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Topic: What is going on with this Libra guy?
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boop 84
Newflake Posts: 9
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 08, 2016 08:44 PM
  
So I've been dating this Libra guy for a couple of months or so. Until 10 days ago I didn't question if he was interested in me and in literally the space of 3 hours he went from chatting all the time to seeming a bit distant.We still talk loads but he seems a lot less affectionate and when I asked if he wanted to meet up next weekend he said he hadn't planned that far ahead yet...3 week ago he would of bitten my hand of saying yes. He went from being really romantic and attentive to very matter of fact, it's like he's put a wall up He hasn't been asking about my life and keeps on forgetting stuff...this just seems like a really sudden switch But if I text it's never long before I get a reply just the whole tone is different his messages are briefer and there is hardly any affection in them. I have just been getting on with my own life but is this normal Libra behaviour? And what's the best way to handle him? IP: Logged |
bacio
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Dec 2015
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posted April 08, 2016 09:47 PM
Tbh it sounds like he's probably dealing with something separate? Considering balance as a trope for libra, if he feels unable to be balanced for a partner then distancing may be a defense mechanism to limit opportunities for perceived imbalance to impact you? Maybe ask if there's anything on his mind in general, because odds are it's related to external factors on his end if the change was so swift. Do you have any mutual friends who are fighting or not getting along right now? IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
Knowflake Posts: 5928
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 08, 2016 10:42 PM
I know a libra man who used to say the exact same thing.. I don't plan that far ahead.. i think its true. they just don't. they are very unemotional.Sounds like he lost interest though. IP: Logged |
areesquivel
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Mexico
Registered: Feb 2016
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posted April 08, 2016 11:09 PM
Libra people in general, seems like they get bored and that's it, they move on, happened to me, my best friend and cousin is Libra Sun and ASC and when she looses interest that's it, she never goes back. Libra guys though are intriguing to me for that exact reason.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 4759
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2016 11:34 PM
Hello boop 84! Welcome to LL  ------------------
Don't look back,
you're not going that way. IP: Logged |
boop 84
Newflake Posts: 9
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 09, 2016 05:59 AM
We don't know any of the same people.I've tried asking him if there is something wrong but he just says it's fine and that he doesn't mean to be off. He's away this weekend so I sent him a message to say have a lovely time and tell me all about it when you get back, the balls in his court if he talks great...If he doesn't it wasn't meant to be. Does this sound like the right approach? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 2902
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 09, 2016 06:28 AM
I broke up with the Libra like that.He got very distant at the end and I hated having to be a mind-reader. And have learned that this is not a super power that I intend on developing  Eventually I told him that he is free. And that I love him, but cannot wait for him to show me something any longer. He responded as if to capitulate. And I say this because he wanted me to "fight" for him. And I knew that what he really wanted me to do was tell him that I can't live without him etc. Weeks later,we have not seen each other or talked. But am slowly getting over him. Next time I date anyone, I will be mindful of the tendency for one to disappear-as he did it often when we started. But i thought that he just needed "space". But I am Sag with a stellium in 9th for crying out loud. So I don't "crowd" anyone. It's not me really. Its beyond me  Good luck with yours.
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boop 84
Newflake Posts: 9
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 09, 2016 06:51 AM
I'm so to hear you're going through this too!He hasn't vanished in the sense that he doesn't talk to me to has just disappeared in an emotional sense...I don't need to be with someone 24hrs a day 7 days a week I just need to know that they are thinking of me IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 2902
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 09, 2016 11:42 AM
Thanks.I was with him for 3 years. And just got tired of always having to be the one that "drives" the relationship somehow. Its cool though. Life goes on
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