posted June 13, 2016 07:42 PM            

It all happened so fast, he was getting in my face like he was gonna hit me, yelling at me, berating me, calling me names all in front of my 2 year old..

Then he told me "I'm taking her" and picked her up and attempted to leave. I screamed for my neighbors to call 911 and he put her down and ran.

posted June 13, 2016 09:07 PM            

I am shaken by this, I am trying not to breakdown. I feel like his family is in a war against me trying to protect him and he is the criminal here. I genuinely did nothing to him. I told him to get out of my house because he was screaming at me in front of my daughter.

I posted about it on FB because I was scared he was going to do something and I thought it would give me some sort of protection by letting my friends know. His sister commented telling me "You are so immature for posting this publicly, there are two sides to every story and I know you probably did something too."

posted June 13, 2016 11:24 PM            

Protect yourself missblyss, get some pepper spray. Your back-up plan.

posted June 13, 2016 11:48 PM            

I am feeling sort of down. I have only a small number of close friends, family, and work buddies on FB. I made a post after the incident letting everyone know what happened; I felt his family and my family needed to be updated, that it would help keep me safe having them informed.

posted June 14, 2016 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
HIs sister comments saying "We all have problems with our exs but aren't as immature as you to post this publicly. There are two sides to every story and I am sure you aren't innocent."

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posted June 14, 2016 12:52 AM            

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Originally posted by bonsai:
Funny. I bet she wouldn't say that if it weren't about her brother. If it were a friend of hers saying that about a random guy she'd offer her support immediately, but once it's about a family member, suddenly there are two sides to every story.

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posted June 14, 2016 04:39 AM            

stay safe missblyss!

posted June 16, 2016 06:26 AM            

It takes time but I now finally feel luckier than most other parents. I'd get so profoundly upset by him but now I don't have to have the constant upset of seeing him to exchange parenting - in fact I feel in some ways I was protected from that more long drawn out battle by a - nevertheless - pretty heart wrenching period of time.

Just envision being happy and it will be possible when you're not trying to envision that with him.

posted June 16, 2016 10:17 AM            

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Originally posted by florence:
the best thing I ever did was when I finally allowed practical realities and love for my family to intercede in how I hoped things could be with my children's father.

It takes time but I now finally feel luckier than most other parents. I'd get so profoundly upset by him but now I don't have to have the constant upset of seeing him to exchange parenting - in fact I feel in some ways I was protected from that more long drawn out battle by a - nevertheless - pretty heart wrenching period of time.

Just envision being happy and it will be possible when you're not trying to envision that with him.

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thank you for the response sister. TBH, I am past the point of thinking of him and what he and I could be or were.. Like, this genuinely crossed a line within me that has changed my whole perspective of our relationship. I no longer can even toy around with any idea of a future with him. I gladly think of finding myself a stable man who will be a better father figure for my daughter.

posted June 17, 2016 10:41 AM            

Mars is moving retrograde through Scorpio right now, so if he does, whatever house that would be in would be affected, and whatever planet(s) he has in Scorpio.

Mars is currently touching nothing in hard aspect to my chart or my husband's chart, but we've both been hit by just...a lot of craziness, as far as too many things going on at once, phone calls and texts all day from different people/agencies, etc.

It's been this way for most people I know, and if Mars is hitting any of their personal planets, the temper is definitely there.

posted June 17, 2016 11:20 AM            

I am so afraid my friends, it is so scary for me to go up against him. I have known him to do awful things to others, to try to poison people, to break into their homes, etc.. Now I pray and hope he would not be so stupid to do something to me when everyone would know it was him...