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misslani
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posted June 23, 2016 06:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for misslani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want to tell you a story. We met about a year ago. He was my boss, my age and we got along great. He got married earlier that year and I was in a relationship at the time. We became friends. I found out that he grew up without parents and felt like no one ever truly loved him and before he met his wife, he was in a relationship for 6 years, until she cheated on him. He married his wife because her visa was expiring and he didnīt want to lose her because she was giving him all the love and attention he never recieved before. However, after they got married, that attention became suffocating. She was following him around, making tantrums if he didnīt send a photo of where he was at whenever she asked, started checking out his cellphone, calls and internet history, followed him to the gym to see if he really works out, even accused him of cheating with his best friend (male).

Around the same time my boyfriend and I broke up due to him cheating on me. I was in a really bad place at the time. So, my boss and I spent all of this time together, talking, joking, having fun working together and we felt this... attraction. Actually, the attraction was there from the moment we met, but due to our relationships, we ignored it. He confessed it first and told me he wanted to get involved with me. At first, I made fun of the situation and of him, but on the inside, I was struggling with the decision. What pushed me towards him was "No one cares about my feelings when they hurt me, why should I care about anyone elseīs?"

Everything, from our conversations, first kiss to the first time we had sex, was electric. Absolutely perfect. About month and a half later, when we were already completely in love, his wife found out that she was pregnant. We broke up, but didnīt last a week without each other. Ever since then, we keep breaking up, trying to "do the right thing", but also keep getting back together. Sheīs due in about 5 weeks. We promised each other that we would end this. We have to. I love him, so much. I even love that little unborn baby girl because sheīs a part of him and sheīs the only person Iīd be willing to give up on him for. He loves his wife, but isnīt in love with her. I donīt hate her. Theyīre just broken people who met together and keep breaking each other further. I donīt know whatīs going to happen. A part of me is telling me to force myself to move on. The other part of me (the one that comes from a family where a father cheated on my mother, married his mistress and yet all of us, "children" and adults are happier now than when my parents were together) is telling me to wait and not rush into something trying to get over him because that relationshipīs doomed from the beginning and (I sound like a vulture here) some things are better falling apart, so the pieces could grow into something stronger, better.


Sorry for the long post.

What I want to ask is... What is it that you see from our synastry chart? What is it that makes us feel the way we do?

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posted June 23, 2016 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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