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Topic: Show me your weaknesses...and don't feel ashamed..
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charlie
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posted April 01, 2016 03:44 PM
  
....or otherwise I'll be suspicious of your feigned strength. I am like this but not sure which aspect causes it?! Pluto squares? IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted April 01, 2016 04:10 PM
Well, I had a sort of response here, but it wasn't particularly useful, so.IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 02, 2016 02:59 AM
I'm not usually suspicious... I'm more likely to wonder how they stay so perky, or just get things done. I'm afraid that once I show weakness, it feels like that's all that's seen of me/that I AM that to people. Like, once you've seen something, you can't not see it, or respond to it, you know? That's why I tried to hide it for years. IP: Logged |
XzaultaX
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posted April 02, 2016 03:04 AM
Being too sensitive to other peoples opinions, insults, and critisism  Sun combust Mercury IP: Logged |
Spongebob
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posted April 02, 2016 04:04 AM
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Originally posted by XzaultaX:
Being too sensitive to other peoples opinions, insults, and critisism Sun combust Mercury
This is not true, inhave thay and i honestly dont care what people think of me. To be fair, i probabky have aspbergers so that might explain it. IP: Logged |
ilunatique
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posted April 02, 2016 05:07 AM
My weakness is love .... I find it extremely hard to stop sacrificing myself for others, and especially the people that actually dont deserve it. I love & help everyone, no matter youre a psycho or a kid and want everyone to be/feel loved.. i barely focus on myself or what consequences that might have Mars conjunct Neptune exact 1st house - i always focused more on my spirit than my body since i was 10 and realized that i dont belong on this planet..Another weakness.. i feel too much and that always gets in my way when i have to express myself. I will end up crying suddenly and everyone will be confused. At times i express myself too dramatically Moon in leo 7th opposite Uranus 1st I can hardly control my emotions because i allow myself to feel everything I can be very controlling, and in the past i liked the psychical/emotional power i had on some people that looked at me like i was a goddess. I hide too many things, i keep a lot to me. Pluto conjunct Sun? all trine Moon, Mercury in Scorpio with bad aspects involved in a fixed cross IP: Logged |
Vajra
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posted April 02, 2016 07:13 AM
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ReadingTheStars95
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posted April 02, 2016 11:34 AM
What do you have aspecting Jupiter? What about the 9th house and Sagittarius? I would usually attribute what you are talking about to Scorpio/Pluto.. But.. I feel as if I've seen certain patterns with Sagittarius.. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted April 02, 2016 01:16 PM
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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
What do you have aspecting Jupiter? What about the 9th house and Sagittarius? I would usually attribute what you are talking about to Scorpio/Pluto.. But.. I feel as if I've seen certain patterns with Sagittarius..
Taurus MC, Jupiter, Chiron and SN 9H opp Uranus.
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bella_taurus
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posted April 02, 2016 01:26 PM
Letting go.Moon in Cancer IP: Logged |
Spongebob
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posted April 02, 2016 02:10 PM
It sounds like a badly afflicted pluto to me. Wanting to see everybody elses sensitive underbelly to feel a sense of control domination and superiority. Feeling like everybody is somehow obligated to prove theyre "real" to you.I dont thats a thats a plutonian thing in general because im plutonian (four planets in the eighth; moon conjunct pluto in the eighth; mars square pluto and mercury quintile pluto) and im not this way. If anything it makes me uncomfortable like im seeing something i shouldnt be. IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted April 02, 2016 02:19 PM
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charlie
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posted April 02, 2016 02:20 PM
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Originally posted by Spongebob:
It sounds like a badly afflicted pluto to me. Wanting to see everybody elses sensitive underbelly to feel a sense of control domination and superiority. Feeling like everybody is somehow obligated to prove theyre "real" to you.I dont thats a thats a plutonian thing in general because im plutonian (four planets in the eighth; moon conjunct pluto in the eighth; mars square pluto and mercury quintile pluto) and im not this way. If anything it makes me uncomfortable like im seeing something i shouldnt be.
I have no sense of feeling superior to anyone! I want people to feel free to express themselves as openly as possible without thinking they have to hide because society tells them to.
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Elysia
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posted April 02, 2016 02:33 PM
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Originally posted by Spongebob:
It sounds like a badly afflicted pluto to me. Wanting to see everybody elses sensitive underbelly to feel a sense of control domination and superiority. Feeling like everybody is somehow obligated to prove theyre "real" to you.I dont thats a thats a plutonian thing in general because im plutonian (four planets in the eighth; moon conjunct pluto in the eighth; mars square pluto and mercury quintile pluto) and im not this way. If anything it makes me uncomfortable like im seeing something i shouldnt be.
I don't think Asperger's explains it. (Since you've mentioned it). Maybe it's something else.
What's a compulsion to be negative and always-on-the-offensive called?  charlie,
Too many to list. But off the top of my head, I'd say inability to deal with emotions in a healthy way is at the root of most of them.
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charlie
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posted April 02, 2016 02:50 PM
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Originally posted by Elysia:
I don't think Asperger's explains it. (Since you've mentioned it). Maybe it's something else.
What's a compulsion to be negative and always-on-the-offensive called? charlie,
Too many to list. But off the top of my head, I'd say inability to deal with emotions in a healthy way is at the root of most of them.
What do you think are yours?
I think the root for me is that I don't like things hidden. I have a very Utopian view/dream about how the world ought to be and of course I always fall very long away from satisfaction... I am the epitome of an Aqua Vertex. I long for the highest ideal of existence and that includes being the most primal humans we can be.
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Faith
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posted April 02, 2016 04:10 PM
Oh hooray, Elysia's back!  Haven't seen you in a while.For me, I don't consider anything "hidden" with others...I think there is a timespan ahead of us, and in the course of that timespan, if we build trust, I will learn more, and if we don't, I won't. I'm okay with letting the chips fall where they may. Mostly everyone puts up some kind of barrier. And I guess it wouldn't occur to me to judge this since I have a lot of myself submerged in the subconscious, or blocked, or something (astrological excuses available upon request.  ) I don't feel like I have myself all sorted out and can offer that like a printout to anyone I deem worthy. I see everything as being in flux. Cap sun square Pluto, for what it's worth. IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted April 02, 2016 04:28 PM
Faith!!
Just, been dealing with some stuff. That's true about the timespan you mention. If it has to happen, in the natural course of things, it will happen. Things will unfold on their own. On the other hand, if someone doesn't strike that chord in us, then they can go years, even decades; barely scratching the surface and not knowing a thing about us for real. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted April 02, 2016 04:48 PM
Praying your stuff isn't bad. I understand, sometimes real life gets in the way of LL. (Darn you, real life!!!...jk) It's just so nice to see you again, I really value your company here and I'm underplaying how much I value it so I don't sound creepy. Creepy is a weakness. So, nope, no creepy here! Not in public.  IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted April 02, 2016 04:55 PM
Gosh, you are the sweetest!
You know, I missed you and this place.It's kinda unfair, since Jupiter is in the same sign this year as my natal - should help, right? It has, actually, in many ways - but some other dimensions are not in Jupiter's control.
Yeah, real life sucks - big time. :/ Been a terrible few months. But I'm a big girl now, gotta get a handle on it, soon. *ahem* What's that saying, if you're in really deep s**t, you should keep your mouth shut? It was a rather literal fable, as far as I remember.  But it makes sense to me. Anyway, silver lining - I hope I may have some good news to share with you soon. How have you been?? IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted April 02, 2016 06:58 PM
Jupiter can suck BIG time. :-/ Well it's often seen in death charts, you know? But I seriously hope it's not that bad...that nobody is dying I mean.Misery loves company so I will tell you that Jupiter is trine my sun but life has felt very hard sometimes, like getting ground into the dirt. But...Jupiter is the teacher...so let's just try and stay positive that the lesson will be valuable. I hope you have good news soon too. Trying not to derail but...*crossing my fingers for you.* IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted April 03, 2016 01:49 AM
Thank you so much, Faith.. You're the only person who'd understand. Yeah, Jupiter the benefactor is also a Teacher - you're right. Sorry that times are rough for you too. I have a feeling we'll *turn the corner* soon enough. *hugs* Sorry Charlie, for the derailment... IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 03, 2016 03:58 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I have no sense of feeling superior to anyone! I want people to feel free to express themselves as openly as possible without thinking they have to hide because society tells them to.
That sounds like Uranus to me. I feel that way, but also am sensitive to those who don't want to do that. To me, they're just expressing that they're private people, or cautious. Considerate. I remember a Gemini who encouraged everyone to just speak their minds. She just happened to be a Drew Barrymore-like young woman, that everybody loved, and she naturally didn't seem to offend anyone. Speaking of missing people: I haven't seen StubbornVirgo around. I hope she's okay. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
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posted April 03, 2016 04:46 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
....or otherwise I'll be suspicious of your feigned strength. I am like this but not sure which aspect causes it?! Pluto squares?
Request denied. You are not authorized for that level of access. Because... Scorpio Rising maybe? IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 04, 2016 05:46 AM
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Request denied. You are not authorized for that level of access.Because... Scorpio Rising maybe?
Works for me. Scorpio rising, too. Although, I actually told someone a few weeks ago, that we'd never be friends - but it wasn't because of them. It was because of me (and one of my deep fears). I feel like I've been damaged irreparably. I know someone whose ex-boyfriend just admitted scary things to her. They weren't that far into a relationship, and she, healthy and loving her life, wanted to sprint for the door. Which is a normal reaction, I think. hurtful, but normal. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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posted April 04, 2016 01:34 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
Works for me. Scorpio rising, too. Although, I actually told someone a few weeks ago, that we'd never be friends - but it wasn't because of them. It was because of me (and one of my deep fears). I feel like I've been damaged irreparably. I know someone whose ex-boyfriend just admitted scary things to her. They weren't that far into a relationship, and she, healthy and loving her life, wanted to sprint for the door. Which is a normal reaction, I think. hurtful, but normal.
It's not so much showing weakness as it is being vulnerable for me. Trust is a two way street. I need to see that you aren't going to run away or manipulate me if I open up. IP: Logged |
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