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Topic: Scorpios
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Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 06, 2016 06:16 PM
  
All the things they say to never do with a Scorpio I've done, and Scorpio is still on my tail. Perhaps I'm confusing pity/friendship for interest.Scorpio sins/don'ts: 1. Have a reputation: check (all lies)
2. Ignore Scorpio: check
3. Play games with Scorpio: check
4. Flirt/hook-up with others in front of Scorpio: check Things used to be cool between us, I just couldn't make a satisfying intellectual connection. Sorry Scorpy; deep looks, sexual aura, and innuendo won't cut the mustard here. Things would start moving in the right direction (intellectually) the suddenly Scorpio would cut off and switch into flirt mode: deep looks, body positioning...ugh It must be true what they say about Geminis - do not flirt! IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 13945
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 06, 2016 06:38 PM
Well I bet you have not slept with him but did flirt with him at some point so at this point doing those things would not be a problem bc of the thrill of the chase for any sign.IP: Logged |
UrsusBlack
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posted February 06, 2016 07:05 PM
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Ann7
Knowflake Posts: 923
From: united states
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 06, 2016 07:12 PM
Don't worry, the scorpio will eventually lose interest and move on. You will cease to exist in their world. IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 3866
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 06, 2016 10:01 PM
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Don't worry, the scorpio will eventually lose interest and move on. You will cease to exist in their world.
I thought we'd cross this bridge. This is why I was shocked to see Scorpio enter the frame while exchanging #s with a fun Sag. Or more recently try to make small talk after it was patently clear I was in pursuit of one of their "friends". quote:
Well I bet you have not slept with him but did flirt with him at some point...
Yes, this is true. There have been flirting in the past. The first time round I became irritated with Scorpio's style and made myself scarce. Months later somehow we were flirting again. This time I devised a plan; ask Scorpio out, Scorpio will say no, now Scorpio will understand why I have to cut contact and move on. This worked for a while... quote:
Have you tried flat out saying you are no longer interested? D:
For now I'm playing the whole one-word answers game. IP: Logged |
UrsusBlack
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posted February 06, 2016 11:04 PM
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Nine
Moderator Posts: 3866
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 06, 2016 11:16 PM
^^I'll need to work up the courage first.IP: Logged |
UrsusBlack
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posted February 06, 2016 11:29 PM
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hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 06, 2016 11:42 PM
Wait you asked him out and he said no??IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 3866
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 06, 2016 11:44 PM
"I have other plans"IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 13945
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 06, 2016 11:49 PM
I wonder if he likes you but bc of your "rep" he stays away but still wants to enjoy your attention so flirts with you which is not cool and fair to you. Or maybe now that you have moved on to Mr.Sag he is interested but too late... IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 13945
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 06, 2016 11:55 PM
He probably wants you to like him and stay under his spell bc it boosts his confidence even though he won't go for it for whatever reason but you don't want to play that game and are enjoying more the upfrontness of Sag, hope it works out with Mr.Sag. IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 3866
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 07, 2016 01:23 AM
Yea, there is major game playing going on. The 'I have other plans" (x2) answers told me all I needed to know.IP: Logged |
aqua0120
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Registered: Feb 2016
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posted February 07, 2016 03:30 AM
I understand what you're experiencing. I think it's because scorpios are or can be obsessive? But I attract scorpios like no other (still can't find out why) and no matter how cold I act or even outright blunt, they don't leave. Especially this one guy in particular, it's pretty astonishing.IP: Logged |
outofideas
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posted February 07, 2016 03:37 AM
I think he may be very determined to see you finally fall for him so he can move on to his next "victim"?  IP: Logged |
misspriss
Knowflake Posts: 213
From: London
Registered: Nov 2015
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posted February 07, 2016 05:40 AM
I speak not for all Scorpios, but I know in my case I make exceptions for the rules if I just have a gut feeling about someone. My gut feelings are generally right...so maybe you should give this guy a chance!IP: Logged |
DopGang
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From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted February 07, 2016 05:55 AM
What's the rest of the chart like? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted February 07, 2016 07:46 AM
Sounds like a Uranian Scorpio who loves the chase or a Saturian Scorpio who believes in "sticking it out and things will get better".IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted February 07, 2016 07:48 AM
Scorpios are also big on revenge so he might just be waiting until you change your behavior so he can "flip the script" and start with the power plays & right now, you're the one in control. "right now" be careful.IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 3866
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 07, 2016 08:17 AM
^^three personal planets in Scorpio, plus Pluto. quote:
I think he may be very determined to see you finally fall for him so he can move on to his next "victim"?
I tried playing the "I've fallen for you" game, didn't work. Now I believe Scorpio thinks I'm hurt or upset and that's why I've stopped playing. No. That was a game to let Scorpio win and move on to the next worthy admirer. quote:
I speak not for all Scorpios, but I know in my case I make exceptions for the rules if I just have a gut feeling about someone. My gut feelings are generally right...so maybe you should give this guy a chance!
This one really p!sses me off. I walked away the first time because of the silences and the short answers, and generally after an interaction I would feel terrible: insulted, ticked off, cut off. I'm not dealing with that again. quote:
Scorpios are also big on revenge so he might just be waiting until you change your behavior so he can "flip the script" and start with the power plays & right now, you're the one in control. "right now" be careful.
I know. I'm NOT interested!! Romantically or otherwise. Way too much Scorpio, Sun & Moon, for me to deal with.
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Doux Rêve
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posted February 07, 2016 01:32 PM
It's the thrill...IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted February 07, 2016 10:04 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
It's the thrill...
It's the "chase"... 
Nine, either create a situation that could be described as [emo] extreme* in order for that simmering drama queen to react, or ignore them completely.
*This is why the superior Mars energy is the Aries energy, not Scorpio. IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 3866
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 07, 2016 10:36 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
It's the "chase"...
Nine, either create a situation that could be described as [emo] extreme* in order for that simmering drama queen to react, or ignore them completely.
*This is why the superior Mars energy is the Aries energy, not Scorpio.
The more drama I stir up the more Scorpios I attract. LOL I'm in a Scorpio hothouse. Think I'll go with the the ignore option. I'll also make a point to flirt and get cozy with non-Scorps when Scorpy is about. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted February 08, 2016 02:01 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Nine:
I'll also make a point to flirt and get cozy with non-Scorps when Scorpy is about.
I don't think this will work in your case as it generally tends to... You've showed interest in him by asking him on a date - twice! He'll understand your actions as deliberate, and probably will end up thinking you're trying to make him jealous. 
(On unrelated note, do you perchance have any experience with Gem Mars men??)
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Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 1739
From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 08, 2016 04:21 AM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Scorpios are also big on revenge so he might just be waiting until you change your behavior so he can "flip the script" and start with the power plays & right now, you're the one in control. "right now" be careful.
Oh yeah... ! ------------------
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