posted May 06, 2016 11:09 AM            

I was wondering what do you believe personally that femininity means? What does it mean to be a girl/woman in YOUR personal life. If you are a male, let me know what you think about femininity too.

And let me know what kind of role model was your mother growing up. How did she express her femininity and what value did she teach/influence in you?

I am doing a research please be honest you are anonymous so no need for any sugar coating. Love. x

Also let me know your moon sign and the aspects making with your Venus too.

posted May 06, 2016 01:07 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Unfortunately my venus is making aspects to pluto, saturn, and mars..

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😧 poor you. x

posted May 06, 2016 03:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Spica:
😧 poor you. x

You can still share the info if you feel like. I'm interested. x

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Hahaha. My venus trine pluto 1°, quintile saturn 1°/uranus 0°, sextile neptune 2°, and square mars 0°. And also my Sun/Moon midpoint is Venus & Mars.

1. What do you believe personally that femininity means?

Free to be yourself. Classy. A virtuous woman. Not talking too much (hahaha, I'm just kidding, I mean, know when to talk and know when to listen). Exuding self-confidence & inner beauty. Tenderness, well, I think good manners as a woman (the gender role?). Understanding. Being smart in your own way.

2. What does it mean to be a girl/woman in YOUR personal life?

"Confident in your own sexuality, beauty, ability, belief and body and show trust and kindness towards other women of all races, bodies, backgrounds and beliefs." -- I love this quote, but also trust and kindness towards mankind (although it is hard these days for me, but it will show you real people and you will get another new learning experiences).

In professional life, sometimes I wish I was born as a male. They tend to underestimate women.

Since I have Venus square Mars exact, I dress like a tomboy but people can see my femininity. Some of my friends even guess me as a Pisces sun.

3. What kind of role model was your mother growing up?

Smart. Independent. Nurturing. Neat/Clean. Discipline (well, sometimes can be very strict). Caring. Active. Loyal and Strong woman.

She has Mars in Cancer, but I don't find any negative influence (like emotional manipulation, guilt trip, etc) in her debilitated mars. I guess because she is very spiritual and always see the world from positive perspective. She is very strict as well as nurturing. I more often see her moon and venus come to play.

4. How did she express her femininity?

She also has Venus in Pisces. Her femininity comes from inner beauty as well as being virtuous and strong woman. She is a traditional woman. She looks like a fragile woman tough.

5. What value did she teach/influence in you?

Number 3.

posted May 06, 2016 04:54 PM            

Women are all different and I personally love strength and independence as well in a woman. To be honest, I kind of see past gender. It makes no difference to me and I think there is no clear definition. Gender is unimportant in my opinion. I think this belief comes more from my mars being in aquarius

That's who I am in my personal life. I kind of have two separate sides of me because of my sagittarius moon and venus in pisces being squared. I like being independent, blunt, and unemotional, but I also have a very emotional and empathetic side that is also very spiritual. I find myself being in relationships where I might be taken advantage of or I'm the saviour. Typical venus pisces in that way I guess!

My mother is my number one role model. I have a sagittarius ascendant as well and my moon conjuncts my ascendant. The mother is a big influence on my life. She is so strong, so successful in her career and so hard working.

posted May 06, 2016 05:08 PM            

Subtly. The indirect approach. Violence/actions by proxy. Passive Resistance. Using allure to draw in desired outcomes. Working behind the scenes. Puppet-mastery, plausible deniability. Ever changing under currents under a surface of calm waters.

2.What does it mean to be a girl/woman in YOUR personal life?

Life demanding them to conform to various ideas to please a society that is hurting the people more the actually helping them. Trying to be completely independent, yet feel ashamed when they have needs that can’t meet on their own. (Younger) Confusion and disappointment in how the culture is shifting. (Older) …oh, umm dressing up to look nice? (Most)

3.What kind of role model was your mother growing up?

She was basically a pillar of stability, no matter what happened, so long as she could do something, everything would work out.

4.How did she express her femininity?

Umm…I suppose looking nice and getting compliments? Caring and Nurturing.

5.What value did she teach/influence in you?

Responsibility. Discipline.

*Has a Pluto-Venus/Pluto-Moon aspect* Also she has a Sag Venus.

posted May 07, 2016 03:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Spica:
Thank you so much everyone for your answers!

I think most of you wrote more about what you'd like femininity to mean or believe by society standards. I think most people automatically know how to answer questions like that. That is why most of your answers are so similar.

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