you (see above).

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A++.
Guy with Taurus Venus.

You pretty much said what I would have said.

I know we can be slow and confusing, there's a Leo that I know that's confused if I'm actually interested or not.

But once there yours there yours.

posted January 22, 2016 05:39 AM            

The fact that he is already telling you that you have things to fix is very off-putting! You've only been dating this man for one month and he is already picking you apart. He should still be in cloud-nine and think you are the greatest thing since sliced bread. People are on their best behavior at the start of a relationship. The "love goggles" usually come off after 5-6 months in a relationship unless someone does something pretty egregious.

For curiosity's sake, you can ask him why he doesn't want to meet up in person if you wish but beware that his answer may really sting. If you want to spare yourself anymore confusion, tell him directly that his feelings for you seem ambiguous at best and that you want to officially end the relationship. Reassure him there are no hard feelings and that you understand he has a lot going on in his life.