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Koniucha
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posted February 22, 2016 07:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do I deal with this? I am at the point where I am scared to like anyone else because I always fall for the wrong guy. Then I have a hard time letting go of them.

I am dealing with this right now. I really like the guy, but there isn't anything there. It still doesn't stop me from obsessing over him

I also have Venus conjunct Saturn, so liking someone is a big deal to me.

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visions
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posted February 22, 2016 07:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for visions     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
for venus square neptune i would like to say wait for testimonies before giving anything, and give time before commit yourself and be ware of...be realistic..try to find the shortcomings of the people, what they hide, wait they revealed themselves especially their shadowside etc...

but i must confess it's a pretty doomed aspect, you will be always cheated, mislead or you will misread other people or sink in illusion about others the world etc...

i don't want to be harsh on you but it's a difficult aspect i have mars square neptune and i have the same bad stuff to deal with from what i say in a man's view of mars square neptune. so You are deceived all your life etc...even with a strong saturn like mine when you are more and more cautious with time and realistic it's like neptune find always a way to mistreat you.

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DopGang
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posted February 22, 2016 07:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For me it's making a conscious choice every day to look at the person realistically. I make the decision to see the whole situation and visualize the same things that would annoy me.
Venus square Neptune seems to come from the unconscious to the conscious, causing delusion.
So you need to consciously look with a somewhat critical, realistic eye. It has to be daily. It takes persistence. Now that I'm aware of it thanks to astrology, I work hard at this every single day no matter my relationship status. It's still a struggle sometimes. A small crack in my strategy and I'm left open. You seriously have to dedicate yourself to doing this everyday, not just when you see a potential issue or it may be too late.

That's what works best for me.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted February 22, 2016 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Koniucha,

You have Venus conjunct Jupiter and Saturn, but not square Neptune. That would mean a separating 9° orb, and that is too wide.

What DopGang says, however, is very relevant, given Neptune's other aspects in your chart.

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Randall
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posted February 25, 2016 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Kannon.

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