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posted July 15, 2016 12:39 AM            

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What would cause this? Like I'm pretty sure when I encounter another guy that's interested in me, I can tell right off the bat and there's this eye contact connection, but I'm not sure I can get the same sense from girls.

Like I feel like my intuition is 100% with guys but only 50% with girls. Is there an aspect that might explain this or do you think I'm just more cautious with girls because I don't want to misread intentions that aren't there? Or do you think girls don't put out that much energy in general even if there is attraction?

Just wondering if anyone has encountered this?

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posted July 15, 2016 01:11 AM            

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I take it your bi?

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posted July 15, 2016 02:07 AM            

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I don't know about aspects, but i'm a guy and I can't read women either.

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posted July 15, 2016 08:20 AM            

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No, I've never considered myself bi. I have Venus conjunct mars so I'm comfortable with both though it's in Taurus so you'd think I'd be better reading the more passive energies.

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posted July 15, 2016 09:43 PM            

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Yeah I have Venus conjunct Mars too by 1d but in Leo.

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posted July 16, 2016 09:57 AM            

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@SDragon:

Random ass theories but perhaps you have:
-Jupiter Retrograde (lack of confidence in intuition)

-Libra somewhere (ASC, Saturn, Pluto?) Indecisiveness/Trying to be fair/accommodating

-Gemini somewhere (Sun? Mercury? Moon?)
Bi-curiousness

-Pluto in Libra Retrograde (intense, backwards sort of perspective/perception with others)

BTW I just put placements that can be relevant to your question. Could be WAYY OFF.

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posted July 16, 2016 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by @lycat74:
@SDragon:

Random ass theories but perhaps you have:

-Pluto in Libra Retrograde (intense, backwards sort of perspective/perception with others)

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Yes, interesting, didn't think it'd have such an impact on perceptions.

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posted July 16, 2016 11:25 AM            

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Huh.. my Pluto is in Libra too, Rx, and I can't read girls. I'd normally not even think about it, except I had girls come on to me that were a total surprise, while on the other hand, I was sure my girl crush was sending me signals (I was seriously getting ready, in my head!), when apparently she was just being friendly.

I think I read guys pretty well. Not 100%, but close. It helps that they're less complicated.

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posted July 16, 2016 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by SDragon:
Yes, interesting, didn't think it'd have such an impact on perceptions.

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@SDragon: Yes Pluto in Libra is a generation all about destruction/transformation of traditional relationships. And you know Libra is ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS. Retrograde internalizes this energy.

Perhaps you internalize the guy stuff but since bi curiousness/ is (was) such a new conception that is now being accepted into the mainstream you weren't raised or taught to look for attraction with/to girls. Whatever the case Pluto in Libra RX is all about relationships and definitely they take cues from society/social culture

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posted July 16, 2016 11:12 PM            

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Wow, very well put lycat, I'm seeing generational astrology in a whole new light. Don't think I'm necessarily one to bring out this new relationship to the masses, but definitely my current soulmate relationship is of the Aquarius age.

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