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Topic: Moon in the 11th House - What kind of Love do you need?
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thegrinning_cat
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posted February 01, 2016 04:14 PM
  
Are you Aquarian?
Or do you find comfort in doing Aquarian stuff?
What is your relation to friends?
How do you discern between love and friendship?
Did you have a distant relation to your mother?
How do you want to be loved?IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster
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posted February 01, 2016 05:17 PM
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Originally posted by thegrinning_cat:
Are you Aquarian?
Or do you find comfort in doing Aquarian stuff?
What is your relation to friends?
How do you discern between love and friendship?
Did you have a distant relation to your mother?
How do you want to be loved?
I noticed with me that, I can't keep close relationships with friends at all with this placement. But I have a sister who can meet ppl so easy. Keep in Mind she has a Libra moon though.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 01, 2016 05:25 PM
With questions like these im starting to wonder how we narrow down a reason to one placement like this.. I have Moon in Taurus 11H, and I like physical expression and a feeling of friendship. My ide relationship would feel more like best friends, not lovers. I want the closeness (and my Aries and air placements want fun) but not the heated arguments or needless drama a lot of people crave. I don't really care for mushy romance, but more practical ways of showing you care like filling my gas tank up or cleaning up after yoirself etc. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted February 01, 2016 07:25 PM
I don't think anyone likes fights or needless drama, I truly hate it as it affects my mood a lot going from happy to miserable quickly; 'like oh great here we go again'. I love your description about you placing a priority on the best friends over lovers.^Me and my husband have that kind of relationship and I feel is because of him having Uranus conjunct his DC, he also has MARS there; his ideal girl would help him built his dream home. His Mars-Uranus-DC in Scorp square his Venus in the 4th. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 01, 2016 09:12 PM
They may not seek it out, but they tolerate it because they value the relationship. Same diff to me *shrug*.IP: Logged |
FruityLlama
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posted February 02, 2016 08:20 AM
I have Taurus Moon in 11th house. Yeah friends are an area of life that seems so weird for me.
I need to feel secure in a relationship. I hate drama and mind games. Unfortunately its so easy for people to be passive aggressive these days on social media  I really need my partner to be with my physically. At the moment I get so down about things, and overanalyse things IP: Logged |
FruityLlama
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posted February 02, 2016 08:23 AM
-Are you Aquarian?
Not too much, on pullen I am cited as being Uranian- I think this fits more.
-Or do you find comfort in doing Aquarian stuff?
I'm not sure what Aquarian stuff is- I'm not a big socialiser actually
-What is your relation to friends?
Okay now, growing up it wasn't easy
-How do you discern between love and friendship?
Literally if there are romantic feelings= love. If not then its fondness and that is friendship, for me
-Did you have a distant relation to your mother?
No, we are very close!
-How do you want to be loved?
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Aunt Anomalia
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From: Pandora's Box Tech
Registered: Mar 2015
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posted February 02, 2016 09:19 AM
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I'm not sure what Aquarian stuff is- I'm not a big socialiser actually
I think Aquarius is more interested in improving the society than socializing.------------------
The first psychic femdroid on the market. IP: Logged |
goddessinworld
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From: Uranus
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted February 03, 2016 09:56 AM
-Are you Aquarian?Well I'm Aquarius dominant to begin with. But my moon being scorpio its a lot different. -What is your relation to friends? Friends have been always hard. They don't stay mostly, or hurt me. -How do you discern between love and friendship? i dont know... -Did you have a distant relation to your mother? I am distant to my mother, our relationship is not beneficial to either of us. -How do you want to be loved? I want to be loved for the way I am, I want someone who can make me feel ok w being me. IP: Logged |
carm76
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From: Sirius
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted February 03, 2016 10:47 AM
I have my moon conjunct chiron in 11H of aries.Are you Aquarian?
No Do you find comfort in doing Aquarian stuff?
I like to research/learn, i'm not into TV or "famous people" What is your relation to friends?
I have friends, no BBF's How do you discern between love and friendship? Love is a verb and so i love doing things with my friends or by myself. Friendship is hard for me, cancer rising, neptune conjunct sun and mars in 6H of sag. Also because of interests. Did you have a distant relation to your mother?
physically, no.
Emotionally, yes but not on my part. How do you want to be loved?
unconditionally.
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hannaramaa
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posted February 04, 2016 11:00 PM
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Originally posted by thegrinning_cat:
Are you Aquarian?
Or do you find comfort in doing Aquarian stuff?
What is your relation to friends?
How do you discern between love and friendship?
Did you have a distant relation to your mother?
How do you want to be loved?
I know I answered but I'm bored... I would say I'm more Aquarian than not. I've always been the black sheep or "different" in some way. I rebel and am oppositional definitely. Aquarian stuff - too vague, can't answer. My friends are my LIFE. I drop everything for them if I can, I am very flexible and forgiving with them, and extremely generous. I'm not always the most mature but I will bend over backwards for a friend. This has been a hard lesson to swallow throughout life every time I outgrow a friendship or find out a friend has betrayed me. My mom has a strong psychological hold over me (something I just recognized this year). She was my sister, and my mom, but never my "friend" like some people have. I definitely feel a lot more affection and love and appreciation for her now that I've been living on my own for four years than I did when we lived together. I don't know that how I want to be loved can be answered through astrology because most of our love patterns stem from how we were raised. On a simpler level I love lots and lots of physical attention, not a big fan of being read poetry (don't perform an original song you wrote just for me - just make me a mix tape of popular songs that explain how you feel, you know?) or big flashy productions of "love." I like to think I'm low key about it. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo
Knowflake Posts: 590
From: Sittin' on Mercury
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted February 05, 2016 12:59 AM
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Originally posted by thegrinning_cat:
Are you Aquarian?
Or do you find comfort in doing Aquarian stuff?
What is your relation to friends?
How do you discern between love and friendship?
Did you have a distant relation to your mother?
How do you want to be loved?
One of my family members has this placement. Capricorn Moon in her 11th house. Friendships are very important to her - I would even go as far to say that they're more important to her than her marriage is. Family doesn't mean as much to her - she likes them well enough, but at the end of the day, she would much rather be surrounded by friends than family. Family that is more like friends is even better. She does like to provide for her family though, primarily through money/gifts. ETA: She also doesn't liked to be hugged, and she doesn't hand out hugs, either. It took me most of my life thus far to realize that it had nothing to do with me or anybody else in our family. It's just how she is. IP: Logged |
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