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jadave
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posted August 06, 2016 06:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jadave     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's your preference giving and revieving affection give your sun - moon - mars -venus please.


Cancer sun
Scorpio moon
Cap mars
Virgo Venus

I like getting lots a hugs & kisses. Not too comfortable with compliments. Not assertive in the bedroom but Like touching and feeling kissing love making - backrubs & massages. I like alot of intimacy, but I need time to feel comfortable. And only like to be with one partner. Shy at first to make first moves, so I come off very reserved. And I don't show any affection until I am comfortable and confident that you feel the same.

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venus2tinkerbell
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posted August 06, 2016 07:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're lovely

I'm insecure and afraid of rejection. It's a fun ride, but there's a barrier to intimacy. I haven't given myself a chance to work on it.

I like dreams. I am completely satisfied in the communication of the heart.

Cancer Sun
Taurus Moon
Gemini Mars
Cancer Venus

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Faith
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posted August 06, 2016 09:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Awww

Me, I'm a...

Capricorn sun
Pisces moon
Gemini Mars
Sag Venus

Pretty affectionate, yeah.

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Vegasdlt36
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posted August 06, 2016 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vegasdlt36     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio sun
Capricorn moon
Virgo mars
Sagittarius Venus

I'm not a fan of too much hugging/kissing. I like being close but just stay away if you are one of those overly affectionate types.

My husband is much more affectionate than I am-I feel sorry for him.

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12muddy
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posted August 06, 2016 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Faith: I love reading about you and your husband.

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cap sun/venus
aries moon
taurus mars

I am affectionate, but not overly so.

I don't spend much time with my friends, we don't make it a regular thing - like "meet once a week" or "talk every month". I like touching their hands/arms, slapping their shoulders, patting their heads, mussing up their hair...etc...those kinds of things. Laugh with them. Look at them with smiling eyes. Make them laugh. Feed them good food. Tease them, prank them, rile them up...

With my s.o, well it's all of the above x 100 + extras. I go all out when I'm in the mood to spoil him n shower love upon him lol I like emotional intimacy n physical closeness, but not the "24/7", "join at the hip"/"inseparable" kind of closeness.

So yeah, that's how I like to receive affection too. Caring and loving, but detached enough to give me breathing space. Fuss over me, smother me, get in my way, demand too much of my time - and I'll detach myself.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted August 06, 2016 11:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would never date someone whom i cant make out with for hours on end.

I love deep kissing, hugs and getting real close to my significant other. So if you are cool/aloof or indifferent, i am out!

Sun Sag
Moon Cancer
Venus Scorpio
Mars Libra

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Faith
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posted August 06, 2016 11:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aw thanks muddy Yeah I'm glad my husband and I are physically compatible, because it smooths over a lot of other difficulties.

You and YOUR man now...there is a spectacular couple. Warms my heart that you two exist.

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Yin
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posted August 06, 2016 12:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sag Sun
Libra Moon
Sag Venus
Leo Mars

I love making out. It's the be-all and end-all of my relationships. If the kissing part is good, the rest is amazing.

When I'm in love, I'm very touchy-feely but things subside over time. I need my space after a while just so the desire has time to refuel.

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Lerena
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posted August 06, 2016 12:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Gemini
Venus in Taurus
Mars in Aries

Surprisingly, I am very affectionate. I used to be unable to show affection, because I hated the thought of being close to anyone like that. Actually falling in love can change a person though. I want things I've never wanted before my current relationship and I eventually opened up to things I used to hate.

Sometimes I can give affection first, but I usually wait for the man to make the first move. This is usually because I have no idea when my man wants affection unless he shows it to me first and then I respond with affection back. It may seem unusual, but I tend to question when it's a good idea to make a move. It's weird. I know it's okay to make a move. I'm just not used to feeling emotions this strong and I don't want to invade anyone's personal space without permission first. But overall, I am a lot more affectionate than I used to be and I think it's because of how in love I am.

Receiving affection: I love it. However, it's mostly reserved for my partner and only my partner. I'm not interested in anyone else showing me affection on any level.

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Leo-Cancer98
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posted August 06, 2016 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If I had a boyfriend, I'd be very expressive with emotions cause I'm quite generous with giving affection. I like giving it as much as I like receiving it, so I would expect it to be reciprocated. I love big bear hugs, kisses on the forehead/cheeks/lips/neck, hand-holding, body-touching, and cuddling a lot. PDA would be BIG with me and I'm pretty sure I would hardly be able to keep my hands off of my boyfriend lol.

I'm definitely a very physically affectionate girl, but emotionally as well. I'd always make it known to my man that I'm there for him and we'd exchange "I love you"s many times throughout the day. I would also give him a well thought-out (non-basic) compliment at least once a day

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Aqualilith09
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posted August 06, 2016 07:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aqualilith09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm veryyyyy affectionate. Only with animals and my bf. I think I annoy my partner lol so then I try to back off when I can. I love kissing and hugging, but for some reason I can't be affectionate with him in public or in front of others...im pretty aloof in public. I guess it's all my afflicted saturn.

Libra sun
Aquarius moon
Scropio Venus
Cancer mars
Sag asc

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Lucia23
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posted August 06, 2016 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leo Sun
Cancer Moon
Virgo Mars
Cancer Venus

In the early stages of a crush/love/romance, I love making out all the time. Once my insecurities come out, I can be a little more standoffish.

I get shy with very physically affectionate platonic friends.

And although I'm very cuddly and physically close with my daughter (almost 3), sometimes her super-active physical exuberance and wanting to touch ALL the time makes me standoffish--she's more like a puppy and i'm more like a cat.

My Sun is in the 8th so I've had people I was interested in sexually or romantically where even the slightest touch was electrifying. but I sometimes get shy or self-conscious expressing physical affection.

I have Cap rising and Saturn conjunct my Moon.

The men I've been attracted to are always sexually confident and physically exuberant.

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Kiimberly
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posted August 06, 2016 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kiimberly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorn Sun
Scorpio Moon
Aquarius Venus
Taurus Mars

I used to like a partner who was quite dominant in the bedroom, but now find that turns me off and I prefer to be dominant myself. I don't give affection well--my sex drive is non-existent if I'm not reminded of it. I like romantic touching like cuddling and hugging and kissing but occasionally get hyper sensitive and can't stand even the smallest touch.

I feel as though I am affectionate because I feel very deeply for those I am close to, but people usually think I am cold because my affections don't seem to make it out into real life very often. I do tend to latch onto people until they ditch me though, for better or for worse.

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Radium
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posted August 06, 2016 10:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Radium     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces Sun
Aqua Moon
Leo Mars
Capricorn Venus

My Venus is conjunct Neptune and Uranus so I love giving but from a distance. Don't really care for love and relationships until I'm set in my career, seems like it just sidetracks you from your mission to me. Uncomfortable with compliments (Get told I'm good looking all the time, and I know it but I really really don't give a **** ) Hugs are weird to me and so are kisses. Very assertive in the bedroom and aggressive. Will give you the time of your life if I'm in the mood and not think twice about it. I'm too humble for my own good at times. Usually show my affection in a artsy, rebellious sort of way. Not the normal person for sure.

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Doux Rêve
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posted August 07, 2016 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very affectionate.
"Joined at the hip" is about me. It seems too much to handle for most people however because they (probably) start to feel smothered (which is understandable), hence why I give them some space as well. But if I had it my way, I would literally just have my skin touch yours all the time.
Cuddles/hugs/strokes/kisses are the best thing on this planet and there's never enough of them. Human touch is just... so addictive.
I'm a slave to oxytocin.

Scorpio Sun
Virgo Moon
Libra Venus
Scorpio Mars
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next to neptune
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posted August 07, 2016 03:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think I'm a bit neutral lol.... I like giving affection but not all the time, and not at all in public.

Mostly I fear rejection, or that the other person would be annoyed...

But deep down I love being all cuddly and give my deepest affection and feelings Right now I'm single, but the giving and receiving affection is what I really miss about being in a relationship....

virgo sun, pisces moon, scorpio venus, virgo mars (sun, mercury, mars in 4th house and cancer ascendant)

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Randall
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posted August 09, 2016 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cap Sun/Moon and Aqua Mars/Venus. Very affectionate. I'm an enigma. But I can be cold and detached when I want to be.

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YellowGerbera
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posted August 10, 2016 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces Sun/Moon
Aries Mars/Venus

I loooove to be affectionate!! I need to constantly hold my so's hand or be close and next to him when we sit. I hold his hand or arm when we sleep at night. I give him lots of kisses and hugs cuz I want to and I want him to know I love him lots!

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BeholdAstarte
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posted August 10, 2016 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@aries23degrees @ aqualilith : haha our scorpio venus expressions is soooo similar ha, I am the same way, I cant handle aloof, or cool types of expression very well but at the same time I'm super private about when and how I show my affections in public.

Libra Sun/Mars
Virgo Moon
Scorpio Venus

I use to be really shy about expressing my feelings/emotions, almost secretive about it, like saying " I love you" a lot and giving hugs was very awkward for me when I was younger. it actually was when I started to teach children that it really helped me open up and not be scared to express how I felt. I'm SUPER affectionate and very forward with my feelings in private and much more open about expressing myself now to friends and such. my boyfriend is a scorpio rising with his pluto conjunct his ASC and he even says I'm soooo intense sometimes.
I looooove to cuddle, kiss, make out! I'm pretty sexual. and when I like someone I'm very forward and almost aggressive about my affections at times like ill love something so much I wanna squeeze them =O it can be off-putting for those not as passionate as me, ive intimidated guys before (more than likely because my venus is conjunct pluto on DC and my mars makes conj to my sun/merc so i cant help but be passionately intense) it almost borders on insatiable hunger for love and affection.. like I cant get enough sometimes. I'm very loving, and loyal and I think I make it very obvious to those I really care about, ill do anything for the ones I love! i give my everything and def crave it in return.

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Electro DGX
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posted August 10, 2016 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aquarius Sun in 4th
Gemini Moon in 8th
Aquarius Venus in 4th
Scorpio Mars in 1st

Often I am quite detached with my friends and am not super affectionate with them, despite them knowing that I do like them as friends. However, with those I do love intimately, I can be super physically affectionate. I haven't found that person yet though

Sometimes I struggle with emotional affection though. I can try to work on it but I am not the best at expressing these traits.

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posted August 10, 2016 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquagembaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun in Aqua
Moon in Gem
Venus in Aqua
Mars in Gem

I prefer not to be too physically affectionate, but I always ended up w/ boyfriends that were extremely needy so I would be affectionate but I didn't really care for it. It's one of those things where It totally loses it's magic if you over do it.

Now that I'm older, I frown upon PDA

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SalemsEnd
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posted August 11, 2016 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SalemsEnd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes and no. I'm a bit bipolar when it comes to physical affection. Verbal affection? Never. I will always tell people close to me that I love them. It's important that I tell them, even (and especially) if I can't show it. I love making people laugh, or blush with compliments.
Touch is not my primary love language. I grew up with severe tactile sensitivity and it hasn't completely gone away. I CANNOT sleep in the same bed as someone as it gets me easily agitated (irregardless of how I feel about them). But I've always been like this, it's nothing personal.

Just generally though, I tend to have a knack for making something that shouldn't be awkward, awkward in my head. Because I have difficulty just relaxing and enjoying it all. When you have a 'thinking' moon, mercury, and venus and plenty of pluto/mercury stuff, well.....everything is interesting and everything is suspicious.

The Average Hug:
Them: *hugs*
Me: 'Am I doing this right? How long should this be for? What's their intention? Am I squeezing too tight? Too lightly? Is this socially acceptable? Do I want to be socially acceptable? Is the moon hollow? Why is the sky blue?
....
EDIT: I'm very affectionate with my dog though. But dogs are not people. They're pretty straightforward.
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Gemini Moon (H5)
Virgo Mercury (H8)
Virgo Venus (H9)
Libra Mars (decan Gem) (H10)
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colorful butterfly
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posted August 13, 2016 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun in cancer, moon in libra, mars and venus in gemini, mercury and jupiter in leo. Affection depends on how I'm feeling. I'm genuinely careing unless tempered but when I'm feeling love, very deep and passionate. I love to snuggle ,hold hands ,kiss, hopless romatic. I shy away sometimes until I warm up to a person and know that they love me.

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Yanmorg
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posted August 13, 2016 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a big ball of intense energy bursting with love for the right partner. I say this because if I don't feel really deep for someone, affection will be nonexistent. I drown my loved ones with hugs, kisses, gifts, etc.

My chart ruler is Venus in Scorpio.

Sun in Scorpio.
Moon in Libra.
Mercury in Scorpio.
Venus in Scorpio.
Mars in Sagittarius (7th house).

ALL conjunct Jupiter with Jupiter ruling my 8th house.

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