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posted May 29, 2016 07:18 PM            

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I know he has feelings for me. He has shown me and told me. I am hoping for love feelings. I do not think he is there. He is so controlled with his emotions. How can I break him down?

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posted May 29, 2016 08:28 PM            

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Just be patient, give him time and show him you care

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posted May 29, 2016 08:38 PM            

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Don't "break people down" lol j.k I know what you mean. But seriously though, if someone loves/likes you, they'll make it known. If they hold back for personal reasons then just let them be.

Plus, I think it's worth checking out his transits to see if Tr pluto is grinding his cap placements. If yes, then you may want to give him space.

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posted May 29, 2016 09:47 PM            

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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
How can I break him down?

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Just gotta be a little persistent jk.

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posted May 29, 2016 10:03 PM            

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Hi guys. Inaccurate choice of words!
Yes Pluto is transiting his Cap. planets in his H7.

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posted May 29, 2016 10:29 PM            

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LMFAO @ SnowCatcher!!!

You don't get them to do anything, Capricorns like to think they have the best ideas. So... be a seed planter. I don't care what books say, Capricorns are not all serious and whatnot. They get their feelings hurt easily and usually have a level of insecurity underneath. Use that to advantage, BUT be genuine meaning do it because you really like THEM not because you want them to like YOU.

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posted May 29, 2016 10:39 PM            

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hanna, I really do like him. In fact, I love him and he knows it.
Can you give me examples of the following:
"Plant the seed" and "use this to your advantage" I know he has insecurities, but I do not want to manipulate him. If that makes sense?
You are right about Capricorns. He is set in his thinking and will debate with me.

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posted May 29, 2016 10:46 PM            

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Our charts are over in Interpersonal. I would jump and down with excitement if others would analyze them for me.
Stellium and Goat man

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posted May 29, 2016 10:52 PM            

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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
hanna, I really do like him. In fact, I love him and he knows it.
Can you give me examples of the following:
"Plant the seed" and "use this to your advantage" I know he has insecurities, but I do not want to manipulate him. If that makes sense?
You are right about Capricorns. He is set in his thinking and will debate with me.

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Seed planting is a stereotypical passive characteristic for girls. You drop hints, basically, but if he knows you love him and it's that deep then now all you can do is wait and love him. I like Capricorns for the sheer reason they won't make you feel stupid even if your feelings aren't reciprocated. Does he give you the time of day? That's a good sign. I mean, there's different motivations for anyone doing that but Capricorns are very time oriented and won't do things just because it's there. Just don't push him. Taurus' hate being pushed but need it, Virgos need to be pushed just to give them direction, but Capricorns hate being pushed and it will make them take even more of their time to decide on you.

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posted May 30, 2016 12:32 AM            

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Hmmm.....Caps don't really show/say love like others do. If he spends time with you, helps you, calls/sms you then chance is most likely he likes/loves you.

In my brain saying "I love you" ONE TIME lasts for an eternity and coming to that point might take years.

If I am avoidant and come with excuses all the time it means I don't like you very much at all.

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posted May 30, 2016 08:24 AM            

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All of your input fits him - it makes great sense. Thanks!

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