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Topic: Who are better lovers? Water vs Earth
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Wondering
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From: USA
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted March 18, 2016 10:39 AM
  
I'm torn between two people..One has a Scorpio Venus
and one has a Capricorn Venus. Both are amazing men ... very loving. However, Scorpio can only give his time. He's a clingy lover and is always all over me. However, we can never go out as he doesn't have money. He's also very attached to his mother and has a curfew even though he is 30. Capricorn is more stable. He makes time for me and has the funds to go out whenever and whenever. He works a lot but still tries to squeeze me in. He's two years younger and more stable and seems to try and keep me more. I don't have experience with earth venus people though. In your opinion, which ones are the better lovers? IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted March 18, 2016 10:42 AM
It's up to you.IP: Logged |
Wondering
Knowflake Posts: 133
From: USA
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted March 18, 2016 10:48 AM
True, but I'd like other's experience on dealing with these 2 venus signs.IP: Logged |
Jinni
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posted March 18, 2016 11:03 AM
Well not astrologically speaking Scorpio doesn't sound like a boyfriend material - so many red flags. Posessiveness and having curfew at his age, not stable income etc. I wouldn-t get myself involved someone like him.Capricorn sounds great. But of course only you can tell what works for you.
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Electro DGX
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From: Uranus
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted March 18, 2016 11:11 AM
If I had to CHOOSE I would choose the Capricorn Venus. It sounds like he's more mature and hard working, not to mention he will take the relationship seriously. IP: Logged |
Lerena
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posted March 18, 2016 11:15 AM
In my personal opinion, the Capricorn Venus you described is better. The final decision is up to you, because no one can decide who makes you happier. It just seems like Scorpio Venus isn't that healthy in the long-term.IP: Logged |
DopGang
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From: INTJ
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted March 18, 2016 11:27 AM
I love them both. I really, really do.
It's tough to recommend one over the other. What makes it easy though is what you've told us. I only like Scorpio Venus if it's a "mature" Venus. If not, run. So in your case, Cap Venus, hands down. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo
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From: Sittin' on Mercury
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted March 18, 2016 11:52 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
It's up to you.
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TensionEmpire
Knowflake Posts: 335
From: Hamburg
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 18, 2016 11:56 AM
if I only think about your question I would say Water since they are more linked with emotions and I think Love is linked with emotions.
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StubbornVirgo
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From: Sittin' on Mercury
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posted March 18, 2016 12:00 PM
Earth Venus people are exactly as you described. They work hard, they believe in supporting their loved ones financially and materially - this is not to say that they don't have the same amount of love and attention to give as a Scorpio Venus, but they're more apt to express it in practical ways. They're usually emotionally stable as well. Clingy behavior and emotional outbursts are not characteristic of Capricorn Venus or any other Earth Venus.If I may ask, what sign is your Venus in? IP: Logged |
HadesFish
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From: Sunny with a splash of dark.
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted March 18, 2016 12:17 PM
Both are serious in different ways of love.On that note... Girl, if either one knows the other so much even has a smell, bow out nicely, because astrologically speaking, especially the ViS, doesn't do "simple" when it comes to matters of love; as that is what they love... They can really really burn a person from the inside of you are even remotely attached to them and do them wrong; they just burst in sex and use it as an emotional weapon, especially the ones with other strong Scorpio placements. You are their world or you are their hell. And if you're with one or have been involved with one; they haunt you, straight out. Not sure how long you've known these people, but they both expect a certain devotion, and really it's best to go with how much of yourself and what of yourself you feel more comfortably giving/receiving, what you can offer them in return, etc.; they both expect something back for what they give, not just being with them, but a piece of yourself, and true to this piece as a... stable foundation. A Capricorn Venus also is even pickier in the sense that they are not just going to go with a reaction, so pretty nice to be chosen by these people. ------------------
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hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 3947
From: Miami
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 18, 2016 12:36 PM
Better lover as in better when it comes to making love I would think venus in Scorpio. Better at relationships perhaps venus in Cap if they are not already married to their job and rarely see you and if their moon is well placed and aspected.What is his moon doing? IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 18, 2016 02:09 PM
Scorpio venus is definitely the best lover loool... I'm a venus in scorpio myself, but I have been with both types. I know personally (lol) that scorp venus is much more intense and better lovers. Cap venus is just dry, dry and more dry. Not romantic, not passionate. But stabile, reliable and loyal. IP: Logged |
Valentine
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From: Canada
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 18, 2016 02:18 PM
I'm Scorpio venus, but between those two I'd go with the Capricorn, IP: Logged |
ilunatique
Knowflake Posts: 422
From: neptune
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted March 18, 2016 02:24 PM
Honestly, i dont understand this.. Choosing between two people?? How can you choose when you love someone? You should just let yourself feel and you would know... Its not about money or social status, its about how you two mix together and feel yourselvesLove is simply love and if you truly have a connection with someone then you know what is going on... Objectively... scorpio venus can be quite difficult and reading what was said wasnt a surprise. Most of them are complex and working thanks to very weird "agendas", are hard to crack and light up (if they ever do)... just very difficult to understand or even get close to what they really are Capricorn venus sounds way better..these people have more control on things and know how to act. They are not that difficult to understand and interact with unlike the scorpios... Goodluck to you, Wondering  IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
Knowflake Posts: 2069
From: intimate sky dot net
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 18, 2016 02:27 PM
Post the synastry in interpersonal maybe? IP: Logged |
ilunatique
Knowflake Posts: 422
From: neptune
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted March 18, 2016 02:28 PM
quote:
Originally posted by HadesFish:
Both are serious in different ways of love.On that note... Girl, if either one knows the other so much even has a smell, bow out nicely, because astrologically speaking, especially the ViS, doesn't do "simple" when it comes to matters of love; as that is what they love... They can really really burn a person from the inside of you are even remotely attached to them and do them wrong; they just burst in sex and use it as an emotional weapon, especially the ones with other strong Scorpio placements. You are their world or you are their hell. And if you're with one or have been involved with one; they haunt you, straight out. Not sure how long you've known these people, but they both expect a certain devotion, and really it's best to go with how much of yourself and what of yourself you feel more comfortably giving/receiving, what you can offer them in return, etc.; they both expect something back for what they give, not just being with them, but a piece of yourself, and true to this piece as a... stable foundation. A Capricorn Venus also is even pickier in the sense that they are not just going to go with a reaction, so pretty nice to be chosen by these people.
I like this a lot ! IP: Logged |
Readytochill
Knowflake Posts: 209
From: In my head
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted March 18, 2016 02:51 PM
Depends what you want in a relationship.If you want a mama's boy who will take you on an emotional rollercoaster, Venus in Scorp. If you want a steady, reliable partner, Venus in Cap. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 18, 2016 03:43 PM
I think there is much more to it than the Venus. There is Moons(hearts) and Mercury(Minds)------------------
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missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 787
From: neverneverland
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted March 18, 2016 04:07 PM
certainly sounds like you like the second guy moreIP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted March 18, 2016 04:25 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
It's up to you.
tbh, bae - I expected more from you. Don't you wonder what in the sweet holy shizz is a "clingy lover"?? All I could think of... Maybe tentacles are being involved in some capacity? idk. Am I being literal? idk!!! This thread coulda been a contender. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 18, 2016 05:29 PM
They can't be strictly defined by their Venus alone. The other person's chart also matters in cases like this.IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted March 18, 2016 06:37 PM
Heh curfew at that age... This alone would make me go "No", regardless of the signs. IP: Logged |
RoseLily
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posted March 18, 2016 06:42 PM
The scorpio has so many redflags, omg!
Clingy, no money at 30, curfew?!
Nope. Sorry I wouldn't pick, something's iffy and I don't trust those signs at all. IP: Logged |
Hemilla
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: Serbia
Registered: May 2015
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posted March 19, 2016 09:19 AM
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