posted July 26, 2016 02:56 PM            

His venus conjunct my pluto by 0*36 degrees
Our mars conjunct by 1*07 degrees
His mars hard aspect my venus by 2 degrees
His uranus hard aspect my mars by 2 degrees
His north node conjunct my sun by 1*12 degrees
His Chiron hard aspect my Venus by 0*18 degrees
Potentially Moon conjunct my Chiron.

We kinda half made eye contact, but I cancelled it (cause he made me feel uneasy), but I was shocked I didn’t ~pick up~ any of that energy? As a crazy uranian type I’m shocked I didn’t notice another crazy uranian even though we shared uranian synastry! Is it because we didn’t make full eye contact?

Why didn’t I pick any of this up? These are all intense and electrifying connections. If it wasn’t for that slow line he would be forgotten. Does synastry have a waiting period? Or do the eyes start the chain reaction? Like what the heckity heck? You always hear about people *sensing* someone before speaking to them or even knowing they were there.

posted July 26, 2016 03:18 PM            

any quantum physicist will feel that everything is an illusion and feel ill because of their mind. the truth is they dont know why electrons behave and they jump to conclusions and assume things incorrectly without knowing. when any person knows that we live in a real solid world. thats when your mind can fool you

posted July 26, 2016 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
first off the heart and feelings should lead your basis to understanding things and not the mind.

any quantum physicist will feel that everything is an illusion and feel ill because of their mind. the truth is they dont know why electrons behave and they jump to conclusions and assume things incorrectly without knowing. when any person knows that we live in a real solid world. thats when your mind can fool you

if i really like someone, i dont care about synastry. synastry may verify my feelings- it usually does. but i dont look for synastry to say why i should be feeling a way but im not.

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I agree with this whole-heartedly. Astrology is a wonderful tool for self exploration, relationship exploration, etc., but the thing is, there are so many interpretations of everything. And to think that the only people you will have interesting synastry with are people you are meant to be in contact with is a little naive (there are so many people on this planet!), though to be fair, it's a fun thought and probably something I would have done :P

In reality, I could find synastry clues with just about anyone that say we are meant to be close in some way. The way I see it, this can only really apply once we know the people on a personal and emotional level. While not impossible, it's extremely difficult to read a chart when you know nothing about a person. The chart is a guide. The way a person handles those energies is totally unique person-to-person. I'm not saying it means nothing, but I don't find synastry to be a predictive tool in this way. In a natal chart, I can learn a lot about someone, even if I don't know much about them. But I don't know the teeny details that make them a person, and I find that to be really important in synastry. Without that, you are, as soren pointed out above re: quantum physics, making assumptions based on what you expect.

posted July 26, 2016 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Kiimberly:
Sorry to be so long winded and I'm very sorry if this seemed aggressive! This is just my 2 cents and my Mercury in Sag works in overdrive this time of day :P

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I love Saggies, your aggression is welcome I see what you mean. We're bound to have "accidental" strong synastry with everyday people and it means nothing. I just kinda expected to sense something. Especially with that Mars-Uranus connection.

posted July 26, 2016 03:51 PM            

cotton: you must have more mutable signs to put much thought into the future and prediction: i dont have too much. our interpretations of synastry are not always correct. but of course we can only find out by practicing and figuring stuff out in relationships where we have incredibly strong connections. first you must find this type of relationship; then you can understand the synastry.

for example my first soul mate, my moon was opposite her sun moon midpoint, and her sun was doing the same for me. i knew we would talk before we even met when i was 50 feet away. later found out the synastry.

we also both had sun square moon exact (1d)

this just shows to me, t he importance of the sun and moon beyond much else, we dont know how much emphasis to put on planets, on luminaries, etc

posted July 26, 2016 04:09 PM            

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Originally posted by cottonball:
I just noticed I may have posted this in the wrong forum because this place is HUGE please forgive me mods!

Thanks for replying soren that's certainly an interesting view point. Do you use synastry at all? How will you know if someone if sneaky if you don't? Or if there are potentially bad tides ahead? I mean human instinct is second to none but astrology is a handy preventative tool.

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For me, if I was to look at someones chart and I see venus opposite jupiter- first it tells me that they have an opposition and gravitate towards and understanding other people in which they learn about themselves. i also assume that it means their views of harmony, will be focused on philosophy and seeing philosophy as this big focus, it may be the harmony in them wants to decipher philosophy, and the same goes for vice versa, the philosophical part of them wants to understand harmony.

posted July 26, 2016 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Koniucha:
What if it wasn't his birthday?

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posted July 26, 2016 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by cottonball:
I JUST remembered this one guy who's moon, venus and jupiter all landed in my 4th and he immediately made me feel at ease when I first saw him. Like it took seconds. Maybe it's a coincidence but whenever I hear his voice I instantly feel like I'm home. Maybe it's in the voice. The voice sets off synastry.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Koniucha:
[b]What if it wasn't his birthday?

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looking in someones eyes and feeling like home is often equated to twin-flame, or soul mate relationships. "home" is a term which means love, comfort, familiarity, a place of belonging. just because its the 4th house and 4th house is cancer which is a home body,

you are using it as a symbol as the metaphorical definition of home which is love and belonging, which is different then the physical home environment. this is why i stick out in astrology. i discard all symbolism.

for cancer that feeling of home, of love and belonging, is likely the house. but how about an aquarius, when he sees someone with cancer or 4th house placements, does he feel at home?

anyone can find someone who makes them feel like home, but you are saying it was because of 4th house placements, which rules the literal physical home.

for a sagitarious, feeling at home might be on the road.
and that has nothing to do with physical house/ garden/ cooking. its the feeling of love and belonging

posted July 26, 2016 04:20 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
looking in someones eyes and feeling like home is often equated to twin-flame, or soul mate relationships. "home" is a term which means love, comfort, familiarity, a place of belonging. just because its the 4th house and 4th house is cancer which is a home body,

you are using it as a symbol as the metaphorical definition of home which is love and belonging, which is different then the physical home environment. this is why i stick out in astrology. i discard all symbolism.

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posted July 26, 2016 04:46 PM            

a mutable sign will see what they are going towards, why they are going to that thing.