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Topic: Do you think a scorpio venus + afflicted pisces moon can find love?:P
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2806
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 11, 2016 02:17 PM
  
Lol sorry, this is really a depressive thread, but all this spring weather, couples everywhere and romance in the air, makes a good old scorpio venus go mad.I am single again, and have got my heart broken so many times. I am also disappointing every man I have ever had feelings for, because I'm just really messed up emotionally and unstable. I have a SCORPIO venus in 5th house (trine jupiter, sextile saturn, neptune and uranus, wide conjunct pluto by 9 degrees or so) It's really weak aspected, but not that afflicted in itself, apart from being in scorpio - the most dramatic sign when it comes to love.
I also have a tendency to fall in love with guys that are.....BAD for me  My Moon in pisces is a whole other thing. Its opposite my sun and mars very tight, and square uranus very tight also. And in 10th house. Yeah, it cannot get any worse almost.... My 7th house is capricorn, and the rest of my chart is
Virgo sun in the 4th
Libra mercury in 4th
Virgo mars in 4th
Cancer jupiter in 12th
Capricorn saturn, neptune uranus in 6th
Scorpio pluto in 5th I feel so messed up with my love life, that I'm unsure if I can ever find anyone that will truly love me, and I them. I just think it would be nice if you could spill a few words on this, and how difficult/impossible it is for an afflicted moon/venus person to find true love? IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 17656
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 11, 2016 02:29 PM
I think Pisces moons need to be grounded spiritually, and if we can manage that, everything else will fall into place naturally.  IP: Logged |
SDragon
Moderator Posts: 617
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 11, 2016 02:43 PM
What's your NN? Just curious. Your chart is very close to a love interest I have and she found me (though I'm never 100% sure) if you know what I mean :=) IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 2966
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 11, 2016 02:50 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Lol sorry, this is really a depressive thread, but all this spring weather, couples everywhere and romance in the air, makes a good old scorpio venus go mad.I am single again, and have got my heart broken so many times. I am also disappointing every man I have ever had feelings for, because I'm just really messed up emotionally and unstable. I have a SCORPIO venus in 5th house (trine jupiter, sextile saturn, neptune and uranus, wide conjunct pluto by 9 degrees or so) It's really weak aspected, but not that afflicted in itself, apart from being in scorpio - the most dramatic sign when it comes to love.
I also have a tendency to fall in love with guys that are.....BAD for me My Moon in pisces is a whole other thing. Its opposite my sun and mars very tight, and square uranus very tight also. And in 10th house. Yeah, it cannot get any worse almost.... My 7th house is capricorn, and the rest of my chart is
Virgo sun in the 4th
Libra mercury in 4th
Virgo mars in 4th
Cancer jupiter in 12th
Capricorn saturn, neptune uranus in 6th
Scorpio pluto in 5th I feel so messed up with my love life, that I'm unsure if I can ever find anyone that will truly love me, and I them. I just think it would be nice if you could spill a few words on this, and how difficult/impossible it is for an afflicted Moon/Venus person to find true love?
Of course you can. No-one ever said that one has to be "perfect" in order to be deserving of love. That is our own flawed premise. The real question is; "Do you love yourself enough to feel you deserve it?" Its so easy to go off track and bash yourself on how it can NEVER happen .And how it will NEVER be etc. We are all doing it-in some ways more extreme than others. Its just that we have been practicing the self-bashing for so long (years),that it starts to feel "natural" or form part of our belief system. How can anyone love me?I am so flawed and unlovable? We get used to sitting in the corner in the dark regurgitating pain and feelings of loss/loneliness. Sometimes to a point that we can't even breathe. The real person you are looking for and have always been looking for, is you. Well at-least, that is what I think. That is the person that understands you, knows you deeply and will always be in your head. That is the relationship that is most important. No-one else matters really. Because whomever you are with and the "success" of that relationship, will depend on the relationship that you have with YOU. The irony is that once we stop "looking" for others to love us unconditionally and begin to look for that love within ourselves. The more "love" we seem to attract from others. But the point of life is not to attract love .Nor is it to be the object of someone's embodiment of what love "should" be. We are here to become the embodiment of love that feeds on itself in an unending loop.Not needing validation or "completion" from anything or anyone. Words, words, words..I know. But that's all I have to give  IP: Logged |
DopGang
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From: INTJ
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted May 11, 2016 02:54 PM
Sure. Why not? There's billions of people in the world. That means billions of charts. IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1120
From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 11, 2016 03:00 PM
Of course you can find love! I think the main thing that will help, (and it would also solve the problem with falling in love with people who are bad for you) is to realize that you ARE deserving of love. And that you aren't worthless without a significant other..! I really believe that once you start treating yourself like the main priority, all of these worries will diminish or disappear altogether.
I'm also a Scorp Venus, and I don't have a Pisces Moon, but it's pretty afflicted including a square from Neptune (delusions..) I've been in a similar place many times -- falling for people who are bad, and simultaneously wondering if anyone could ever love me. It's not a coincidence that these 2 problems occur side by side.. After realizing your true worth you will spot the bad ones from miles away, and believe me you will not be attracted to them. In addition, you'll start noticing people who notice your true self shining, and I think that's when you'll find your love.
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meyray
Knowflake Posts: 561
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posted May 11, 2016 03:14 PM
I understand that feel completely, my friend.  We'll make it one day, sis. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2806
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 12, 2016 01:36 PM
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Originally posted by SDragon:
What's your NN? Just curious. Your chart is very close to a love interest I have and she found me (though I'm never 100% sure) if you know what I mean :=)
hah, if she got a chart like me. you can probably be pretty sure... I mean, I rarely stop loving people, but I do cause a lot of drama and doubt.... my NN is Aquarius in 9th house... not exactly a nice love-placement, but more of a loner lol:P IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2806
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 12, 2016 01:40 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Of course you can. No-one ever said that one has to be "perfect" in order to be deserving of love. That is our own flawed premise.The real question is; "Do you love yourself enough to feel you deserve it?" Its so easy to go off track and bash yourself on how it can NEVER happen .And how it will NEVER be etc. We are all doing it-in some ways more extreme than others. Its just that we have been practicing the self-bashing for so long (years),that it starts to feel "natural" or form part of our belief system. How can anyone love me?I am so flawed and unlovable? We get used to sitting in the corner in the dark regurgitating pain and feelings of loss/loneliness. Sometimes to a point that we can't even breathe. The real person you are looking for and have always been looking for, is you. Well at-least, that is what I think. That is the person that understands you, knows you deeply and will always be in your head. That is the relationship that is most important. No-one else matters really. Because whomever you are with and the "success" of that relationship, will depend on the relationship that you have with YOU. The irony is that once we stop "looking" for others to love us unconditionally and begin to look for that love within ourselves. The more "love" we seem to attract from others. But the point of life is not to attract love .Nor is it to be the object of someone's embodiment of what love "should" be. We are here to become the embodiment of love that feeds on itself in an unending loop.Not needing validation or "completion" from anything or anyone. Words, words, words..I know. But that's all I have to give
Thanks for your answer.... and also: THANKS TO EVERYONE ELSE <3333 I really feel better when I see all the nice answers from all of you And yes, I think you are all right. It's really important to be a good friend to yourself as well, and believe in yourself... I am not good at that part, I'm really critical of myself and can also be my own worst enemy in that sense... got to be a bit nicer to myself :P IP: Logged |
SDragon
Moderator Posts: 617
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 12, 2016 04:01 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
hah, if she got a chart like me. you can probably be pretty sure... I mean, I rarely stop loving people, but I do cause a lot of drama and doubt....my NN is Aquarius in 9th house... not exactly a nice love-placement, but more of a loner lol:P
Well, when bridges are built I'm sure, but when walls are built, it's always hard. And venus in scorpio tends to like building walls and only builds bridges grudgingly. She also has NN in Aquarius so I'm pretty sure your birthdate is the exact same give or take 4 hours giving you a different moon. But ya, it took 4-5 years of my consistent stubbornness to kind of open her eyes. I'm sure you'll find someone similar if you really want. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2806
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 13, 2016 01:05 AM
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Originally posted by SDragon:
Well, when bridges are built I'm sure, but when walls are built, it's always hard. And venus in scorpio tends to like building walls and only builds bridges grudgingly. She also has NN in Aquarius so I'm pretty sure your birthdate is the exact same give or take 4 hours giving you a different moon. But ya, it took 4-5 years of my consistent stubbornness to kind of open her eyes. I'm sure you'll find someone similar if you really want.
She must be really lucky to have you  Can I ask what is your placements? I'm really curious now IP: Logged |
SDragon
Moderator Posts: 617
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 13, 2016 06:55 AM
I'm a Taurus stellium with Aq. asc, so synastry creates a venus/mars opp venus, venus/mars tr saturn/neptune, moon opp sun/mars.But I think it's the fact that I get her moon and venus parts that she really enjoys. The need for an all consuming passion with the aloofness of loner/independence. Your moon isn't in aquarius but with moon sq uranus, I'm sure it's a dynamic that can drive you crazy. IP: Logged | |
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