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Odette Moderator Posts: 6665 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 19, 2016 11:36 PM
This is just for fun, if you feel like it! Take this quiz... and post your results, with your Moon sign/house/aspects and anything else that might be relevant! http://psychcentral.com/quizzes/romancequiz.htm --- I thought this was pretty accurate. Mine suits Capricorn Moon: quote: Your romantic attachment style: Cool and DismissiveYou have suggested that you have a dismissing style toward attachments, that they are really not too important to you. It is likely that you get along in your relationships, but don't invest yourself very much in them. You are also likely not to experience a great deal of distress in life and you probably don't experience feelings that are extremely intense, compared to people around you. Compared to them, you probably are not as excitable and tend not to get worked up over things. This is a perfectly fine way to be and it probably keeps you on a very even keel. However, someday you may find that you are starting to feel lonely and that you would like to have closer relationships. If this should happen, but you find that you are unable to achieve the closeness you want, you may want to engage the services of a professional psychotherapist. This is the kind of life change that a professional can really help with. Remember that attachment styles exist in degrees, and in this test, the degree to which a style is true for you will make a difference in your interpretation. Everyone has to have some style or another, and the features of any one style only become maladaptive when they exist in the extreme.
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10933 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 19, 2016 11:59 PM
I got very high scores for relationship avoidance and anxiety, with an attachment style of "cool and dismissive." 😂 I think it's the fact so many of my passionate placements are in the 11th house, and Mars in the 12th. Secondly my cautious earth moon (also 11H). Moon and Venus in Saturn, and Moon /Pluto. I think I need me a Leo/Pisces person really. I haven't dated one before, I usually get Cap/Sag (very logical and detached signs!)IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 470 From: Michigan, USA Registered: Aug 2015
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posted February 20, 2016 12:09 AM
My style is secure and happy, an even balance. My Leo moon in the 10th house applauds this. As does my 4th house venusIP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Colorado, United States Registered: Jul 2015
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posted February 20, 2016 12:11 AM
quote: Your romantic attachment style: Fearful and ShyYou have described yourself as fearfully attached. This suggests that compared to others, you may be a little introverted and find it hard to speak up for yourself. You probably find it a little difficult to become romantically involved because of your concern about getting out there and the possibility of getting hurt. You're likely experience shyness a bit more strongly than others do, and that helps make you stick close to home. You may feel less self confident than other people. For some people who are a bit fearful, this is just fine. However, for others, this orientation can be a problem. If you feel you are fearful in your romantic involvements, but would like to become less so, you may find that you will benefit from assertiveness training. This is a form of training in which you are gradually challenged to stick up for yourself more, to become more active in going after what you want in life, in all domains. The challenge is gradual to avoid turning off the training before it can help you. And the rewards are strong. Remember that attachment styles exist in degrees, and in this test, the degree to which a style is true for you will make a difference in your interpretation. Everyone has to have some style or another, and the features of any one style only become maladaptive when they exist in the extreme.
This sounds like an 8th House Moon for sure lol The self-confidence thing isn't necessarily true, but Saturn is on the descendant, so I tend to find myself restricted. I want to have a deep, intimate relationship with someone, but I just can't seem to. I think the way I feel is at odds with my 6 Air planets, including Venus and the Moon lol (Aqua and Gem respectively). Relationship Avoidance: 101 Relationship Anxiety: 93 IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 4989 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted February 20, 2016 12:20 AM
Measure Your score Relationship Avoidance: 83 Relationship Anxiety: 87 Attachment style: Secure and Happy quote: ...you tend to be pretty evenly balanced in your attachment style. You are not significantly more anxious about them, nor significantly avoiding intimacy or emotional closeness in relationships. This is a healthy balance, but it also may mean that it is more difficult for you to find someone else who has achieved this same healthy balance! Most people tend to either have greater anxiety or greater avoidance in relationships. You'd probably be most comfortable and at ease in a relationship where your partner is also fairly balanced in their romantic attachment approach. Your romantic attachment style: Secure and Happy You have described yourself as securely attached. This means that you are likely to have happier relationships and be better able to sustain commitments than people who have an insecure attachment style. You are likely to have more positive emotional experiences and to be more happy and outgoing in interpersonal relationships. You will be more likely to express what you really feel. You are more likely to be able to depend on others when it is appropriate, and yet able to function autonomously in your own sphere when that is appropriate.
Gemmy H7 with a Mars Cancer H7. Stellium in the Cancer H8 Vesta Cancer trine Saturn Scorpio Uranus-Jupiter Cancer H8 sextile Virgo Moon H9 Venus Taurus 5th in-balance with Saturn Scorpio 11th Venus quintile Uranus Southwestern chart emphasis IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 535 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted February 20, 2016 12:29 AM
quote: Your romantic attachment style: Secure and HappyYou have described yourself as securely attached. This means that you are likely to have happier relationships and be better able to sustain commitments than people who have an insecure attachment style. You are likely to have more positive emotional experiences and to be more happy and outgoing in interpersonal relationships. You will be more likely to express what you really feel. You are more likely to be able to depend on others when it is appropriate, and yet able to function autonomously in your own sphere when that is appropriate. You are also more likely to raise children who themselves will have a secure attachment style.
That's a 5th house Moon and a 7th house Venus for you IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 2674 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 20, 2016 12:35 AM
3rd house aries moon. 12th house cap venus. Your romantic attachment style: Secure and Happy You have described yourself as securely attached. You are likely to have more positive emotional experiences and to be more happy and outgoing in interpersonal relationships. You will be more likely to express what you really feel. You are more likely to be able to depend on others when it is appropriate, and yet able to function autonomously in your own sphere when that is appropriate. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 3661 From: Miami Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 20, 2016 02:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mergoatsun: My style is secure and happy, an even balance. My Leo moon in the 10th house applauds this. As does my 4th house venus
Same here Moon in Pisces ruling the 8th conjunct my IC. IP: Logged |
bonsai Knowflake Posts: 29 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 20, 2016 02:57 AM
Mine is: quote:
Fearful and ShyYou have described yourself as fearfully attached. This suggests that compared to others, you may be a little introverted and find it hard to speak up for yourself. You probably find it a little difficult to become romantically involved because of your concern about getting out there and the possibility of getting hurt. You're likely experience shyness a bit more strongly than others do, and that helps make you stick close to home. You may feel less self confident than other people. For some people who are a bit fearful, this is just fine. However, for others, this orientation can be a problem. If you feel you are fearful in your romantic involvements, but would like to become less so, you may find that you will benefit from assertiveness training. This is a form of training in which you are gradually challenged to stick up for yourself more, to become more active in going after what you want in life, in all domains. The challenge is gradual to avoid turning off the training before it can help you. And the rewards are strong. Remember that attachment styles exist in degrees, and in this test, the degree to which a style is true for you will make a difference in your interpretation. Everyone has to have some style or another, and the features of any one style only become maladaptive when they exist in the extreme. [/B]
I don't know astrology all that well, such as the dynamics of planets in each house, but FWIW I'm sun in Leo, moon in Gemini with Virgo rising.
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Sunnya Knowflake Posts: 374 From: Sunnyland Registered: Jun 2014
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posted February 20, 2016 08:59 AM
quote: Your romantic attachment style: Secure and Happy You have described yourself as securely attached. This means that you are likely to have happier relationships and be better able to sustain commitments than people who have an insecure attachment style.You are likely to have more positive emotional experiences and to be more happy and outgoing in interpersonal relationships. You will be more likely to express what you really feel. You are more likely to be able to depend on others when it is appropriate, and yet able to function autonomously in your own sphere when that is appropriate. You are also more likely to raise children who themselves will have a secure attachment style.
Moon in early Taurus in the 5th. Uranus in the first. Leo stellium trined by Uranus and finally getting along with the Scorpio squares. Looking especially at you dear Saturn and ASC /hug.
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Elysia Knowflake Posts: 823 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted February 20, 2016 09:02 AM
FWIW, I got: Romantic attachment style: Fearful and Shy 12H Aqua Moon. IP: Logged |
Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 464 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 20, 2016 10:44 AM
Relationship Avoidance: 98 Relationship Anxiety: 87 Intense and preoccupiedScorpio ASC with Pluto/Venus/Merc tight in 1st house. Moon in 11H Libra ..Yea, Pretty much!! haha IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1263 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 20, 2016 02:00 PM
<div align="center"> <a href="http://psychcentral.com/quizzes/romancequiz.htm"> <img src="http://i2.pcimg.org/romance_preocc.gif" alt="I'm preoccupied and intense in my relationships." width="200" height="90" border="0"></a></div>
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HCtheQueenOfWands Knowflake Posts: 141 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2015
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posted February 21, 2016 04:41 AM
At this stage of your development in romantic relationships, you tend to be pretty evenly balanced in your attachment style. You are not significantly more anxious about them, nor significantly avoiding intimacy or emotional closeness in relationships. This is a healthy balance, but it also may mean that it is more difficult for you to find someone else who has achieved this same healthy balance! Most people tend to either have greater anxiety or greater avoidance in relationships. You'd probably be most comfortable and at ease in a relationship where your partner is also fairly balanced in their romantic attachment approach. So congratulate yourself!! You're a part of a well-balanced breed when it comes to your romantic attachment style. Your romantic attachment style: Fearful and Shy You have described yourself as fearfully attached. This suggests that compared to others, you may be a little introverted and find it hard to speak up for yourself. You probably find it a little difficult to become romantically involved because of your concern about getting out there and the possibility of getting hurt. You're likely experience shyness a bit more strongly than others do, and that helps make you stick close to home. You may feel less self confident than other people. For some people who are a bit fearful, this is just fine. However, for others, this orientation can be a problem. If you feel you are fearful in your romantic involvements, but would like to become less so, you may find that you will benefit from assertiveness training. This is a form of training in which you are gradually challenged to stick up for yourself more, to become more active in going after what you want in life, in all domains. The challenge is gradual to avoid turning off the training before it can help you. And the rewards are strong. Remember that attachment styles exist in degrees, and in this test, the degree to which a style is true for you will make a difference in your interpretation. Everyone has to have some style or another, and the features of any one style only become maladaptive when they exist in the extreme. Leo moon sq Pluto wide Moon in 11/12th Moon opp Uranus,Venus,Merc&Jupiter Saturn in 7H Being an abused woman IP: Logged |