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Topic: Mercury rx in my 8th house, i cant cope anymore.
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HCtheQueenOfWands Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2015
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posted May 05, 2016 10:00 PM
Ever since i ended up homeless in ottawa because of some guy that did things to me when i was drunk and kept me in his place for the night, thank god i got a job so i could move back to Toronto, problem is my abusive ex lives near me, and he saw me and he pushed me down the street. Plus i found out my true love my Cappy bf is moving to the British army tomorrow and he got drafted. Me and my friends are trying to find a way to get him out but i dont know for real like he's going away. I hate my life hes the best man ive ever met in my life besides my daddy. Btw if you wanted to know his bday its dec 29 1994. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Ive also been thinking about my dead father alot during this period too and how i should join him, ive been having so much bad things happen to me in a short time. Plus new moon is going in my 8th house maybe it means i should start something new related to heaven and death... I know im only 19 but now i feel like my life isnt really worth much living i just work and go back to my shelter room and connect to public wifi. Love complications, no friends, hard to find somewhere to go due to bad credit. IP: Logged |
Valentine Knowflake Posts: 595 From: Canada Registered: Dec 2014
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posted May 05, 2016 10:18 PM
These feelings you have will pass, believe there are better times ahead, you do have a lot to live for, you just don't realize it yet. IP: Logged |
Seimei Knowflake Posts: 1899 From: n2thedust Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 05, 2016 10:47 PM
Plus i found out my true love my Cappy bf is moving to the British army tomorrow and he got drafted. I admit I can be wrong/incorrect but I had read that a bill to have conscription in the British Army re-start Failed to pass in 2014. A search I just did failed to contradict that. Be certain you are not being lied to and then blow that ******** off/forget it ------------------ LeekingChee IP: Logged |
aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 381 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 06, 2016 01:22 AM
You're way too young to end your life. There's a lot of bad things ahead of you but there is also good things to come. Life just changes between good and bad times but it will change overtime. If you ever need to talk we are all here.IP: Logged |
DualGem Knowflake Posts: 120 From: Canada Registered: Oct 2015
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posted May 06, 2016 02:18 AM
Well for starters there's nothing that your doing wrong.I have a somewhat idea of how tough life in Ottawa was for you. For the time being I live in Ottawa and similarly I plan on leaving this place.. Ottawa has always been known to be a depressing place. It a government town either you work in the public sector or your struggling in minimal paying jobs. I can't say anything positive of both the lower class and the public sector people(off topic I'm glad my username isn't obvious otherwise my boss and coworkers wouldn't be happy if they read that). The lower class are really scum and the guy you describe above is most likely that type of guy. I wanted to lay that out just so you know I understand. Its not your fault, your doing nothing wrong and your doing the best you can. I understand how difficult living in Ottawa can be. Off topic I just came back from Toronto last week and instantly got depressed as I was driving back here. Depression is surprisingly high in Ottawa in comparison to other places in Canada. Again I'm emphasizing I know how difficult it can be and I understand. Your abusive ex is a typical gem, yes Gemini men can be obsessive. I would suggest staying in T.Dot(aka Toronto to people who don't know the phrase). There the only people in Canada that actually hold the myth of "Canadians being too friendly" and Vancouver. People are more receptive in these two places. I wish you could do more for your Cappy bf, Capricorn and Pisces are a natural pair. ==================================== Gemini Sun, Capricorn Rising Aries Moon Gemini Mercury Venus Taurus Mars Cancer IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4084 From: Fort Collins, CO Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 06, 2016 03:42 AM
Just cry it out and feel the pain, sometimes that is all you can do and what needs to happen. I am sorry all this is happening to you.IP: Logged |
HCtheQueenOfWands Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2015
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posted May 06, 2016 10:35 AM
Thanks for your support guys But yeah now im figuring out with my Virgo friends how to bail him out of the army IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 17569 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 06, 2016 11:33 AM
I think you are doing an amazing job!!You got yourself out of an abusive situation, you're working, that is courageous, smart, and awesome!!! Please don't let your happiness depend on what the boys are doing. Keep rising above your circumstances as you have been doing! And then maybe right man will be up there waiting, or maybe not, but you will have taken care of yourself, and that is so admirable and does your father proud. Bravo to you, I'm so glad you are working on your issues. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 17569 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 06, 2016 11:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Just cry it out and feel the pain, sometimes that is all you can do and what needs to happen. I am sorry all this is happening to you.
This too... IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4084 From: Fort Collins, CO Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 06, 2016 03:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by HCtheQueenOfWands: Thanks for your support guys But yeah now im figuring out with my Virgo friends how to bail him out of the army
That is wonderful!!! IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4084 From: Fort Collins, CO Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 06, 2016 03:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: I think you are doing an amazing job!!You got yourself out of an abusive situation, you're working, that is courageous, smart, and awesome!!! Please don't let your happiness depend on what the boys are doing. Keep rising above your circumstances as you have been doing! And then maybe right man will be up there waiting, or maybe not, but you will have taken care of yourself, and that is so admirable and does your father proud. Bravo to you, I'm so glad you are working on your issues.
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fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 660 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 06, 2016 05:13 PM
Queen of Wands, You have overcome so much and have tons of life to live. I know how it is to get worn down and STILL have a bunch of shite thrown at you.
You WILL get through this and you should be so proud of yourself. My Pisces Moon is sending a hug to your Sun. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |