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Topic: 3rd house stelliums and the possibilty of being promiscuous?
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Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 670 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 31, 2016 06:05 PM
Everyone talks about looking at the 5th house of romance for promiscuous or casual sex. What about the 3rd? 3rd house is ruled by Gemini. Gemini treats sex like it's a fun game. Thing is, i've been noticing a trend with 3rd house Stelliums and a person being promiscuous. Especially, when the sexual planets like venus,mars, and pluto are there. I've also noticed a few LL members with 3rd house stelliums, though i won't mention any names 😏 Anyone care to share or elaborate? IP: Logged |
diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 754 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 31, 2016 06:18 PM
I agree that the 3rd house is associated with Gemini and that planets in the 3rd house give off a Gemini-like vibe. But I personally don't agree about Gemini/3rd house energy being promiscuous. In my opinion Gemini like air signs in general, are not very sexual.IP: Logged |
headintheclouds91 Knowflake Posts: 764 From: Registered: Mar 2016
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posted May 31, 2016 06:23 PM
Drake (the rapper) i think got a third house stellium with sun venus and mercury there and he is very flirty and has been around the block. He admitted it himself in an interview he did a few years ago. But he also wasn't entirely happy with that lifestyle and wanted something deeper probably bc of his water stellium.
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Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 955 From: USA Today Registered: Aug 2015
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posted May 31, 2016 06:54 PM
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Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 670 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 31, 2016 07:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mergoatsun: I have a third house stellium and I like sex but I'm not promiscuous. Promiscuity is throwing yourself at anyone. I don't do that, I love sex but I need to have a partner I know, trust and most importantly have an intellectual connection with to really enjoy it.
Well i also mentioned casual sex. Like fwb or booty calls. A strong Gemini trait.
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8774 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 31, 2016 09:46 PM
I have both a 3H and 5H stellium, so how do you separate them?I'm much more open to the idea of casual and experimental sex than most others are, but I would not call myself promiscuous, not even in my experimental phase, as promiscuous means "indiscriminate" that implies a lack of responsibility and caution, and that was not true of me even then. IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 311 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 31, 2016 10:07 PM
I have sun 5th and a stellium in the 3rd house (mars, venus, mercury, uranus, neptune, saturn) aaaaaand... I'm not promiscuous but yes I like flirting, but mostly cause I get bored really easily IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 670 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 31, 2016 10:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: I have both a 3H and 5H stellium, so how do you separate them?I'm much more open to the idea of casual and experimental sex than most others are, but I would not call myself promiscuous, not even in my experimental phase, as promiscuous means "indiscriminate" that implies a lack of responsibility and caution, and that was not true of me even then.
Jeje Pixie, Its considered indiscriminate or CASUAL. Meaning you approach sex in a casual manner, you don't discriminate against potential sexual suitors. I believe both stelliums are part as to your experimintation. Never seen 2 stelliums at once in those houses lol. Multiple parters or just casual are the keywords i should've used.
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8774 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 31, 2016 11:05 PM
^^As long as you're not making the "virgin or ***** " fallacy. IP: Logged |
aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 732 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 01, 2016 02:13 AM
I'm not sure that I see the connection. As far as Drake's case, maybe a heavy 3H might allow someone to be very active in their neighborhood and they're constantly communicating w/ different people, thus creating more chance of meeting new people for sex? At the most, this may create a "flirt". He probably has other supporting factors in his chart to make him "promiscuous". But in isolation, idk if this can create promiscuity. IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 670 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 01, 2016 03:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquagembaby: I'm not sure that I see the connection. As far as Drake's case, maybe a heavy 3H might allow someone to be very active in their neighborhood and they're constantly communicating w/ different people, thus creating more chance of meeting new people for sex? At the most, this may create a "flirt". He probably has other supporting factors in his chart to make him "promiscuous". But in isolation, idk if this can create promiscuity.
Never looked at it that way! Strong 3rd house does make one more flighty and thus having more "opportunities." Forgot Usher has a major 3rd house stellium. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1555 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 01, 2016 05:44 PM
I have venus conjunct exact 3rd house cusp and mars-sun by 2 degrees from second...i am sort of a monk.. when I am not in love i can be without any relationship for years.. i dont find sex without feelings appealing although i have tried it and it is not bad (moon-mercury in germini) but at this point in my life I am not even curious.. I only want to have sex with someone i feel emotionally connected and who adores me.. otherwise i stay in my monastic state... I suspect the gemini placement more than 3rd house can reveal that.. because gemini are curios, open-minded and enjoyed playing with posibilities... at the end of the day, how do you know how things are if you dont experience them? although once gemini satisfy the curiosity, it may just lose interest. in my case, I dont have that curiosity anymore... maybe my planets aspecting the 3rd house are too cancerian and that changes everything. wondering how it would be if the planets were in gemini IP: Logged |
aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 732 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 02, 2016 03:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini30: Never looked at it that way! Strong 3rd house does make one more flighty and thus having more "opportunities."Forgot Usher has a major 3rd house stellium.
Interesting. Yeah 3H is the "charmer" if anything IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 877 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted June 02, 2016 07:07 PM
Packed 3rd houser here! I think I am flirtatious but not always in a promiscuous way. I can talk and have conversations with anyone at ease so makes it easier for guys to approach me. I suppose it seems flirty from the outside...? IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8774 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 02, 2016 11:37 PM
I don't flirt, but I'm social. If I was always eager for more sex then it wouldn't be a problem. Many think I flirt or lead them on (all I have to do is give a polite smile and others will sense all kinds of sexual innuendo ), but I'm not sure if they're picking up on my 5H energies (which includes Neptune as well as Mars, Eros, and more) or if that the majority of people ignore others unless there's something they want from them (which for a woman is usually sex, at least by men). It could even be that so many men and women seek sex and/or romance that any amount of interaction causes mutual assessment in that direction for most people (and those that block the other off are either then avoided, or seen as playing hard to get, a mind game they must "win" to get the prize, or possibly trying to work out some issues over rejection as one woman did to poor gay men who had the misfortune to be forced into her company) so that it's just "reasonably assumed," and when someone comes along that doesn't respond to that formula, such as myself, then mutual misunderstandings ensue. (ETA: even as a kid, some were sure my tomboyish ways and hobbies were just a way to compete against other girls for guys. ) IP: Logged |