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Topic: Aspects for being taken advantage of?
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Libracorn
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From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted January 30, 2016 12:38 AM
  
Hey everyone! I just wanted your opinion on what aspects causes people to be victims of being taken advantage of?I often feel like people use me and don't really appreciate the things I do for them. I somewhat blame these factors in my chart: 1. Libra Sun & Moon: This makes me come off as very nice
2. Neptune conj Asc (Neptune 1st House): Same as above
3. Sun square Neptune
4. Moon square Neptune
5. Venus trine Jupiter IP: Logged |
curiouspisces89
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From: UK
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 30, 2016 06:24 AM
I think hard aspects from Neptune to Venus can also lead to person been taken for granted and used in some way, because the person can see the other person as ideal/ it's a delusional aspect  IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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posted January 30, 2016 06:53 AM
Pisces venuses i have often seen been taken advantage of by lovers and sometimes friends. My friend got a libra sun and moon and she can be such a people pleaser and even try to please people she shouldn't waste her time on. People know this and take advantage of that. IP: Logged |
Ann7
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From: united states
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 30, 2016 07:04 AM
Neptune conjunct ascendent - people often confuse my kindness for weakness. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted January 30, 2016 07:37 AM
Venus in pisces. Yaaaassssh. It's sad.IP: Logged |
Cappi112
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From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted January 30, 2016 07:44 AM
Hmm.. I am Venus in Pisces and have rarely felt taken advantage of. ? There are definitely always people out there who look at my kindness as a possible tool for them, but every time that has happened I've found the strength to shut them down, stop contact, and never go back.In relationships I won't stand for that kind of treatment either. I think it is not a Venus sign thing alone - but definitely if Venus or Moon are hard aspected, it can cause a person to struggle with their emotions or love in some way. Needing love but not receiving it the way they feel they NEED it. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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posted January 30, 2016 08:12 AM
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Originally posted by Cappi112:
Hmm.. I am Venus in Pisces and have rarely felt taken advantage of. ? There are definitely always people out there who look at my kindness as a possible tool for them, but every time that has happened I've found the strength to shut them down, stop contact, and never go back.In relationships I won't stand for that kind of treatment either. I think it is not a Venus sign thing alone - but definitely if Venus or Moon are hard aspected, it can cause a person to struggle with their emotions or love in some way. Needing love but not receiving it the way they feel they NEED it.
I have a friend with nice aspects to her venus in pisces and she gets so weak willed and wishy washy when in love and have major problems with boundaries and putting her foot down. Its sad to see how much she can tolerate from a guy. I definitively think it can be a sign thing because she isn't the first pisces venus i`ve seen this from. IP: Logged |
Soltze
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted January 30, 2016 09:16 AM
Oh boy, I have Venus opp Neptune. It does give the ilusion of weakness to others...but I have other things to balance that out.I'm very thankful that Saturn is conjunct Neptune exact in my chart lol On my side there's no illusions only scepticism really Leos who are very Moon or Neptune influenced tend not to see the bad in people as well. I've seen this happen. They just keep on giving and giving... IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted January 30, 2016 09:28 AM
^ can not agree more. I'mma one and I can see it too in my two close male friends. lol. (but we're an air and fire suns) - edit: oops, to @Dreaminess post  Usually and most of the time in the matter of love and by our lover, we tolerate too much. Sometimes we can not see when people are just shaking their head. lol. But until we learn hard and reach the point where those people are not worth it anymore, we're vanished. We forgive and ready to love again. Rarely looking back. I don't even reminisce. @Dreaminess, what's your friend sun sign? water sun? Edit:
Emm, sorry I just discover what's the meaning of "wishy washy" words there. lol. If I ever wishy washy it's actually when I'm in the state of not knowing where the relationship stand and sometimes when I'm too afraid to hurt other people, when I know they will get hurt with my decision and won't accept it (esp. to leave). It's kinda a sixth sense for me, I don't know, I have sextile neptune and conjunct angel. Sympathetic understanding of the woes of others also can be consuming. My friend also like that when his relationship in the state of not knowing where they stand. When they finally broke up, his gf still tries to get back with him. Because of his understanding, he still responses her but actually doesn't want to get back with her. So, yeah, can be confusing to some. lol. We can easily be the victims of being taken advantage of for easily to forgive, understanding, and hardly saying "no" sometimes. lol. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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posted January 30, 2016 10:04 AM
She`s an air sun. Yeah they can tolerate way too much and let themselves be taken advantage of bc of their love for a person and sometimes they aren't even aware their being taken advantage of either, its very sad and annoying to see. IP: Logged |
Cappi112
Knowflake Posts: 694
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted January 30, 2016 10:33 AM
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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
I have a friend with nice aspects to her venus in pisces and she gets so weak willed and wishy washy when in love and have major problems with boundaries and putting her foot down. Its sad to see how much she can tolerate from a guy. I definitively think it can be a sign thing because she isn't the first pisces venus i`ve seen this from.
Weird, hasn't been my experience at all. I'm pretty hard on people who cross boundaries. I also have flowing aspects to my Venus and Mars and a Libra moon and love people, but yeah - no problem cutting a cord if someone treats me badly.
Just like some Venus in Scorpios are cheaters and some are die-hard loyal; seems to have a lot more to do with other aspects. I'm curious to see what everyone posts to this thread!
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mamawolf
Knowflake Posts: 378
From: the universe
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 30, 2016 11:16 AM
My friend has Moon square Neptune and Dejanira smack dab in the middle of a 1st house stellium of Mercury and Venus, then Sun and Mars. I've only known her 1.5 years and watching her go back to the same damaged, manipulative and immature guy is very hard. It gets to the point where everyone stops giving advice because it doesn't change much. The things he says and does to her would make anyone else bash him over the head with a shovel and accidentally bury him alive...jk but still. She said she always attracts "bad boys" but from the sound of it, more like broken and insecure boys. so sad :/ I wonder what's really going on inside her head and heart.IP: Logged |
tgem
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Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 30, 2016 03:39 PM
Definitely VIP and 12th house venus!!IP: Logged |
thegrinning_cat
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posted January 31, 2016 06:50 AM
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