posted April 22, 2016 06:08 PM            

Thank you! and please DO NOT QUOTE me many thanks!

posted April 22, 2016 06:44 PM            

She is quite confrontational for a Libra Asc, and a lot of the people she used to date where either complete a******* that would verbally and/or physically try to ruin her life, or they were the most boring people on the earth who had no motivation whatsoever. The last person she just dated cheated on her, but would physically shut down when it comes to arguments. She has some many issues to deal with in relationships.

posted April 22, 2016 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
I'm not a Libra Asc, but my Taurus friend is. Her Mars sits in the first in Scorpio square Neptune, opposite Saturn and Sun, and is retrograde.

She is quite confrontational for a Libra Asc, and a lot of the people she used to date where either complete a******* that would verbally and/or physically try to ruin her life, or they were the most boring people on the earth who had no motivation whatsoever. The last person she just dated cheated on her, but would physically shut down when it comes to arguments. She has some many issues to deal with in relationships.

It sounds so funny (as in the drama) yet so sad (as in the stuff people would do to her). She also had an abusive and alcohol-addicted father, but that's most likely due to her tight Saturn-Sun conjunction.

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Electro DGX,

Thanks for your comment i really appreciate it!! Wow that is crazy i can see how she attracts those kind of people, tells me how she attracts possessive/controlling/vindictive guys. guys that are straight forward but also indirect with her at the same time. possible liars? her mars squaring her neptune defently tells me the guys she dates are self delusional to themselves or towards her. Opposite saturn and the sun tells me power struggles with men possibly older men she attracts, men that resemble her father in some way.

Yes this just shows and tells me that i've been realizing that when the 7th Ruler is badly afflicted with a negative asteroid/outer planet/Angle or sits in a weak house or in a weak sign it can really effect the individual's when it comes to the certain people they tend to attract.

Is she physically abusive to the men by the way as well?

posted April 23, 2016 09:19 AM            

First of all, I don't think I attract many men, because I see myself as a bit closed off to them. I'm pretty open and talkative (especially with women), but with men I'm a bit more reserved in the beginning.

The men who've been attracted to me were all different kinds of men. One guy had a deep mind which i liked and also had major trust issues, one was kinda arrogant and not so straightforward with his feelings, one was pretty laidback and very into nurturing women, two were veryyyy straightforward.. almost pushy. One guy was very very into me. He gave me lots of attention and he was pretty caring. But after talking for a few months I found out he was married!
There was one guy who was so much like me, in terms of humor and the way we look at life. But in the end it turned out he was still not over his ex.

posted April 23, 2016 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Bearee:
I have Mars in Cancer in the 9th house. It makes a lot of aspects.

First of all, I don't think I attract many men, because I see myself as a bit closed off to them. I'm pretty open and talkative (especially with women), but with men I'm a bit more reserved in the beginning.

The men who've been attracted to me were all different kinds of men. One guy had a deep mind which i liked and also had major trust issues, one was kinda arrogant and not so straightforward with his feelings, one was pretty laidback and very into nurturing women, two were veryyyy straightforward.. almost pushy. One guy was very very into me. He gave me lots of attention and he was pretty caring. But after talking for a few months I found out he was married!
There was one guy who was so much like me, in terms of humor and the way we look at life. But in the end it turned out he was still not over his ex.

So yeah, I don't see something consistent here.

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What does your Mars aspect? I think I do see something consistent however it doesn't have to be totally abusive your relationship it can even indicate that you attract unavailable men but again I don't what your Mars aspects....

but don't forget we have to take ALSO into consideration the progressed 7th ruler and possibly if it's receiving good aspects from the natal and/or progressed chart.

posted April 23, 2016 09:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
She's not physically abusive at all. She was a bully as a child, but that seemed to have relaxed as she got older. She's quick to verbal combat but not physical.

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I see thanks for letting me know electro!

posted April 23, 2016 09:58 AM            

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Originally posted by strawberryaa:
Hmm... that's very interesting I have never really had any bad experiences. My Mars is in 8th house, also Mars is opposite Pluto, but none of the guys that I have dated were abusive or obsessive. I do get very jealous and obsessive about my partners though
Would be interesting to hear more stories

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Do you experience power struggles with men? How close is the orb?

posted April 23, 2016 01:53 PM            

Mars opposite Pluto orb -4°58'

Sometimes yes I do struggle with that, usually something like mind games and manipulation, which drives me crazy.

posted April 24, 2016 12:19 AM            

But my lovely little Nessus cancer@2.30 sits right next Mars and made plays in my early relationships. I married an abusive man after having had a very abusive father.

After spending a great deal of time alone, being very soliatary and refusing to allow anyone to help or get close to me im reaching out to realize i finally have learned how to pick men who support me and show me new ways to be happy.
I do notice my relationships now tend to be very unconventional and i keep men that im with at arms length for quite some time, even if im feeling very attached. I let them show me they care and have something to give. Im finding deep friendships come first, even if i feel love i dont express it because im building the friendship first....if that cant be built the love wont last anyway.

Uranus/Aquarius rules my 5th house
My 9th house holding my Gem Mars, 9th house lord is Jupiter. My aries jupiter is in my 7th house.

posted April 24, 2016 12:48 AM            

My opinion is that attraction comes from what you value and a libra rising usually is modified in terms of their Venus.

The common characteristics are that they jump in a relationship very quickly and if they're single they're always on the look out to find a partner (very much like Libra sun, and I'd say in my experiences even much more than a libra sun). They usually like to be the right (and the nice) one so they are quite attracted to dramas, people who live a drama-filled life, or just ppl who are more assertive. Libra rising often presents themselves as being open and approachable so lots of ppl hit on them casually and they gladly take it. Libra us an opportunistic sign and Libra Asc like to be on every one good side in case they ever need you for something.

At some point, they might realize they don't "love" their partner any more and it's like a switch. So they're off to find someone else.

posted April 25, 2016 04:47 PM            

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Originally posted by strawberryaa:
@angel4845

Mars opposite Pluto orb -4°58'

Sometimes yes I do struggle with that, usually something like mind games and manipulation, which drives me crazy.

I also have these aspects, but I don't really know how they manifest in attracting certain people..
Mercury conjunction Mars orb +2°28'
Mars trine Neptune orb -1°01'
Mars trine Uranus orb -7°53'

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i see i can see that with mars opposite pluto.

I also have Mercury conjunct Mars Strawberry but in my 3rd/4th house there's a lot of arguing in my relationships that i've noticed and the only aspect i have with my 7th ruler is it is conjunct my mercury exact and square my ASC opposite lilith and i have had strong power struggles with the men i attract, all my life it has been power struggles with men.

posted April 25, 2016 04:48 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:

I attract energetic, outspoken people who also have very high sex drives.
I wouldn't say abusive or aggressive but definitely extroverts.
Usually Libra suns actually.

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nice! can you give me your mars sign what house and the aspects it makes in your birth chart? i'd like to know

posted April 25, 2016 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Astrochologist:
mine is square Mercury. Can't say for sure if it's affected me specifically

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i see what you mean, i have the conjunction in capricorn astrochologist and its in my 3rd/4th house and i often attract people who like to argue in my relationships plus i love to argue to, lots of debates considering mercury is my 9th ruler plus it can get physical in my relationships.

posted April 25, 2016 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Libra AC
Mars gemini@29 in 9th house
Only aspects are--
Conjunct MC cancer@7
Trine to Uranus scorp@5(uranus only aspect is a square to saturn)
Nearly an unaspected Mars....

But my lovely little Nessus cancer@2.30 sits right next Mars and made plays in my early relationships. I married an abusive man after having had a very abusive father.

After spending a great deal of time alone, being very soliatary and refusing to allow anyone to help or get close to me im reaching out to realize i finally have learned how to pick men who support me and show me new ways to be happy.
I do notice my relationships now tend to be very unconventional and i keep men that im with at arms length for quite some time, even if im feeling very attached. I let them showi me they care and have something to give. Im finding deep friendships come first, even if i feel love i dont express it because im building the friendship first....if that cant be built the love wont last anyway.

Uranus/Aquarius rules my 5th house
My 9th house holding my Gem Mars, 9th house lord is Jupiter. My aries jupiter is in my 7th house.

My Venus libra@19, Pluto@11, AC libra@7
Jupiter aries@15

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thanks gabby I'm sorry to hear you had an abusive father so did i, i truly understand <3. That's cool that you have found a way to manage your 7th ruler i always seem to forget that i have the power to use my 7th ruler wisely because i mean i have an intense 7th ruler and its opposing lilith and i always catch myself attracting men that don't treat women fairly.

posted April 25, 2016 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
As an Aries moon, I attract quite a lot of libra rising and many have "afflicted" Mars.

My opinion is that attraction comes from what you value and a libra rising usually is modified in terms of their Venus.

The common characteristics are that they jump in a relationship very quickly and if they're single they're always on the look out to find a partner (very much like Libra sun, and I'd say in my experiences even much more than a libra sun). They usually like to be the right (and the nice) one so they are quite attracted to dramas, people who live a drama-filled life, or just ppl who are more assertive. Libra rising often presents themselves as being open and approachable so lots of ppl hit on them casually and they gladly take it. Libra us an opportunistic sign and Libra Asc like to be on every one good side in case they ever need you for something.

At some point, they might realize they don't "love" their partner any more and it's like a switch. So they're off to find someone else.

Ppl I know with libra risings have Mars in Cancer, Virgo, Libra, and Capricorn and Venus in Scorpio and Gemini.

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ha! nice! you just described me completely when i was younger LOL!

i hate being libra rising to be honest it sucks i hate having to always be in a relationship but my venus in sag in the 3rd house can't be alone but yet my moon in aries in the 7th is afflicted, it squares my 5th ruler uranus and my north node in the 4th house. My 7th house vertex is square my north node.

my relationships are just totally unhealthy and i can't seem to be satisfied with one person and i hate being caged in a relationship. in the beginning i love being in a relationship but later on i get so stifled and i get bored but i don't think it has anything to do with the sign libra i totally blame my chart ruler venus in sag in the 3rd house and my moon squaring uranus/north node.

You say Libra Risings get hit on often, i agree completely and it sucks i don't like it (i act nice kind when they ask for my number because i don't like to be rude despite i have mars conjunct mercury in the 3rd/4th house in cap) its quite sad for us especially early libra risings and sometimes i feel like I'm being treated like a plastic barbie and i noticed that i tend to attract libra rising /girls/guys, or girls/guys with sun conjunct venus in there chart, or mars in caps/gemini guys and gals.

posted April 26, 2016 11:31 AM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
thanks gabby I'm sorry to hear you had an abusive father so did i, i truly understand <3. That's cool that you have found a way to manage your 7th ruler i always seem to forget that i have the power to use my 7th ruler wisely because i mean i have an intense 7th ruler and its opposing lilith and i always catch myself attracting men that don't treat women fairly.

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It's taken a long time to get here, so dont pressure yourself...self love is the way to go!!

posted April 26, 2016 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
It's taken a long time to get here, so dont pressure yourself...self love is the way to go!!

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posted April 26, 2016 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
nice! can you give me your mars sign what house and the aspects it makes in your birth chart? i'd like to know

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posted April 26, 2016 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Your mars is retrograde also? If I remember.

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posted April 27, 2016 02:47 PM            

I have these aspects:
Mars conjunct Uranus (exact)
Mars conjunct Neptune (4)
Mars sextile Pluto (3)
Mars square ASC (3)
Mars opposition MC (1)

I have dated the whole dang spectrum of men, I don't have a type but the Mars conjunct Uranus is pretty strong because most of my partners have been unique or eccentric. I've dated many Pisces, a couple Scorps. My relationships are usually really short, if I see a red flag or something I don't like and I'm not attached I run. Or I get attached to people who run. However I've had two relationships last over a year so hmmm