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DopGang
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posted January 22, 2016 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I've been very frustrated, angry, annoyed, etc. I've always been too busy feeling that way to really give it thought.

I think the following may be Virgo mars, but let's see.

I noticed today that while moments ago I was REALLY frustrated and irritated, it was because we (at work) talk every day about certain things that are issues but then never actually DO anything to address them. We say that, "it needs corrected/fixed" but are never allowed the time and resources to dig into it.

I've noticed this with friends, family, or anyone. I don't mind helping and I don't mind being an ear to listen, etc. I'll be there. But when it's complaining followed by laziness with no action. I get very irritated.
When I have things that I don't like, or just need my attention, I'm going to take action. Whether directly or to begin forming a plan. There's no way I'm sitting still. I want to find a solution. If it's long term, well I expect to keep trying, planning, making some kind of headway.
Those that don't, irritate me.

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posted January 22, 2016 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am wondering if that might be a combination of Virgo/Pluto?

I'm a lot like that (but then, I also have Cap Mars, so maybe it's just earth Mars?).

I dated a guy with Virgo Mars for many years, and he was like that, mostly with other people, and politics. With his own life, he sometimes *sort of* had a plan of action, lol. But then, if it's a very deeply ingrained thing I want to change about myself/my life, it can sometimes take me a long time to figure out how to change that as well.

But I definitely get the whole "If you're just going to incessantly complain about your situation, but never do anything about it, please stop talking to ME about it."

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posted January 22, 2016 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunnya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Virgo Mars I know works in IT and gets REALLY irritated and grumpy about anyone coming into his office (he shares an office with other 3 people) just to chat. He gets really annoyed and complains a lot. He is actually the one who complains a lot about stuff and doesn't get it done... which is interesting considering the OP.

What he tells me he does is sometimes puts earphones on just so people think he is listening to music/is busy so they don't speak directly to him. However, he says it still annoys the crap out of him people moving in and out of the office and he can't work properly in days like that.

I can understand and commiserate, but it wouldn't drive me nuts. /hug

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posted January 22, 2016 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seimei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
talk every day about certain things that are issues but then never actually DO anything to address them. We say that, "it needs corrected/fixed" but


Yeah,
I understand it.
Not Virgo Mars,,
Sun and Pluto
progressed MC in Virgo,,

aggravating yes,
I suppose with Mars in Virgo its a real pita,, because you put your energy into it but you are alone in the degree that you are REALLY wanting to fix what is not efficient.
I think this is also a Pluto and Saturn thing > control.

answer >
serenity prayer,
let it go.
can only do Your best and then remind yourself to let go of what is not in your control.

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posted January 22, 2016 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting.

Pluto is active in my chart (with personal placements) and Saturn in Leo, 10th house. (Though my mc is cancer)

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posted January 22, 2016 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I suppose I should add that (for me personally) I am more patient with my work, regarding changes that need to be made but are not within the budget. That is because I usually work for non-profits, though. So in all honesty, there are a lot of issues that need to be fixed, but there just isn't the money.

But with other people...good lord people, don't talk to me about the same damned problem ad nauseam and act like you want input, but refuse to change anything.

I understand if people are struggling with just feeling stuck about an issue, but relentless complaining + zero action is sort of a red flag for me, lol.

I mean... I *care*, but I have my own neuroses to concern myself with, thanks.

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DopGang
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posted January 22, 2016 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Exactly.
Maybe it is Pluto. I do well in crisis situations but get annoyed with prolonged little annoyances.

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posted January 22, 2016 04:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it might be Pluto, but maybe a combination of Pluto with other placements (like Virgo, with a sort of impatience when it comes to inefficiency).

I've seen a lot of Virgo influenced people get pretty pissy when it comes to what they consider whining. Sometimes it borders on just straight up intolerance or a very narrow perspective, but I can definitely see Virgo being a contributor to the general scenario.

Edit.
Hopefully it goes without saying that I'm not trying to imply that I think you have a narrow perspective, etc. Double-checking, thanks to this stupid Mercury transit.

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posted January 22, 2016 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That would annoy my virgo mars s.o, yes. In general he just doesn't like "all talk" and no action. People who are angsty about past issues but don't take proactive steps to resolve those, people who say they want changes but don't do anything...etc...

He likes efficiency. To him, blaming, talking venting and complaining seldom bring any result worth noting.

It takes a while, but once he decides that he's done, he won't get involved or listen anymore.

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posted January 22, 2016 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^
Exactly.
Complaining doesn't get the job done.

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