posted July 26, 2016 08:21 AM
I dont know hey..... People go crazy about the Venus/Mars contacts.Mars is a soldier and not a lover. So yes, Mars can "do" sex and the whole sha-bang. But is not limited to that expression.
Mars must and does move on to other challenges when done as it is in their nature to do so.
The Venus and Mars archetype are so differing and in such cross purposes in expression(unless conjunct).That i really dont get the hype here.
Because it is great for the initial phases of the relationship(where things are all hot and bothered) but when that goes, Venus is often the one left in tears(because Mars has cheated or has moved on)
Now if there is a double whammy i.e your Venus-their Mars, your Mars to your their Venus. This is indeed very attractive and the heat between you two can definitely go on and make many babys As you two will care about lityle else than being with each other
But you will need the good sense of Saturn and Moon to remind you two the other 23 hours of the day when you are not in bed
Because if you dont have these groundin contacts, you will bicker and argue about your differences in approches to other things(the other less desirable trait of Mars-Venus contacts). And become very obsessed with each other the other times.
Mars heats up Venus and narrows its vision when in contact. And so Venus can act a little cray cray when with Mars . And can also have a one track mind(wanting to see Mars either naked or arguing with them which often leads to Mars getting naked).
Venus is a lot more posessive and jealous than usual (taking on a very Venus in Aries /Scorpio expression really) and can really suffocate Mars with wanting their complete and undivided attention.
As a Venus in Scorpio who was once involved with a Mars in Scorpio, i could feel this urgency to get with the Mars person. And being totally engrossed and unreasonably possessive with them too. So you have been warned.
If Venus/Mars is one way. It is usually the Venus person that does "double duty". Because Mars thinks of Venus as a beautiful conquest. Emphasis on CONQUEST.
Now if beautiful Venus aspects benevolent Jupiter on the other hand. That means that the love (Venus) can grow (Jupiter). Both in the physical ,intellectual as well as the emotional aspect.
Jupiter heats up Venus too in this contact. But it also expands Venus gaze to "look at these other wonderful traits I have" and is the great benefector and renews confidence, hope and promise.
It may feel less "urgent". But it has more promise in the long run. And less drama.
But ofcourse if you can manage Ven/Mars contacts then go for it. I could not as Venus/Mars midpoint is conjuct my Pluto