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Gabby
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posted July 05, 2016 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ive known 3 guys....
One had libra Sun, scorp Moon/Venus and virgo Mars.
2nd had libra Sun, scorp Moon and virgo AC
3rd has libra Sun, virgo Moon, scorp Venus/Mars

All said the same thing...they adore tiny, very thin women. If a woman is taller n has any extra weight its a turn off, not that they wouldn't date them...but they prefer short n thin.
The virgo Mars even said he didn't mind if they were too thin, or had an eating disorder...that made me wonder if that was the Virgo energy talking, since virgos can have issues with food n their striving for perfection.

None of them seemed to have eating issues but all ate very healthy and watched their weight.
One was a personal trainer, the virgo Mars didn't expect himself to be very thin, but he did workout. The last guy was very thin and didn't eat a lot, he did the "Insanity" workout.
All were in decent shape themselves, the virgo AC was in amazing shape.

Does this combo make you overly concerned with appearance, health n being thin?

Also-i have Virgo Moon with Libra AC conjunct Pluto and i can be a little obsessed with staying in good shape n i watch my weight closely.
My 1st and 8th house ruler, Venus is in my first nearly conjunct AC and scorp NN/Uranus.

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posted July 05, 2016 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have very similar combo.. libra sun, virgo moon and scorpio venus/pluto conj.

I'm very attracted to small women, i prefer girls who are thin and toned, smaller breasts and upper body but bigger booty. i wouldn't say i like girls rail thin per say, toned but still voluptuous? if that makes sense haha but my venus/pluto are on my DC so its more than likely the culprit of my love of Venusian body type.

i have a pretty wirey and toned body myself.. so its probably similar body attraction type.
and i can see virgo as being influential too because i do find people who take care of themselves pretty attractive as well as "clean" or well put together looking.

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posted July 05, 2016 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think it's Scorpio energy, but Libra might contribute to the need to be beautiful and healthy, especially when combined with Virgo.

Libra wants to be appealing and attractive and when it's in a chart with Virgo I'm sure Virgo would be more obsessive about their looks and the appearance of whoever they date.

Then again, I have no experience with this subject myself. It's just a guess.

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posted July 05, 2016 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BeholdAstarte:
i have very similar combo.. libra sun, virgo moon and scorpio venus/pluto conj.

I'm very attracted to small women, i prefer girls who are thin and toned, smaller breasts and upper body but bigger booty. i wouldn't say i like girls rail thin per say, toned but still voluptuous? if that makes sense haha but my venus/pluto are on my DC so its more than likely the culprit of my love of Venusian body type.

i have a pretty wirey and toned body myself.. so its probably similar body attraction type.
and i can see virgo as being influential too because i do find people who take care of themselves pretty attractive as well as "clean" or well put together looking.


It was only Virgo Mars exact sextile Scorpio Venus that liked the almost too thin types, but he still wanted a butt n a little boobs.
The other 2 seemed a little more reasonable, like you toned n in good shape. They wanted thin but no sickly thin.
I agree about the cleanliness being a virgo trait! Lol
I appreciate someone who takes good care of themselves to.

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posted July 05, 2016 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lerena:
I don't think it's Scorpio energy, but Libra might contribute to the need to be beautiful and healthy, especially when combined with Virgo.

Libra wants to be appealing and attractive and when it's in a chart with Virgo I'm sure Virgo would be more obsessive about their looks and the appearance of whoever they date.

Then again, I have no experience with this subject myself. It's just a guess.


I was almost wondering if it was Pluto/Scorp energy that gave the obsessiveness about it. I agree Libra gives the want for being attractive and Virgo gives the desire for perfection n being extra concerned with cleanliness.

The 3rd guy who was pretty thin and almost seemed to not eat enough himself....had Virgo Moon conjunct Pluto/Uranus making a sextile to his scorp Mars/Neptune/Venus.

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posted July 05, 2016 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux RÍve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My father was (is?) like this.

Scorpio Sun, Aqua Moon; VIRGO Venus conjunct Uranus and Pluto (unknown houses though).

You might be onto something.
I definitely think Virgo plays a big role in this.

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posted July 05, 2016 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd think Libra guys would be naturally inclined to curvy over beanpole (the one Libra man I can think of offhand did, that Libra having a Pisces moon, Virgo Venus and Cappie Mars, IIRC), though beanpole would surely be preferred over humpty dumpty. But ultimately, I suppose symmetry is the most important aspect.

But I'd also think they'd consider personality and intelligence even more attractive, though of course it all matters, just that someone who can make them feel good and stimulate them intellectually is much more prized by them than by other men.

'Course, if they're the spineless suckup Libras I keep hearing about (but have never met, at least not to get to know them well enough to learn their sign) then they could just go for whatever it is they think they're SUPPOSED to go for, which won't make them happy in the long run (and would also help explain why they're supposed to be so unfaithful, according to the same ones who say they're spineless, because they can't be happy with what they're supposed to like, in addition to being so weak).

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posted July 05, 2016 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Mercury energy!

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posted July 05, 2016 10:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Four personal Virgo placements here.
Not that I represent all of course but to contribute.

I'm not a fan of really thin. Keira Knightley for example, that's too skinny for my taste. Some pictures she looks attractive to me but generally speaking, I think I like a bit more weight than her.
Though I've seen this in Virgo.


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posted July 06, 2016 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've always been thin, and usually dated guys with personal planets in Virgo. Then married one.

One winter in college, I lost weight while not paying attention. A few people asked me if I had become anorexic, that's when I realized I had to put on weight.

Then I got back together with my ex, who had a Virgo moon and Mars. He said he'd been watching me across campus that winter and was upset and kind of repulsed by how thin I had gotten. He just went on and on about it. I think that's the only time in my life I was ever "body shamed."

For what it's worth.

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posted July 06, 2016 12:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The libras with some virgo influence I know have all commented favorably on the smaller sized, slender, healthy-looking bodies. Not necessarily "thin", just toned.

My s.o has libra sun, virgo moon/venus/mars. Eats his vegetables, stays active, watches his weight...etc... He likes to maintain good physical health. Watches my weight, hah when I was going through a bit of a rough time my weight dropped and he weighed me like every week.

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posted July 06, 2016 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly, as someone who has several libra family members and have known several libras regardless of placements, they usually like people who are overall attractive and women who are feminine. And femininity is often defined by cultural expectations so it has a lot to do with how they grew up ( Capricorn ruling their 4th indicating their quite conservative beliefs). Do often this manifests as liking women who look "soft," with social graces... Etc.

The women often embody what they consider is feminine. I watched a vid on YouTube by Jewel Mayberry and she said Libra women think like men, I.e. They put themselves in a man's shoes and see what he's like and that's how they "win" in relationships.

My libra coworker always starved herself so she could look sexy. She has scorp Venus and cancer moon and a libra Mars to add. She put her husband on a diet as well so imaging and branding are very important to these ppl.

It's interesting you picked out moon-Pluto types. Will Smith also got married to a very petite Virgo ...so there you have it.

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posted July 06, 2016 10:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ex has Venus in Libra, sun in Scorpio and Virgo rising. He was very attracted to me but he wanted me to gain 10 pounds and he is right I looked way hotter with 10 more pounds on me.

When I met my husband I was underweight too and he was the first guy I met who did not say anything about my weight and did not ask me to gain weight and he is who I gained weight with finally, he has sun in Libra, Mars in Scorpio and sun, pluto and mercury on the 6th with Taurus rising and Jupiter in Virgo.

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posted July 06, 2016 11:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My bf has venus in Libra but many Virgo placements including his Sun, Mercury and Jupiter, and he loves skinny women, hes actually told me he couldn't date a fat woman. He doesn't have anything in Scorpio. He also prefers tiny women, so it's probably a Libra and Virgo combo like someone suggested before.

My best friend is a Libra/Virgo combo and she's constantly obsessing over her weight, she had a really bad eating disorder for a while

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I strongly believe it is the combination of Mercurial and Venusian energy mixed together. I am a Gemini Moon and Mars with a Virgo Midheaven. Gemini Mars Co-rules my entire chart. So lots of Mercury. Then I have Venus in the first house conjunct my Sun.

I adore thin men (understatement of the year). I have been attracted to guys that are not thin, but thin is my preference. It really confuses some people (as slender men are not seen as very masculine), but I find it nearly irresistible (my Mars Rx maybe?).

I myself am very slender (always between 105-110 pounds) and just below average height. Small 34 A chest, 24" waist, 34" hips (same as my top half). Yet I'm a Sagittarius so I somehow manage to still look "full" or curvy from the hips down....it is odd. I might post a pic so it can actually make sense. Anyway, this may sound a little twisted, but in a way I look for myself in male form. Not a guy who literally looks like a woman (no) but one with the complimentary equivalent of my built (the male version).

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posted July 06, 2016 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunarRose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Most men desire a woman w/ ALL her fat in her breasts or butt or breasts and butt or no fat at all. Even overweight men want thin gfs. Women w/ a "fat" stomach is anathema to men. I'm a Libra w/ Virgo Jupiter and I've always been avg weight not super thin.

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posted July 06, 2016 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LunarRose:
Most men desire a woman w/ ALL her fat in her breasts or butt or breasts and butt or no fat at all. Even overweight men want thin gfs. Women w/ a "fat" stomach is anathema to men. I'm a Libra w/ Virgo Jupiter and I've always been avg weight not super thin.

That's not true, when I lost a lot my body fat and weight due to a chronic illness I still had plenty of suitors and plenty of people who thought my underweight body was perfect. Men are not a monolithic group who only desire 1 thing

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posted July 06, 2016 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a Libra sun, Pisces moon, Venus and Mars in Virgo.

He is attracted to skinny women.

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posted July 06, 2016 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Culture plays a role more so I feel...Latin men wanted me to gain weight and have more meat on my bones were as white boys seem to care less about that and like you super thin or with some meat and more curvy like in the case of my husband who has liked me either way..

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posted July 06, 2016 04:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Culture plays a role more so I feel...Latin men wanted me to gain weight and have more meat on my bones were as white boys seem to care less about that and like you super thin or with some meat and more curvy like in the case of my husband who has liked me either way..

In some cases but not if it's an intellectual connection. My significant other is Mexican and he fell in love with me at my skinniest-89 pounds.

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posted July 06, 2016 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LittleBlackCat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Men are not a monolithic group who only desire 1 thing



Agreed. I've been the same weight my whole life (which is very slender), so I can't compare suitors based on whether I had more or less weight. However, I find your statement to be true based on the fact that guys who typically like heavier girls have liked me also

Individual mannerisms etc. play a role. This can be seen in the case of the short or less than conventionally handsome man getting all the ladies. He may move / act different than others with his type. More confidence or a certain seduction for example. He wears his lack of height well and it may become an attraction factor.

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posted July 06, 2016 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A libra man, Scorpio moon man with Venus in Scorpio I know loves tall thin women. Aries rules his 7th house, located in the 9th.

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posted July 06, 2016 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for your everyone!! Definitely seeing a trend with libra/virgo energy here!!

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posted July 06, 2016 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nyctea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a Libra Moon and Mars who likes girls with small boobs and butt, overall thin. Please don't quote.

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posted July 06, 2016 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Though I know this is about males, I felt like sharing that a girl I know with Libra moon and Mars (Cancer sun) likes guys who are educated, refined, and classy, a gentleman if you will (not meant to include the ones that go to strip clubs, at least not openly so ). She has little tolerance for toilet humor from guys, and though he's welcome to take the lead, he better show her respect while doing so.

Such guys also look pretty good...not necessarily model good looks, but they're fit and take care of themselves, which includes style on top of good grooming. I've never seen her with a bulky guy, though she's never expressed distaste for such either, perhaps she just has to meet the right one. (That said, I know that looks matter a lot to her, both physical and fashion-wise, she doesn't do well with loud, garish, and/or clashing colors for example.)

I've also never seen her date someone who could pass for a nerd, despite that she values intelligence and education (not just so that he can take care of her way, but because she needs her mind stimulated as well, and she has to respect him just as he respects her). Doesn't mean it won't happen, just that it hasn't yet (as far as I know anyway). Or maybe she has but such a guy didn't really look the part.

She's still young, though, so who knows how her tastes will change (or at least expand) in the next few years.

Of all the signs, Libra seems to balance the gender qualities the most, so what Libra energy applies to females is more likely to apply to males as well, beyond some cosmetic differences. In any case, I'm curious about the guy with Libra moon and Mars.

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