posted March 31, 2016 02:14 PM            

Do you think anyone could help me interpret how best to help from his chart?

posted March 31, 2016 02:44 PM            

Often the best thing to do is nothing, but just be there. People deal with grief differently so you just have to let them process it in their own way. I know this sounds really cliche but its true. Just be their rock for now, listen to them if they want to talk, or leave them be if they don't but just let them know that you are there for them when they need you.

posted March 31, 2016 03:29 PM            

I did forget to post it, here it is:

posted March 31, 2016 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
I'm so sorry for your friend

Often the best thing to do is nothing, but just be there. People deal with grief differently so you just have to let them process it in their own way. I know this sounds really cliche but its true. Just be their rock for now, listen to them if they want to talk, or leave them be if they don't but just let them know that you are there for them when they need you.

I haven't found the link for the chart though so that's extremely general, sorry :/

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posted March 31, 2016 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
I'm so sorry for your friend

Often the best thing to do is nothing, but just be there. People deal with grief differently so you just have to let them process it in their own way. I know this sounds really cliche but its true. Just be their rock for now, listen to them if they want to talk, or leave them be if they don't but just let them know that you are there for them when they need you.

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Ditto to all this.

I feel so bad for your friend. Gemini Venus might appreciate talking it out, receiving sincere cards and letters, but Leo Mars may not want to appear "weak" and may never want to discuss it.

I think everyone appreciates others' willingness to show they care, however.

If this happened to someone I knew I would buy a book for them about adult orphanhood, because it's more complex than people think, and there usually is some rough psychological terrain to be navigated. This article is a nice intro to the subject.

posted April 15, 2016 01:49 PM            

And i just didnt know what to do,on top of it i couldnt go to her mothers funeral because just recently my grandfather died and i didnt go to his funeral and i felt like it would be like me betraying him if i go,and i felt so bad... what did i do,i told her honestly and listened to her,i noticed that she does not want to speak about it and that wants to be positive and joke around so that is what i did - maybe she has friends she talks about her greif with,but obviously that friend is not me and i didnt want to push it,and even if she wanted to talk about it i wouldnt know what to say - my moon is in pisces in 8th house ,so i deal with my greif quietly and dont like when people push me to open about it , i just die inside and get reborn again,relizing that that is the life.

posted April 15, 2016 11:06 PM            

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posted April 17, 2016 09:32 AM            

Looking at your friends chart, I'm tempted to say that he might be the kind of person that would want to talk it out eventually, connect through words (Cancer sun, venus gem). If this is the case, in my experience, listening is the best thing for them rather than elaborate on how you empathise with them if you get me. But like I said, wait until they come to you

posted April 17, 2016 12:43 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
I'm so sorry for your friend

Often the best thing to do is nothing, but just be there. People deal with grief differently so you just have to let them process it in their own way. I know this sounds really cliche but its true. Just be their rock for now, listen to them if they want to talk, or leave them be if they don't but just let them know that you are there for them when they need you.

I haven't found the link for the chart though so that's extremely general, sorry :/

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Yeah, this is true..
So sorry about your friend.