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Topic: Why virgo heavy people love neptune?
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Char25
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From: Sydney, nsw, Australia
Registered: May 2013
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posted June 03, 2016 10:28 AM
  
Hi GuysIs there a reason straight laced uber logical virgos are fascinated and always attracting Neptune heavy types. I am Neptune heavy and I assumed people would virgo would dislike me but infact its the complete opposite. Why does this happen with virgo? IP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted June 03, 2016 11:29 AM
My husband has Virgo Sun, Mercury, Jupiter, Saturn, Midheaven and he is not attracted to people with strong Neptune influence. I'm fire dominant and I don't have strong Pisces/Neptune/12th house influence in my natal chart. It's just a stereotype that opposites attract which isn't even true in many cases. Also, you have to look at the whole chart, just because someone is "a Virgo" (a.k.a. Virgo Sun) doesn't necessarily mean that they have a Virgo dominant chart, they can easily have Moon/Venus/whatever planet in water signs and/or water houses (4th, 8th, 12th) which would explain the attraction to Pisces/Neptune type of people. IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted June 03, 2016 11:37 AM
It may only happen to you because of something in your chart. You are the most isolated, common factor. I would think something in your chart.
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Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
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posted June 03, 2016 11:47 AM
My Virgo ex went on one date with a Pisces sun and took forever to get over her. Basically it all looks like projection ~ what he thought she was... One can project easier onto Pisces because it's formless and accepts the projection, often anticipates or intuits the other person's desire and tries to embody it. Virgo needs someone who at least tries to be their ideal? Giving credit where it's due, Pisces does try. Please don't quote this.... IP: Logged |
Selenite
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From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 03, 2016 01:09 PM
Some don't like it sure, but many Virgos love Neptune / Pisces because they fill what the Virgo lacks in terms of spirituality, emotional depth, etc., especially if the Virgo-influenced person lacks water.IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted June 03, 2016 01:13 PM
Also, hmmm. Don't quote me either please.  As a Virgo heavy person and maybe it's just me and something other than Virgo. You know Virgo looks at things logically first, emotionally second. Or looks at emotions logically to look for patterns and predictability. Things like that.
Anyway, I briefly and lightly dated some purely out of curiosity. I wanted to see what they hid from the world. What they didn't show most people. Even a sexual side to see if it matched the impression they gave or if it was only an impression. Also, I want to make clear. There are a couple that it's POSSIBLE that they see this post. In that case, I would like to say that it was not that way with them. Promise.
Maybe it's just me and my unique chart. IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1153
From: Lyra
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posted June 03, 2016 01:20 PM
That sounds like an 8th house / Scorpio influence.. IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted June 03, 2016 01:28 PM
It does but I don't have too much going on.
Pluto in first and Scorpio NN/Uranus. That's about it. IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte
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posted June 03, 2016 01:38 PM
from a personal perspective.. my dad is a virgo rising, sun, merc, mars all conj 1st house/asc and his pluto is also conj his asc 12th house.. and he always tends to find himself with pisces women or Neptune influenced, my mom has her scorpio sun conj Neptune haha. I think hes drawn to these women more because of the selflessness and compassion of pisces, hes a sucker for super sweet and nice ladies. especially if they cook for him lol and I feel like because hes rather harsh and intense, that the softness and forgiving nature of pisces is what compliments him I suppose. also.. it could be too that his venus is conj Neptune hahaIP: Logged |
Elysia
Knowflake Posts: 1458
From: Gotham
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted June 03, 2016 02:18 PM
Depends...
Like the posters above have said, if it's something they lack - then they welcome it. And/or if it's someone that is attractive to them, 'coz of their chart (Neptune s**t going on). Being with someone like that might help Virgo let their hair down every once in a while. Virgo-Pisces is one of the easier polarity axes, IMO. Mutability makes them both more willing to compromise, in a way. But the same formlessness that made Pisces so attractive in the beginning later turns into 'flakiness', that may drive the Virgo away. Anyone who's ever known a Virgo can tell you how much they like flakiness. Not that Pisces intends to be that way -- they may just end up promising too much, out of a wistful desire to please. But when it really comes down to *doing* it -- be overwhelmed. Virgo is already the responsible one, the caretaker, the doer - with almost everyone they know. If they feel put upon by this, then they may slip away by degrees. Conversely, if Pisces feels too critised or analysed instead of held-and-understood, they might slip away. ---- Whoopsie, sorry for derailing from the main question. Back in 3, 2, 1 ... ----
Another major reason Virgos may be attracted to Neptune-influenced people is that it activates their inner 'Savior complex'. Here's a gentle soul, who needs help in the big, bad world that's all-too-real. "I can take care of this", Virgo thinks. "I can make her feel safe. She shouldn't have to be bothered with all that, she has an artist's soul." ^ This is all mostly about a Virgo & Pisces *energy* personification, not the Virgo suns & Pisces suns literally. Other natal placements/aspects can make a Virgo more Piscean than a Solar Piscean and vice-versa. IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1153
From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 03, 2016 03:11 PM
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Originally posted by DopGang:
It does but I don't have too much going on.
Pluto in first and Scorpio NN/Uranus. That's about it.
I think the Scorpio NN is huge! I have it too.
Strangely, what you posted also sounds like a Gemini influence. The curiosity, the lightheartedness to dating (in that instance) just to see what would happen. IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1153
From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 03, 2016 03:16 PM
^ Elysia, I can relate, sounds exactly like the problems in my relationship. He has actually said to me, "I wish you were a little more focused," during a very open and sincere conversation. (And meanwhile I'm over here being more focused than anyone I know besides him. Lol  ) While I often think, "I wish you had a little more empathy." (Meaning, any empathy at all)... all of this is said with love of course.  He's a Virgo moon and I'm a Moon sq. Neptune. I think he does have a touch of savior too.
Interestingly, he has Neptune conjunct his ASC, but it's in the 12th house. He is a stark atheist but grew up around religious extremity his whole life. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 17882
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 03, 2016 03:41 PM
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Not that Pisces intends to be that way -- they may just end up promising too much, out of a wistful desire to please. But when it really comes down to *doing* it -- be overwhelmed. Virgo is already the responsible one, the caretaker, the doer - with almost everyone they know. If they feel put upon by this, then they may slip away by degrees. Conversely, if Pisces feels too critised or analysed instead of held-and-understood, they might slip away.
^ Sounds accurate.  edit IP: Logged |
Koniucha
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posted June 03, 2016 03:54 PM
Because it's your opposite. You are drawn to what You are missing. I am Neptunian and have always been attracted to Virgo types. IP: Logged |
Elysia
Knowflake Posts: 1458
From: Gotham
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted June 03, 2016 03:57 PM
Yeah -- "When Pisces intuition backfires and the miracle doesn't come after all, Virgo wants to teach Pisces not to try that again." (I hope it's okay I quoted that, really liked the way you framed all of it. Will delete it if you prefer though..) That's brilliant, about them disagreeing about the means more than the end. Didn't mean to say they're less practical, they seem that way.. My Pisces friends are actually way more practical than I am.. I just always thought they were the 'less' idealistic Pisceans, coz I always get into debates with them about such things..who knows, it might just be relative..(?) IP: Logged |
Elysia
Knowflake Posts: 1458
From: Gotham
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted June 03, 2016 04:01 PM
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Originally posted by Selenite:
^ Elysia, I can relate, sounds exactly like the problems in my relationship. He has actually said to me, "I wish you were a little more focused," during a very open and sincere conversation. (And meanwhile I'm over here being more focused than anyone I know besides him. Lol ) While I often think, "I wish you had a little more empathy." (Meaning, any empathy at all)... all of this is said with love of course. He's a Virgo moon and I'm a Moon sq. Neptune. I think he does have a touch of savior too.
Interestingly, he has Neptune conjunct his ASC, but it's in the 12th house. He is a stark atheist but grew up around religious extremity his whole life.
Haha! yeah, I understand...  Sometimes wind up in that dynamic with them too.. 
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Faith
Knowflake Posts: 17882
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 03, 2016 04:06 PM
@ElysiaAh thank you. It's okay to quote that IP: Logged |
mollywu
Knowflake Posts: 438
From: Chengdu, China
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted June 03, 2016 08:06 PM
It's not true in my case. I have got Virgo ASC,Sun,Venus,NN and Saturn. The ruler of ASC, Mercury, and Jupiter are in 12th house, but I don't love Neptune/Pisces. IP: Logged |
Char25
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: Sydney, nsw, Australia
Registered: May 2013
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posted June 03, 2016 10:03 PM
Hi Guys thank you all for your experiences . I think you have a point..it does depend on individual chart. Virgo descendant would also explain a lot ...IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2809
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 04, 2016 02:37 AM
I'm a virgo sun + mars plus stellium in 6th house.... (I also got pisces moon)and I LOVE pisces and neptune heavy people... my favorite aspect is sun-neptune and favorite placement is anything in pisces... But it's also a though love with pisces people for me... it hasn't really been a success at all to be honest!  I love that they are very dreamy, immaginative and just really damn cute, but in reality they are not a great match for me, because they are too spaced out. They are really also a sort of magical poison for me! I cannot help feel really drawn to them, and longing for them, but I can never truly reach them, I am too much the opposite for really doing that (or too much the same?) IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo
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From: Sittin' on Mercury
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted June 04, 2016 03:14 AM
I was attracted to Pisces/Neptune influenced people when I didn't understand them. They baffled me as much as they drew me in.Edited I think we have more in common than we like to think. But our differences can also tear each other apart, given the right circumstances. IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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Registered: Aug 2015
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posted June 04, 2016 05:22 AM
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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I was attracted to Pisces/Neptune influenced people when I didn't understand them. They baffled me as much as they drew me in.Edited I think we have more in common than we like to think. But our differences can also tear each other apart, given the right circumstances.
Exactly. I've felt like this too. Virgo Sun/Mercury. IP: Logged |
coffeetime
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posted June 04, 2016 07:29 AM
My friend is Mercury and Venus Virgo and she just keeps going around her Pisces bff.They're inseparable, always together. In parties the Pisces girl always gets drunk and my Virgo friend follows her everywhere (she's sober) and makes sure her phone is not thrown somewhere away or that she doesn't say private stuff to other ppl. It looks like the more Pisces doesn't care about Virgo girl, the more Virgo tries to win over her and be that BESTIE. I remember one party where I accidentaly met that Pisces girl near the lake (we had a house near the lake for the party) and she was sitting behind some big stone. I sat too and she started saying something. About boyfriends and her love life and that she's a player and don't actually love any boy she had and stuff like that. Yup, she was drunk. And then I didn't notice it before but from somewhere the Virgo girl came and she said to shut up for Pisces and sat in front of me so I don't see Pisces girl. What the hell? Virgos care for Pisces, because Pisces can't do that for themselves. Except that they don't even want to. IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 2338
From: INTJ
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posted June 04, 2016 09:26 AM
quote:
Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I was attracted to Pisces/Neptune influenced people when I didn't understand them. They baffled me as much as they drew me in.Edited I think we have more in common than we like to think. But our differences can also tear each other apart, given the right circumstances.
Agree!
Sort of what I meant but it wasn't any particular sign. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted June 04, 2016 10:52 AM
I've read that Virgos and Pisces like to dote on each other. Seems true a lot of the time, from my own experience and observations.
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