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Topic: How affection are you?
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jadave Knowflake Posts: 67 From: usa Registered: Oct 2015
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posted August 06, 2016 06:23 AM
What's your preference giving and revieving affection give your sun - moon - mars -venus please. Cancer sun Scorpio moon Cap mars Virgo Venus
I like getting lots a hugs & kisses. Not too comfortable with compliments. Not assertive in the bedroom but Like touching and feeling kissing love making - backrubs & massages. I like alot of intimacy, but I need time to feel comfortable. And only like to be with one partner. Shy at first to make first moves, so I come off very reserved. And I don't show any affection until I am comfortable and confident that you feel the same. IP: Logged |
venus2tinkerbell Knowflake Posts: 1995 From: the baseball hall of fame Registered: Nov 2014
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posted August 06, 2016 07:47 AM
You're lovelyI'm insecure and afraid of rejection. It's a fun ride, but there's a barrier to intimacy. I haven't given myself a chance to work on it. I like dreams. I am completely satisfied in the communication of the heart. Cancer Sun Taurus Moon Gemini Mars Cancer Venus IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 18841 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 06, 2016 09:23 AM
^ Awww Me, I'm a... Capricorn sun Pisces moon Gemini Mars Sag Venus Pretty affectionate, yeah. edited IP: Logged |
Vegasdlt36 Knowflake Posts: 45 From: Las Vegas Registered: Dec 2015
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posted August 06, 2016 09:59 AM
Scorpio sun Capricorn moon Virgo mars Sagittarius VenusI'm not a fan of too much hugging/kissing. I like being close but just stay away if you are one of those overly affectionate types. My husband is much more affectionate than I am-I feel sorry for him. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 2882 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 06, 2016 10:29 AM
Faith: I love reading about you and your husband.--- cap sun/venus aries moon taurus mars I am affectionate, but not overly so. I don't spend much time with my friends, we don't make it a regular thing - like "meet once a week" or "talk every month". I like touching their hands/arms, slapping their shoulders, patting their heads, mussing up their hair...etc...those kinds of things. Laugh with them. Look at them with smiling eyes. Make them laugh. Feed them good food. Tease them, prank them, rile them up... With my s.o, well it's all of the above x 100 + extras. I go all out when I'm in the mood to spoil him n shower love upon him lol I like emotional intimacy n physical closeness, but not the "24/7", "join at the hip"/"inseparable" kind of closeness. So yeah, that's how I like to receive affection too. Caring and loving, but detached enough to give me breathing space. Fuss over me, smother me, get in my way, demand too much of my time - and I'll detach myself. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 3187 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 06, 2016 11:33 AM
I would never date someone whom i cant make out with for hours on end. I love deep kissing, hugs and getting real close to my significant other. So if you are cool/aloof or indifferent, i am out! Sun Sag Moon Cancer Venus Scorpio Mars Libra IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 18841 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 06, 2016 11:52 AM
Aw thanks muddy Yeah I'm glad my husband and I are physically compatible, because it smooths over a lot of other difficulties.You and YOUR man now...there is a spectacular couple. Warms my heart that you two exist. IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 3465 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 06, 2016 12:02 PM
Sag Sun Libra Moon Sag Venus Leo MarsI love making out. It's the be-all and end-all of my relationships. If the kissing part is good, the rest is amazing. When I'm in love, I'm very touchy-feely but things subside over time. I need my space after a while just so the desire has time to refuel. IP: Logged |
Lerena Knowflake Posts: 370 From: Registered: May 2015
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posted August 06, 2016 12:05 PM
Sun in Taurus Moon in Gemini Venus in Taurus Mars in AriesSurprisingly, I am very affectionate. I used to be unable to show affection, because I hated the thought of being close to anyone like that. Actually falling in love can change a person though. I want things I've never wanted before my current relationship and I eventually opened up to things I used to hate. Sometimes I can give affection first, but I usually wait for the man to make the first move. This is usually because I have no idea when my man wants affection unless he shows it to me first and then I respond with affection back. It may seem unusual, but I tend to question when it's a good idea to make a move. It's weird. I know it's okay to make a move. I'm just not used to feeling emotions this strong and I don't want to invade anyone's personal space without permission first. But overall, I am a lot more affectionate than I used to be and I think it's because of how in love I am. Receiving affection: I love it. However, it's mostly reserved for my partner and only my partner. I'm not interested in anyone else showing me affection on any level. IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 306 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted August 06, 2016 06:19 PM
If I had a boyfriend, I'd be very expressive with emotions cause I'm quite generous with giving affection. I like giving it as much as I like receiving it, so I would expect it to be reciprocated. I love big bear hugs, kisses on the forehead/cheeks/lips/neck, hand-holding, body-touching, and cuddling a lot. PDA would be BIG with me and I'm pretty sure I would hardly be able to keep my hands off of my boyfriend lol. I'm definitely a very physically affectionate girl, but emotionally as well. I'd always make it known to my man that I'm there for him and we'd exchange "I love you"s many times throughout the day. I would also give him a well thought-out (non-basic) compliment at least once a day ------------------ Leo Sun/Mercury Sagittarius Moon Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising "You haven't seen the best of me, I'm still working on my masterpiece"👊😏 IP: Logged |
Aqualilith09 Knowflake Posts: 89 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 06, 2016 07:16 PM
I'm veryyyyy affectionate. Only with animals and my bf. I think I annoy my partner lol so then I try to back off when I can. I love kissing and hugging, but for some reason I can't be affectionate with him in public or in front of others...im pretty aloof in public. I guess it's all my afflicted saturn.Libra sun Aquarius moon Scropio Venus Cancer mars Sag asc IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 396 From: Registered: Jun 2016
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posted August 06, 2016 07:22 PM
Leo Sun Cancer Moon Virgo Mars Cancer VenusIn the early stages of a crush/love/romance, I love making out all the time. Once my insecurities come out, I can be a little more standoffish. I get shy with very physically affectionate platonic friends. And although I'm very cuddly and physically close with my daughter (almost 3), sometimes her super-active physical exuberance and wanting to touch ALL the time makes me standoffish--she's more like a puppy and i'm more like a cat. My Sun is in the 8th so I've had people I was interested in sexually or romantically where even the slightest touch was electrifying. but I sometimes get shy or self-conscious expressing physical affection. I have Cap rising and Saturn conjunct my Moon. The men I've been attracted to are always sexually confident and physically exuberant. IP: Logged |
Kiimberly Newflake Posts: 24 From: the desert, the moon Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 06, 2016 10:26 PM
Capricorn Sun Scorpio Moon Aquarius Venus Taurus MarsI used to like a partner who was quite dominant in the bedroom, but now find that turns me off and I prefer to be dominant myself. I don't give affection well--my sex drive is non-existent if I'm not reminded of it. I like romantic touching like cuddling and hugging and kissing but occasionally get hyper sensitive and can't stand even the smallest touch. I feel as though I am affectionate because I feel very deeply for those I am close to, but people usually think I am cold because my affections don't seem to make it out into real life very often. I do tend to latch onto people until they ditch me though, for better or for worse. IP: Logged |
Radium Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 06, 2016 10:54 PM
Pisces Sun Aqua Moon Leo Mars Capricorn VenusMy Venus is conjunct Neptune and Uranus so I love giving but from a distance. Don't really care for love and relationships until I'm set in my career, seems like it just sidetracks you from your mission to me. Uncomfortable with compliments (Get told I'm good looking all the time, and I know it but I really really don't give a **** ) Hugs are weird to me and so are kisses. Very assertive in the bedroom and aggressive. Will give you the time of your life if I'm in the mood and not think twice about it. I'm too humble for my own good at times. Usually show my affection in a artsy, rebellious sort of way. Not the normal person for sure. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9872 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 07, 2016 02:36 PM
Very affectionate. "Joined at the hip" is about me. It seems too much to handle for most people however because they (probably) start to feel smothered (which is understandable), hence why I give them some space as well. But if I had it my way, I would literally just have my skin touch yours all the time. Cuddles/hugs/strokes/kisses are the best thing on this planet and there's never enough of them. Human touch is just... so addictive. I'm a slave to oxytocin. Scorpio Sun Virgo Moon Libra Venus Scorpio Mars --- (notice how they're all interpersonal signs and not personal or transpersonal; and they're in interpersonal houses as well) IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2854 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 07, 2016 03:41 PM
I think I'm a bit neutral lol.... I like giving affection but not all the time, and not at all in public.Mostly I fear rejection, or that the other person would be annoyed... But deep down I love being all cuddly and give my deepest affection and feelings Right now I'm single, but the giving and receiving affection is what I really miss about being in a relationship.... virgo sun, pisces moon, scorpio venus, virgo mars (sun, mercury, mars in 4th house and cancer ascendant) IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 68415 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 09, 2016 11:27 PM
Cap Sun/Moon and Aqua Mars/Venus. Very affectionate. I'm an enigma. But I can be cold and detached when I want to be.
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YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 787 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 10, 2016 01:56 PM
Pisces Sun/Moon Aries Mars/VenusI loooove to be affectionate!! I need to constantly hold my so's hand or be close and next to him when we sit. I hold his hand or arm when we sleep at night. I give him lots of kisses and hugs cuz I want to and I want him to know I love him lots! IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte Knowflake Posts: 606 From: astral plane Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 10, 2016 03:00 PM
@aries23degrees @ aqualilith : haha our scorpio venus expressions is soooo similar ha, I am the same way, I cant handle aloof, or cool types of expression very well but at the same time I'm super private about when and how I show my affections in public. Libra Sun/Mars Virgo Moon Scorpio Venus I use to be really shy about expressing my feelings/emotions, almost secretive about it, like saying " I love you" a lot and giving hugs was very awkward for me when I was younger. it actually was when I started to teach children that it really helped me open up and not be scared to express how I felt. I'm SUPER affectionate and very forward with my feelings in private and much more open about expressing myself now to friends and such. my boyfriend is a scorpio rising with his pluto conjunct his ASC and he even says I'm soooo intense sometimes. I looooove to cuddle, kiss, make out! I'm pretty sexual. and when I like someone I'm very forward and almost aggressive about my affections at times like ill love something so much I wanna squeeze them =O it can be off-putting for those not as passionate as me, ive intimidated guys before (more than likely because my venus is conjunct pluto on DC and my mars makes conj to my sun/merc so i cant help but be passionately intense) it almost borders on insatiable hunger for love and affection.. like I cant get enough sometimes. I'm very loving, and loyal and I think I make it very obvious to those I really care about, ill do anything for the ones I love! i give my everything and def crave it in return. IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1143 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 10, 2016 03:12 PM
Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Aquarius Venus in 4th Scorpio Mars in 1stOften I am quite detached with my friends and am not super affectionate with them, despite them knowing that I do like them as friends. However, with those I do love intimately, I can be super physically affectionate. I haven't found that person yet though Sometimes I struggle with emotional affection though. I can try to work on it but I am not the best at expressing these traits. ------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com IP: Logged |
aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 615 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 10, 2016 03:42 PM
Sun in Aqua Moon in Gem Venus in Aqua Mars in GemI prefer not to be too physically affectionate, but I always ended up w/ boyfriends that were extremely needy so I would be affectionate but I didn't really care for it. It's one of those things where It totally loses it's magic if you over do it. Now that I'm older, I frown upon PDA IP: Logged |
SalemsEnd Newflake Posts: 17 From: The Pleiades Registered: May 2016
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posted August 11, 2016 09:27 PM
Yes and no. I'm a bit bipolar when it comes to physical affection. Verbal affection? Never. I will always tell people close to me that I love them. It's important that I tell them, even (and especially) if I can't show it. I love making people laugh, or blush with compliments. Touch is not my primary love language. I grew up with severe tactile sensitivity and it hasn't completely gone away. I CANNOT sleep in the same bed as someone as it gets me easily agitated (irregardless of how I feel about them). But I've always been like this, it's nothing personal. Just generally though, I tend to have a knack for making something that shouldn't be awkward, awkward in my head. Because I have difficulty just relaxing and enjoying it all. When you have a 'thinking' moon, mercury, and venus and plenty of pluto/mercury stuff, well.....everything is interesting and everything is suspicious. The Average Hug: Them: *hugs* Me: 'Am I doing this right? How long should this be for? What's their intention? Am I squeezing too tight? Too lightly? Is this socially acceptable? Do I want to be socially acceptable? Is the moon hollow? Why is the sky blue? .... EDIT: I'm very affectionate with my dog though. But dogs are not people. They're pretty straightforward. ~ Leo Sun (H7) Gemini Moon (H5) Virgo Mercury (H8) Virgo Venus (H9) Libra Mars (decan Gem) (H10) Capricorn AC / Libra MC
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colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 443 From: Durham north carolina usa Registered: May 2015
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posted August 13, 2016 04:29 PM
Sun in cancer, moon in libra, mars and venus in gemini, mercury and jupiter in leo. Affection depends on how I'm feeling. I'm genuinely careing unless tempered but when I'm feeling love, very deep and passionate. I love to snuggle ,hold hands ,kiss, hopless romatic. I shy away sometimes until I warm up to a person and know that they love me. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1504 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 13, 2016 05:03 PM
I'm a big ball of intense energy bursting with love for the right partner. I say this because if I don't feel really deep for someone, affection will be nonexistent. I drown my loved ones with hugs, kisses, gifts, etc. My chart ruler is Venus in Scorpio. Sun in Scorpio. Moon in Libra. Mercury in Scorpio. Venus in Scorpio. Mars in Sagittarius (7th house). ALL conjunct Jupiter with Jupiter ruling my 8th house.
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