posted May 02, 2016 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by curious girl:
Hi,

this is interesting (at least for me). His Venus almost exactly sextiles my Venus, his Moon is almost exactly conjunct my Moon, he has full 7th and 8th houses, I have full 7th and 8th houses. He has Pluto square Venus, I have Pluto conjunct Mars, conjunct Venus.... so the connection is very powerful. But.. he does not like the music I like and I donīt like the music he likes. He doesnīt like the perfume I love to wear... not the sweet scents I love... I thought Venuses and Moons in harmonious contacts in synastry meant we love each otherīs styles... and now Iīm quite surprised to find that it is not truth... and I donīt understand why... Can anybody please give me any explanation?

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I think those synastrical contacts mean much more than the "superficial" things you've mentioned. One can easily change their musical taste just as fast as the perfume they wear. Mine has changed plenty over the years!

How does he make you FEEL though? Do his intentions overall in life conflict with yours, or do you generally feel as though you're on the same page? Moon-Moon synastry speaks to emotional compatibility - you have an innate understanding of each's emotional nature. Venus-Venus synastry can mean you speak each other's "love language" and express love in a pleasing way to each other. It can also help with day-to-day decision making if you have similar values.

People with hard aspects between these planets are still fortunate enough to have that connection, however you may feel as though you don't always see eye-to-eye with them on a deeper level.

The other things you've mentioned ie. you both having Venus/Pluto in your natals has more to do with mirroring each other's energy even if those planets don't make contact with each other in synastry. So, his expression of Venus/Pluto energy will be similar to the way you express it, even if you don't bring this out in each other - i.e. he might be frustrated, you might be frustrated, but you're not necessarily frustrated towards each other...if that makes sense?