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Mergoatsun
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posted January 25, 2016 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My father has been really sick for a very long time and I'm his legal caregiver, however his condition just keeps getting worse and I'm not sure how much longer he has left, at best 2 years tops. I was wondering what in my own solar return would indicate a death of a parent (specifically the father)?

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Faith
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posted January 25, 2016 05:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awful

You're too young for this....

I'll check my SR for that year....

He died the day after my birthday so the SR chart looks very similar to his death chart. I can't understand why the solar return ASC is at 13 Cap, putting my sun and Mercury on the ASC. Also his pr sun was at 14 Cap. That's just too weird. Chart ruler Saturn is on the 8H cusp, conjunct the moon, opposing Neptune. SR north node conjunct my Pisces moon with only 0.18° orb.

My mother died first and I have a lot of moon-Saturn in my chart, indicating how my father "mothered" me. In fact, that SR moon-Saturn is conjunct my mother's natal sun.

My father's SR chart for the year he died has Neptune right on the ASC, SR Pluto on his natal ASC, with pr sun opposing natal & pr Pluto.

I think these charts reflect individual circumstances, so it's hard to predict another person's indicators...the indicators will follow a whole pattern.

Please don't quote.

Hoping for a better turnout than you expect, with more support from others than you could have wished for.

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Mergoatsun
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posted January 25, 2016 08:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you faith, I appreciate the support. I pulled up my fathers solar return and the houses kind of concern me:

Mars in 8th
Saturn in the 8th
Uranus in 1st
Neptune in 12th
SR ASC in the 12th

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Faith
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posted January 25, 2016 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It does look concerning to my amateur eye, and it's serious regardless of what the charts say. My heart just goes out to you and your family. I hope your father is not in pain, and that he has some good days, or good hours, still.

Your SR must have Pluto conjunct sun for this year, square Uranus...it's probably going to be hard no matter what. I just hope you have a lot of support and help. It makes all the difference.

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Mergoatsun
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posted January 25, 2016 09:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I do have those aspects in my SR. I'm just going to trust in the universe that everything has a purpose, including all suffering. Thank you again faith

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Randall
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posted January 27, 2016 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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DopGang
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posted January 27, 2016 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SR I had a cardinal grand cross and a kite. (Pluto and Jupiter at the ends of the kite and part of the grand cross)
Also sun conjunct mercury opposite Neptune and moon.

Not sure if that means anything to your question. But that's what I had.

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EmGem
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posted January 27, 2016 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel for you. This post has brought up some tears for me remembering when mine passed.
I had Chiron conjunct Neptune in the 4th. Lots of patterns going on including a t square between Uranus, sun, Pluto. Also two grand kites: Saturn, Mars/vertex, Pluto, Neptune. And sun, Saturn, Mars/vertex, Jupiter. An envelope: sun, Saturn, Pluto, Neptune, Mars/vertex.

My heart goes out to you

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ChildofVenus
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posted January 27, 2016 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry about your father how do you find your Solar Return chart?

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Mergoatsun
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posted January 27, 2016 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for your support everyone! I really appreciate it.


Also, childofvenus I access mine on astrodienst.com but there are plenty of other sites that show them as well.

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