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Topic: Libra man helpppppp
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harmonicvibes
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posted April 03, 2016 01:41 AM
  
So I got a confusing libra driving me nuts!!!! He texts everyday saying hello how are you one time goodnight literally everyday almost. He came back to my country to live again after being gone for almost three months...we had talked before in the past....well now since he's moved back I seen him only once on a Sunday then next day to help him do something on that Monday. He says he's working busy things like that...why the F you text me hello how are you what you doing if he knows he's busy...its annoying its like why I feel like he doesn't have any interest or want to truely see me...or is he just taking it at a slower pace? Any insight I'm going crazyIP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
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posted April 03, 2016 11:57 AM
The Libra male is often famous for pulling the disappearing /vanishing act i.e. not call/texts for weeks on end before popping up again with an excuse of all sorts.The Libra and I broke it off after 2.5 years of dating . We didn't survive the Uranus Aries transit that affected both our personal planets. And I am OK with it now. But at the very beginning of our courtship, he would do this; express interest and then pull back. Send me a message and then when I respond,he would be silent. It was maddening. But every case is unique .In this case, I just told him that I was not going to stand for the in/out games anymore. And he stopped. For some other Libra people, this may scare them off. The Libra I dated has Moon in Scorpio.So perhaps he could stand the "no nonsense" approach? IP: Logged |
harmonicvibes
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posted April 03, 2016 03:00 PM
So this whole hearing from libra everyday but it not coming to anythung example meeting up is normal??? I hate itIP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
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From: Lititz, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 03, 2016 04:11 PM
What's his venus?Libras have a natural tendency to play the field, but other placements will color that. I'm a Libra. IP: Logged |
areesquivel
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From: Mexico
Registered: Feb 2016
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posted April 03, 2016 04:20 PM
The story of my life, exactly what happened to me and a Libra guy, texts then diasapears on and off, I don't have something to say from an astrology stand point but as a girl I can say that I was the one who got tired. IP: Logged |
ail221
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From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
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posted April 03, 2016 04:25 PM
I dated a libra who did this, we dated on and off for 6 months and he'd be super interested then disappear which I really couldn't take so when he ignored my texts over one weekend. I wrote him a Dear John letter and mailed his sh*t to him and was done. IP: Logged |
harmonicvibes
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posted April 03, 2016 05:09 PM
His Venus is in libra mars Gemini....IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
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posted April 03, 2016 08:11 PM
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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
His Venus is in libra mars Gemini....
Hmm, all that air could make him more flighty in love/sex. I would just be honest with him and tell him you don't like putting up with his flakiness. If his behavior doesn't change, then forget about him. You deserve better.
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harmonicvibes
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posted April 03, 2016 08:22 PM
Thank u....I get that sex is important but I just don't understand him....like why do you text everyday!??!!? Text me when you want to see me IP: Logged |
Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
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posted April 03, 2016 09:26 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
The Libra male is often famous for pulling the disappearing /vanishing act i.e. not call/texts for weeks on end before popping up again with an excuse of all sorts.
I watched my Libra father do this to women. He drove them crazy. Thing is, I know he really loved them at least one or two of them, he just needed a lot of time off to keep his balance. IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
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From: Lititz, PA, USA
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posted April 03, 2016 10:17 PM
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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Thank u....I get that sex is important but I just don't understand him....like why do you text everyday!??!!? Text me when you want to see me
Maybe he likes to keep the communication going when you're apart. Could be the Gemini Mars playing in. IP: Logged |
neptunicity
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posted April 03, 2016 11:34 PM
I didn't know Libras are like that, I read that Pisces are the ones always disappearing. Maybe because of their indecisive nature, I guess.IP: Logged |
Marandana
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 04, 2016 11:23 PM
Yes, pisces are indecisive but so do libras.My now ex libra never did the infamous disappearing act, he also texted me everyday and every night but never really stopped texting -only when we were mad at each other- but I think that's obvious. He tried to disappear by the end of the relationship tho, but I confront him before he did that and I asked him to tell me face to face what was going on between us, he told me he didn't want to know anything about me anymore and it was harsh and painful but I'm thankful he spoke the truth (or it looked like the truth at that time, but I'm not sure it was anyway!) The thing I have to complain about my libra ex, was the fact that he was so indecisive, he wasn't sure about what he really wanted, sometimes he was ok, and then not. Sometimes he was cold and then hot, I remember he once told me that I was what he was looking for and then, days after, he told me I wasn't what he was looking for. Really indecisive! Like almost a bipolar nature. He was sun, venus and mars libra. So, I, personally find libra men a bit difficult. IP: Logged |
harmonicvibes
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posted April 05, 2016 01:23 AM
Ugh yeah this one is sun Libra Venus mars in geminiIP: Logged |
margym0o
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Registered: Jul 2014
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posted April 05, 2016 09:45 AM
It REALLY depends on other aspects, in my opinion. Not all Libras can be painted with the same brush. I think it also depends on the overall maturity level of the person in question, too.To me this sounds like a typical case of a selfish or "me" centered personality - someone who really only cares about their own "balance" and forgets the feelings of the other person involved. In my experience the Libras I have known have been very much about "togetherness" and doing things with a partner or as a partnership. They were very relationship oriented. One man I dated for 3 years (albeit with a very shy personality) had a Libra Sun (in the 7th to boot) and a Capricorn Moon, Libra Mercury, Virgo Venus and Aries Mars and he was probably one of the most loyal, stable, devoted and selfless people I've ever met. Sure he was stereotypically indecisive in other areas of his life but not in the relationship sphere. I think his life's dream is to find a woman to love and spend the rest of his life with. The complete opposite of the men described here. He was not the man for me but he will make a terrific husband someday. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted April 05, 2016 11:54 AM
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PixieJane
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posted April 05, 2016 12:11 PM
This isn't Libra, this is people. Astrology just tells us why. A Libra man because he is indecisive, a Gemini because he's flighty, an Aquarius because he's detached, a Cancer because he's scared, Aries because he's selfish, Sag because he's easily bored, a Pisces because he's flaky, a Scorpio because he's playing mind games, and so on.Seriously, I've seen so many threads like this over the years at LL, the differences between them are their placements and thus why they're said to act like everyone else. IP: Logged |
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