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coffeetime
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posted May 27, 2016 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for coffeetime     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want to share a story with South Node conjunct Venus.

I met a guy (Venus) 3 years ago. We met in a different country on an international gathering. We were supposed to participate there for a week. We were making connections with people from all around the world doing group activities and workshops. In one of them I've made a contact with this guy. The encounter was very light and breezy, nothing like a promise of further connection. Although I couldn't help but notice my liking for him. He was absolutely not my type physically. But, as I notoriously knew myself of falling for wrong men, I let myself symphathise for him, whatsoever. My liking increased even more when he was showing very clear romantic-interest signs and flirting and staring at me non-stop later after the first meeting.
It felt easy to like him and I was pleased that he was so direct right from the start. Like he would only go for a romantic relationship with me. Like there was no other connection possible.
Just one thing kept me quite cynical about all this - he seemed interested only in sex (although he never said that to me) and had a hot-temper (his nationality trait), so I thought maybe he just found me attractive and there's nothing serious about that.
Then there was the last night of this week abroad. As known about SN-Venus connections, we met unexpectedly and it felt fated. Before the hour or so from the meeting, everyone was going to sleep after a party, others shared goodbye kisses with their vacation-lovers in rooms or outside. I was alone and felt that it would be really nice if I would spend my last night in this country with that guy. I felt so clearly and urgently that I want to kiss him. Then reminded myself of unfortunate circumstances, because I had no idea where this guy would be at the moment. Maybe kissing another girl. Then put myself together and managed to find some other friends looking for company. Then, I quickly apologised for going to the ladies room. I had two choices of toilet rooms (haha, nevermind these details), but chose the one which was furthest from me. I didn't have the reason why, but I didn't think much about it as well. I went to the basement and heard some guys singing in our so-called party room. I went to look who were there and with a pound of my heard I saw HIM looking right into my eyes. I was not supposed to get there and find him - but I did.
We talked all night and kissed long. I never thought it would be so easy. I didn't know this guy at all and such familiarity and touchiness and intimacy would have frightened me, but not with him. It was breezy, very romantic, sweet and I was finding it hard to discover a reason why he was so nice with me and why he liked me so much. He said all the nicest and sweetest words for me, which every girl wants to hear. It was like we were in a relationship right from the start. Loving each other and loosing everything in sight except the person right in front of the face.
Also, I wasn't really experienced in kissing and touching and demonstrating affection, but I felt so comfortable sitting so close to him and touching him. I felt like he knew where I like to be caressed. It is always a pleasure to remember that night.
That was it. Our relationship quickly moved to facebook chats and hour-long phone calls, because we couldn't see each other (country distance). We've been on and off and the first two years or so I was going back to him. Like, we knew that our relationship couldn't reach any further, but I still kept in contact with him, wrote him messages and said things. I couldn't believe this was it. Like, we had such great chemistry and fatedness, why it has to be over?
Then after another period of no-contact (we were naturally making breaks because chatting becomes overbearring) we started all from the start. We even started making meeting plans (like actual ones, not dream-like), but as there really came a chance to see him again, I didn't want it anymore. I felt there was no reason to stretching it out. We had it nice, but now it felt draining, especially when he sensed my withdrawal, he started being more active and demanding in terms of arranging meeting and contacting more than we did.
I didn't feel these negative fatedness effects, except our meeting and that night itself, until now.
We didn't make love that night and I feel I owe him that. Strange feeling. It's as if he loves me so much he can't get enough of me just from connection like we have now. And when we will meet (if we will), I will feel obliged to make love with him. Like in the beginning - there is no other possibility. Just one way. And maybe then it will be over? Or maybe it's not it, but I certainly feel I owe him second meeting. And he is so nice to me...I don't even know why I deserve that.
We talked again today after some months and he joked that he's like a plague reaching for my love. And I feel a little bit of a burden with our relationship. It's like I moved on, I no longer feel we have to meet, but I can't hurt him and say that. It's like we have to chat and phone-talk for some time till we meet again and then it will be clear that it's over.
So, the story is like that.

I posted it to give an example how sometimes Venus- South Node connections play out.
I didn't comment on astrological side, I just gave a whole story with a nodal connection theme.
We also have other aspects that keeps the fire going - Venus/Mars conj., Saturn connections, Mars/Moon conj., Pluto and so on.
Share your experiences!

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Adriana
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posted May 27, 2016 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adriana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have my sagi Venus/Mercury conj my ex's south node. (my north node trine his Venus). My Venus is also my 8th house ruler, and Mercury my 5th house ruler.
You could in many ways say the relationship was faithed, but not meant to last. I met him at a very bad time in my life (also in his, but not as bad), I was afraid of love and physical intimacy on many levels because of past experiences. I used to call him my "key" ex, as he helped me open up to love and sex just because of how he is.
We met online, and at the first meeting it wasnt love at first sight or anything. He wasn't "my type" but there was this strange back door attraction there still, and he used some time to get me lol
He is my first bf. Some years before I met him I had dreams and visions of him, it may sound cheezy, but theres just so many details to just be a coincidence!
But it felt like after this was "sorted" for both of us, the relationship had run its course, we just werent compatible enough outside of the bedroom lol (Venus and Mars squares and trines)

Also his Scorpio Moon conjuncts my Saturn which is also my chart ruler standing in my 8th house teamed up with Pluto, so I also think that was significant..

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posted May 27, 2016 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have my South Node in Leo conjunct my Moon in Leo.

My husband has his Venus & Moon in Leo right on my South Node/Moon, we have got along great from the first moment we met (it was love at first sight) and our marriage is strong and harmonious.

A year before I even met my husband, I dated a man who had his Venus in Leo on my South Node/Moon in Leo as well. It was love at first sight too, a very passionate, intense relationship but he ended up leaving me for someone else. It broke my heart and I fell into depression for long months.

I would say Venus conjunct South Node doesn't make or break a synastry but it's something that can play a factor.

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posted May 27, 2016 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@diamondbaby, Im assuming having your moon conjunct south node makes you more south node oriented? Do you feel at all that your husband holds you back in any way? Or not? Just really curious about this as my moon conjuncts someone's moon/SN conjunction too

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posted May 27, 2016 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
EmGem, no I don't feel like my husband holds me back in any way. We share a very strong emotional bond and he understands even my deepest feelings. He makes me feel safe & loved and has always felt like home to me. I have to admit that I have often felt as if I knew him in a past life or something. We fell in love at first sight and I moved halfway across the world from Europe to the U.S. just to be with him.

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posted May 27, 2016 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also have SN (his) conjunct Venus (mine) in synastry with my boyfriend. The first time I saw him, it was like I was hit with a sack of bricks and I couldn't stop shaking. Many years later when we re-met, his jaw dropped when I walked through the door, not yet knowing it was me.

He has said that I feel like home to him. I wonder about the validity of past lives, but he makes me sort of believe in them. I dreamt of him a lot before we reconnected and got together again. My NN is also conjunct his IC in synastry

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posted May 27, 2016 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
EmGem, no I don't feel like my husband holds me back in any way. We share a very strong emotional bond and he understands even my deepest feelings. He makes me feel safe & loved and has always felt like home to me. I have to admit that I have often felt as if I knew him in a past life or something. We fell in love at first sight and I moved halfway across the world from Europe to the U.S. just to be with him.

So happy to hear of positive SN stories! So many I have come across are doom and gloom, holding back etc blah blah.
I can feel the connection through your beautiful words diamondbaby 😌 Feeling like home is exactly the word to describe it. My SN conjuncts my love's ASC and I feel the same.
Do you have any NN connections?

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posted May 27, 2016 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by athenaia:
I also have SN (his) conjunct Venus (mine) in synastry with my boyfriend. The first time I saw him, it was like I was hit with a sack of bricks and I couldn't stop shaking. Many years later when we re-met, his jaw dropped when I walked through the door, not yet knowing it was me.

He has said that I feel like home to him. I wonder about the validity of past lives, but he makes me sort of believe in them. I dreamt of him a lot before we reconnected and got together again. My NN is also conjunct his IC in synastry


Beautiful 💜 Sounds like past lives to me 😊

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posted May 27, 2016 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
So happy to hear of positive SN stories! So many I have come across are doom and gloom, holding back etc blah blah.
I can feel the connection through your beautiful words diamondbaby 😌 Feeling like home is exactly the word to describe it. My SN conjuncts my love's ASC and I feel the same.
Do you have any NN connections?

Thank you, EmGem! That's amazing that you feel the same way with your love!

My husband's North Node is in Leo (13 degrees away from our SN/Moon/Moon/Venus conjunction) and it conjuncts my Jupiter, trine my Sagittarius Sun/Venus, his Ascendant in Sagittarius, and my Midheaven in Aries.

I can strongly feel the effect of the North Node/Jupiter conjunction in our relationship. My husband always says that he feels very lucky to have me as his wife and that I expanded his view of the world. I speak several languages and I started to teach him my first language. We also love to travel together and even just going for long walks while talking about everything and anything. It makes sense that his Moon/Venus in Leo conjuncts my Moon/South Node because he has always said that I'm his "dream woman". I'm indeed Leo-like. Also, Leo is my favorite sign and the one I relate to the most

I agree that it's good to see positive stories about SN conjunctions in synastry! It's a beautiful and deep synastry aspect to have.

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posted May 28, 2016 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted May 28, 2016 03:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
Thank you, EmGem! That's amazing that you feel the same way with your love!

My husband's North Node is in Leo (13 degrees away from our SN/Moon/Moon/Venus conjunction) and it conjuncts my Jupiter, trine my Sagittarius Sun/Venus, his Ascendant in Sagittarius, and my Midheaven in Aries.

I can strongly feel the effect of the North Node/Jupiter conjunction in our relationship. My husband always says that he feels very lucky to have me as his wife and that I expanded his view of the world. I speak several languages and I started to teach him my first language. We also love to travel together and even just going for long walks while talking about everything and anything. It makes sense that his Moon/Venus in Leo conjuncts my Moon/South Node because he has always said that I'm his "dream woman". I'm indeed Leo-like. Also, Leo is my favorite sign and the one I relate to the most

I agree that it's good to see positive stories about SN conjunctions in synastry! It's a beautiful and deep synastry aspect to have.


Thank you so much for sharing. I love the sound of your relationship, and that Jupiter NN connection sounds so divine!
It's funny because I was googling info about SN connections in long lasting marriages and this thread comes up! I love how the universe works 😄
Does he make contacts to your NN too?

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posted May 28, 2016 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
Thank you so much for sharing. I love the sound of your relationship, and that Jupiter NN connection sounds so divine!
It's funny because I was googling info about SN connections in long lasting marriages and this thread comes up! I love how the universe works 😄
Does he make contacts to your NN too?

My North Node is in Aquarius, it trines my Mars in Gemini and my husband's Saturn forms a trine to both. Because of my natal North Node/Mars trine I'm a very passionate person and I know how to get what I want, and my husband's Saturn trine to both can mean that he helped me to be less impulsive, more persistent, and to never give up. Basically he helped my "Mars" to grow up, if that makes sense.

I love the trines in our synastry, it's a very harmonious, flowing energy. Some people say natal trines (and sextiles to a lesser degree) make one lazy and not motivated enough but in my case they motivate me to bring out the best me.

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posted May 28, 2016 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was interested to see if he contacted your NN because our synastry is very SN oriented. He does makes contacts to my NN, it conjuncts his DSC - teaching me a lot about how to relate on a different level and not be so self absorbed (Aries SN). Sounds like yiur husband is teaching you lots through his Saturn. The best teacher of all sounds like you have a beautifully balanced marriage. Something to aspire to!
My love's NN biquintiles my midheaven, and its ruler sextiles my ASC, Uranus and psyche. And it trines my Chiron. So I'm sure I teach him lots too, there's lots of healing that happens whenever we are together, very cathartic.
I think trines are beautiful! 💜

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posted May 28, 2016 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
I was interested to see if he contacted your NN because our synastry is very SN oriented. He does makes contacts to my NN, it conjuncts his DSC - teaching me a lot about how to relate on a different level and not be so self absorbed (Aries SN). Sounds like yiur husband is teaching you lots through his Saturn. The best teacher of all sounds like you have a beautifully balanced marriage. Something to aspire to!
My love's NN biquintiles my midheaven, and its ruler sextiles my ASC, Uranus and psyche. And it trines my Chiron. So I'm sure I teach him lots too, there's lots of healing that happens whenever we are together, very cathartic.
I think trines are beautiful! 💜

That's a beautiful connection you two have there, I especially love the North Node/Chiron trine!

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posted May 28, 2016 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For Coffeetime (this is basically a repeat of what I put in the other forum),

You say if you meet him again you'll need to sleep with him because you owe him that? No way. You don't owe him any such thing just because he's been 'nice' to you. If you already know it's over, the best thing to do is end it. Think carefully of the right words minimize the feeling of rejection for him, and while he might be disappointed he'll get over it. But you certainly don't owe him a meaningless night of passion just because of how charming he's been. Regardless of what synastry you share.

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posted May 29, 2016 06:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for coffeetime     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, no way! I care for myself and I wouldn't do such a thing without really wanting to. But I don't feel I want to do it with him. We don't know each other well. We just chat and talk :/
Last night he said he thinks that we will end up together, when the timing will be right. Now I'm the one, who thinks he's on the cloud really! Our relationship is getting too childish..or maybe it's his Venus in Pisces. Maybe he doesn't care about 'boundaries' that we have. He has my idealised self in his head and believes in a fairytale...
I don't know

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