posted March 30, 2016 08:48 PM            

What can you tell me about this person with Pluto conjunct Venus? How does he operate?

I hear that Pluto Venus people are highly dramatic--need drama--is his true?

What is the good and the bad?

Anything you can tell me would be appreciated.

posted March 31, 2016 06:17 AM            

But ever since she got together and then married her husband, it`s been just the most stable and drama-free relationship I can imagine. Well the priest who wed them actually called their vows "boring" and worthy of a "70 year old couple, not young people getting married". He said so because both were emphasizing wanting to support each other and grow with each other and master life as a team and partners; I think they did not even use the word "love" in their vows. lol

posted March 31, 2016 09:37 AM            

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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
I feel that natal Pluto Venus natal folks always need drama in their relationships. I can never be just in normal rship with these people. NEED emotional intensity to feel secure...anyone else feel this way?

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Speaking as someone with a natal Libra (Scorpio cusp) Pluto-Venus conjunction (2 degree difference), I'll have to say no.

In fact, unnecessary drama is a good way to drive me away. I finally broke away from someone after years because I realized the only way she could be happy was if there was constant drama or risk, though it broke my heart to do so (she had Aries Venus, Libra Pluto, btw).

But I could see a conjunct Scorpio Venus-Pluto as being prone to drama...but hopefully they'd outgrow it.

posted March 31, 2016 05:42 PM            

What's the good and the ugly?

posted April 01, 2016 09:59 AM            

So with Pluto touching Venus, the relationship will serve as a basis form which one looks to address personal attitudes and values with regards to all relationships.And not just you

You will often hear people with Venus-Pluto aspects talk about how they have "grown" with regards to a relationship. Or how that particular relationship helped to define certain aspects of whom they are that they didn't know were there etc.

It is seldom about the partner really. But the "essence" of what that relationship helped to uncover about themselves- sort of like a projection etc.

Because with Pluto-Venus aspects, people here often feel that there are BIG,often transforming lessons that they can/need to learn from relationships.

That is why they give so much, involve themselves so deep and go in with a whole "all or nothing" attitude.Pushing harder and harder until the inevitable tipping point.

As they grow older, they learn moderation. And they also learn that in essence,what they really want to do is connect with others in a meaningful way.

And this "connection" doesn't necessarily have to involve deep all consuming sex, viscous arguments,death,loss,upheavals, fights or constant "tests".

When in Libra, the rules of the relationship, honoring the "agreement" and serving your end of the bargain etc.are very important to them.

There is little in the form of pure emotive involvement.As emotions are translated through logic(air Libra). And then judged in accordance with "fairness" and "propriety" etc.

This partner will discuss(Libra)issues with you a lot. And they will often fuse great passion(Pluto) in what you did "wrong", why it was "unfair" and what you need to do to change it.

They also need constant feedback(Libra) so as to know what they are doing,having ,saying and withholding etc. So that they can process that too.