posted April 28, 2016 10:24 PM            

The Libra is indecisive in his thinking. Don’t be so foolish as to ask a Libra if you should have Chinese or Mexican. By the time he figures it out, you will be gnawing your arm off. The Mars in Libra male will be disconcerting for the woman who wants a “take action” man. This man needs YOU to pull him in one direction or the other.

For every indecisive man, there is a decisive woman, who fits the bill perfectly. Calling all Aries woman! We have a Libra man who is stuck in Park.

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posted April 28, 2016 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Koniucha:
The stuck in park made me laugh!

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Thank you, K

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posted April 28, 2016 10:37 PM            

he is fashionable and wear good clothes which my Venus in Libra approves

buttt

when we go to eat, he cant pick what to eat. He makes me decide for him, or he tells the waiter to bring him whatever they decide.

posted April 29, 2016 06:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
my guy has Mars in Libra, Sun in Aries

he is fashionable and wear good clothes which my Venus in Libra approves

buttt

when we go to eat, he cant pick what to eat. He makes me decide for him, or he tells the waiter to bring him whatever they decide.

yup

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posted April 29, 2016 06:17 AM            

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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
I also noticed that Mars in Libra folks can be the biggest procrastinators ever! Libra Mars men don't struck me as manly at all. I think their indecision would annoy the hell out of an Aries (or heck any other fire sign) woman.

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Yea, about the manly

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posted April 29, 2016 10:34 AM            

My SO has Mars in Libra and it did take some getting used to. His instinctual fairness can still drive me mad ("pick a side, dammit!") but at the same time, he is the first one to make peace in an argument and is very forthcoming about how he could have been in the wrong. He's not one to drag anything on longer than necessary to maintain his pride. Harmony is the name of the game.

posted April 29, 2016 11:11 AM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
Yes, yes and YES about the indecision. But I will say...once they've evaluated their options and they do decide, they stick with it.

My SO has Mars in Libra and it did take some getting used to. His instinctual fairness can still drive me mad ("pick a side, dammit!") but at the same time, he is the first one to make peace in an argument and is very forthcoming about how he could have been in the wrong. He's not one to drag anything on longer than necessary to maintain his pride. Harmony is the name of the game.

He too takes great care of himself and loves fashion. He also keeps a clean home and has a keen eye for interior design. Not your typical rugged "manly man" but he is definitely manly enough when it counts!

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posted April 29, 2016 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Lerena:
I know absolutely nothing about Mars in Libra, but indecision doesn't bother me much. The only thing about indecision is when I'm asked for help making a decision I have to analyze which option the Mars in Libra would prefer and that takes forever. Mars in Libra men can really teach me the art of patience.

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posted April 30, 2016 06:44 AM            

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posted April 30, 2016 07:15 AM            

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Originally posted by SnowCatcher:
Aries is impatient, whereas Libra projects impatience on others

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That is a very interesting point.
Like Mars in the 1st vs. Mars in the 7th.
Makes sense...

posted April 30, 2016 08:39 AM            

I don't see the point of this thread.

"Mars in Libra is indecisive and the men are girly, let's all rag on this placement." ???

posted April 30, 2016 10:22 AM            

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posted April 30, 2016 11:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
I love Mars in Libra, the men can be really gentle and nice sometimes (or all the time) which I completely value. If they take a bit longer to order something, I don't care, they've earned that much by their usual graciousness.

I don't see the point of this thread.

"Mars in Libra is indecisive and the men are girly, let's all rag on this placement." ???

No offense to the contributors, it's the OP's intentions that bother me.

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posted April 30, 2016 11:36 AM            

With Libra mars, well I'd think that they don't like being angry and probably don't like anyone being angry. (Imbalance)
I'd also imagine that sexually they are not a fan of doing all of the work OR being a dead log and lay there.
The indecisiveness that I've seen in the few that I know comes out in not being sure IF OR HOW to confront someone that they want to. I see them as avoiding confrontation, not that they won't if pushed. But they don't want to rock the boat more than absolutely necessary.
That's what I've noticed.

As mentioned earlier in this thread about one that was really aggressive. I could see that depending on the rest of the chart. There may have been something there, how they perceived the world or even in their upbringing that they feel that being aggressive balances out some part of them. They may feel that they give too much in some other areas of life. Maybe endured aggression and now that built up anger is releasing. There's a LOT of possibilities.
Just a quick guess.

posted April 30, 2016 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Sounds like strong Pluto, Taine.

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posted April 30, 2016 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
I love Mars in Libra, the men can be really gentle and nice sometimes (or all the time) which I completely value. If they take a bit longer to order something, I don't care, they've earned that much by their usual graciousness.

I don't see the point of this thread.

"Mars in Libra is indecisive and the men are girly, let's all rag on this placement." ???

No offense to the contributors, it's the OP's intentions that bother me.

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Yep, intentions.

Speaking of... As a Libra, my intention is now to inject some balance here.

Here's an alternate look at the mars in Libra man:

Mars in Libra: 'Aggressively charming'.
They are amongst the most courteous of men, old-school flowers-and-candy variety. They believe in 'wooing' their lady in a traditionally romantic way. You will be taken out to the theatre; to classy, but not flashy, restaurants - the works. They share the Air mars trait of being an intellectual. They will neither loudly talk over you nor sit in awkward silence. Smooth, sparkling conversation and subtle romantic gestures are more their speed. They believe in equality and reciprocity, so they will not pressure you into doing anything, going anywhere that you don't want.

But at the same time, they are a cardinal mars, and will go after what they want. In a direct, but sweet way. Direct does not always have to abrasive. They can be sweetly, maddeningly persuasive. (No wonder a lot of lawyers are born under this placement). Their indecision comes into play when their heart and mind are not aligned about something, or don't 'agree' about something. If they are not sure how to proceed, they won't. Once they are though, they will be decisive and persistent enough about what they set out to achieve. They just get it done so smoothly that it appears as if there was no determination or effort involved. But there is, it's just masked. (Linda's classic 'iron fist in velvet glove' analogy).

posted April 30, 2016 04:23 PM            

Perfectly said.

I have a lot of experience with this Mars sign since it runs in my family and my ex had it (dated on/off five years).