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Topic: What Uranus transits are about
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teasel
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posted November 24, 2022 04:25 PM
  
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Originally posted by Stawr:
I'm glad you can get time to get back on your feet!I need Uranus to pass over my IC. At this point my family has broken my heart more than my husband has. I would love to just walk through the mud. I feel like am in quicksand and I'm sinking and I can't escape. Ugh, telling people they are gaslighting you will just make them gaslight you even more. I just need to cut them all off. Plus the Saturn square Moon transit.
Plus Pluto square Sun transit. This is the most rock bottom I've ever been. I'm traumatized from it.
I’m sorry. I know what it’s like to have your own family screw you over. I was fixing things with my mum, but then she died. She was dealing with dementia at the end, and told me that my dad had her kidnapped, and trapped at the hospital. She was ****** when I didn’t know what to say, and didn’t get her out of there. I’m wondering how long she was dealing with that, before she went into the hospital, because it would explain certain things. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted November 25, 2022 11:59 PM
Thank you for the compassion and seeing me as a human being! That is so sad. And I am glad you started to work things out with your mom before she passed. It's painful, but it beats not starting that process before she passed. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted November 26, 2022 12:11 AM
Some of the millennials on my dad's side might be family ice breakers. One of my second cousin's is a lesbian. Only a few people know. Her dad will be furious. He's like the ultimate loud and proud Trump supporter. He even tells his two girls when it comes to relationships "no black people" my other second cousin dated a few being his back. This guy is my Godfather. Holy Christ. This other second cousin confessed to me that she straight up does not want to have kids and might get her tubes tied. But yeah why should that be the whole family's business? Once my divorce is final, I am thinking of seeing if I like being poly. I really think the signs were there when I was a kid. I think Pluto in Aquarius will be a huge encouragement for this type of energy too. IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere
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posted November 26, 2022 02:22 AM
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Originally posted by Stawr:
I'm glad you can get time to get back on your feet!
Thanks Stawr! I’m happy I have this option as well. I have a great employer and they would rather have me take some time off than end up with a burn out. quote:
…I need Uranus to pass over my IC. At this point my family has broken my heart more than my husband has. I would love to just walk through the mud. I feel like am in quicksand and I'm sinking and I can't escape.
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I’m not too thrilled about Uranus touching my entire 8th house stellium, but Uranus conjunct IC sounds even more painful. The IC represents our roots and is such a sensitive place. And I know from experience that family, especially parents, have the opportunity to push our buttons like no one else. They know are triggers, and even though they know how much it hurts us, they do it anyway because they are not in a healthy place themselves. If they knowingly hurt you, you can be sure it’s coming from their own unresolved issues. I hope new opportunities will present themselves soon, Stawr. And this might lift you up from the situation you’re stuck in right now.
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Stawr
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posted November 26, 2022 07:33 PM
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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
I’m not too thrilled about Uranus touching my entire 8th house stellium, but Uranus conjunct IC sounds even more painful. The IC represents our roots and is such a sensitive place. And I know from experience that family, especially parents, have the opportunity to push our buttons like no one else. They know are triggers, and even though they know how much it hurts us, they do it anyway because they are not in a healthy place themselves. If they knowingly hurt you, you can be sure it’s coming from their own unresolved issues. I hope new opportunities will present themselves soon, Stawr. And this might lift you up from the situation you’re stuck in right now.
Thank you!! I think I'll be over the hump with this transit in about a week. Saturn should probably be a whole degree off the moon sign square.
Holy cow yes they seriously have such unresolved childhood trauma! My dad's mom stayed with an abuser...his dad. The whole family would just go on about their lives and church like every things fine. He's witnessed repo coming to his home from his dads gambling addiction.
My mom had a mom with mental health issues. She has seen her mom have mental breakdowns, slit her wrists, shoplift and getting caught. It seems like my mom felt a lot of embarrassment and neglect. Her mom was in therapy in the 70's. The therapist seemed too fascinated with my grandma. He recorded her on tape, we have the tapes now part of me wants to listen and part of me does not want to at all. He was going to write a book on her. She would come out of her sessions thinking she was a little girl sometimes.
My mom had a private session with the guy and he kept wanting to ask about her dad and if he ever sexually abused her. So my mom has seen a lot of messed up things with peoples mental health that were disturbing. IP: Logged | |
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