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Odette
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posted February 24, 2016 08:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you have this rising sign.....

Do you relate to being a serial monogamist?

And... when you are in a relationship... do you usually want to spend as much time as possible with your partner?
Almost like... if you could... you would take them everywhere with you?

e.g.
"Peter, Peter pumpkin eater,
Had a wife but couldn't keep her;
He put her in a pumpkin shell
And there he kept her very well."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Peter_Pumpkin_Eater

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Odette
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posted February 24, 2016 09:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Urban Dictionary... definition:

serial monogamist
function: noun

One who spends as little time as possible being single, moving from the end of one relationship to the beginning of a new relationship as quickly as possible.

Although the relationships in which many serial monogamists find themselves are also often short lived, the defining aspect of serial monogamy is the desire and ability to enter new relationships very quickly, thus abbreviating any period of single life.

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Ami Anne
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posted February 24, 2016 09:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can relate to this and I am a Libra Asc lol

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posted February 24, 2016 09:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes to all.

Though as I've gotten older that has faded away. I spent a few years all by my lonesome.

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Odette
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posted February 24, 2016 09:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Omg ^^

I forgot you guys had Libra AC!

This is really strange because you have both been helping me all this time... whenever I've asked questions about this guy.

I'm starting to think the biggest issue is the difference between his Libra side.. and my Aries sunshine...

Maybe there is the possibility of striking a balance though.

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posted February 24, 2016 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DopGang:

Though as I've gotten older that has faded away. I spent a few years all by my lonesome.

Hmmm.... You know... what I find interesting is that.. when he mentions being single... there's always an air of melancholy about it.
You saying "all by my lonesome"... reminds me a bit of the same sort of tone he has.

And he seems to think people in general would be happier, if they found "the one"...
I feel like this may well be a Libra -thing-... since Libra is the sign of relationships.

Whereas myself.. being an Aries... I feel like.. I am not even interested in looking for "the one" at all.
From my perspective... if it so happens that I bump into someone compatible - then great! And if not, I am extremely happy single. Not just content, but genuinely *happy*.

It's a completely opposite world view.

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posted February 24, 2016 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mattva     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i completely agree

im a 20degree libra asc. And I hate being single and that air of melancholy is always around. But that doesn't mean I jump into relationships all the time. In fact, I have a hard time finding the one. With the wrong person, as much as I hold on to them, you can tell that I am sad but forcing myself to be happy.

But i COULD fall in love with just about anyone. The only thing that rejects it is my aquarian sun/moon.

And when I am in love, I want them around non stop. From waking up to bed time ... and if possible even while dreaming. Hate that I love it so much. I also have a pisces venus/mars. f*kn emotional hell.

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posted February 24, 2016 10:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Libra ASC has the Aries DSC, so we admire the Aries traits and aspire to them, Odette.

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posted February 24, 2016 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 24, 2016 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Mmmm... Yeah. I do have Venus square Neptune which doesn't help and got all of the blame. Maybe it didn't deserve it.

I will say that having a person enter your world in this way seems to have ruffled your feathers a bit.

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posted February 24, 2016 12:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ex was a libra ascendant. He had only been in one relationship before me (we started dating when we were 25). His other relationship was in high school. He told me he didn't want to get in a relationship unless he knew 100% that the other person was right for him. So he was selective I guess.

However, despite his Sag sun and Aries moon, he was clingy in both a relationship and with friends. He couldn't go to the gym or go to the store alone. Everything had to be done with someone or else he wouldn't do it.

He did want to be with me all the time. After a long day I would want to go upstairs to our room and just watch tv and be alone for an hour or so. And he'd want to lay right next to me even though I said I'd want to be alone. He would just say he would be quiet just that he wanted to be in the room with me. lol, he reminded me of my German shepherd who follows me room to room.

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posted February 24, 2016 01:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Edit. nvm

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posted February 24, 2016 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dopgang - Thank you! You're right that it has ruffled my feathers because I love him... and I would like things to work, not fail.
Could you please unquote me?

Thanks Polkadotstars! - How did you deal with this? Was it something you were ok with, or did you talk to him about it? And... did this have anything to do with the end of your relationship?

Elysia - I really appreciate your reply on my other thread. I read it three times over and I understand your perspective very much so. I think he (the guy in question) feels the same way.
The problem is that.... I honestly just don't view "priorities" in this way. I don't feel like -whether or not I can make someone a priority- should be a measure of my love for that person.

For me -priorities- change from day to day, depending on what is more important or urgent at that time. I think I organise priorities based on "responsibility"..putting things I know I -must- do, before the things that I just want to do, or find enjoyable (I think this is a Capricorn thing).
It's definitely not meant to offend anyone or make them feel unloved.

Do you have a Libra AC yourself? Would there be any way for me to communicate my version of "priorities" without him taking offence?

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posted February 24, 2016 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also i would like to mention Libra Risngs are very polite people we are excellent at being polite and we defently don't like to discredit others as we all believe in equality and balance with others. I' m a capricorn as well but my libra rising does make me appear to others that I'm a very nice gentle creature which would shock them that sometimes i can not.

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posted February 24, 2016 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uhm yes, all of it. I'm pretty sure I was the queen of serial monogamy before I met my SO. I just wanted to have someone by my side, I craved it. However now that I have my SO I want to spend all the time possible with him, if I could carry him with me I would hahah

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posted February 25, 2016 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:

Elysia - I really appreciate your reply on my other thread. I read it three times over and I understand your perspective very much so. I think he (the guy in question) feels the same way.
The problem is that.... I honestly just don't view "priorities" in this way. I don't feel like -whether or not I can make someone a priority- should be a measure of my love for that person.

For me -priorities- change from day to day, depending on what is more important or urgent at that time. I think I organise priorities based on "responsibility"..putting things I know I -must- do, before the things that I just want to do, or find enjoyable (I think this is a Capricorn thing).
It's definitely not meant to offend anyone or make them feel unloved.

Do you have a Libra AC yourself? Would there be any way for me to communicate my version of "priorities" without him taking offence?


Yeah, I understand.. Neither do I - just in some cases/situations..

Hmm..it may seem difficult, but it's not un-doable. He just has to get used to your way of looking at it. Can't tell how you can get there faster without knowing his placements, actually.. But you know, not that different from the way you would normally deal with any issue. Depends on the element/aspects of his Venus/Merc - whether he would respond best to action, emotion, intellect or tangible proof. You know him better, so take your pick.

For instance, blow off your family plans for a day with him when you have an off from work. (Kinda random, I know - but you get what I mean. Just some signal.)

Or, if all else fails,
"Dessert last, baby." *kiss*

P.S. I'm not a Libra Asc though..

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posted February 25, 2016 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My girlfriend who is a libra rising herself is also a serial monogamist she was always in 5-7 year relationships since she was 15 years old after she would leave a 6 year relationship she would get into another relationship in a month. She was always getting into relationship after relationship which I kind of don't like....she has sun in the 7th house which CONJUNCTS my moon in the 7th house. We also have ASC CONJUNCT ASC.

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posted February 25, 2016 12:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Of course, this is obvious, but the Rising would be very modified by the Sun and Moon, as far as clingy or not.

I am Gemini Venus, Merc and Sun, so that would be anti-clingy.

Cancer Moon would be clingy, so it is a mixed bag

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