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Topic: I've dated 2 Pisces
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swampys Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Missouri Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 09, 2016 11:35 AM
One lasted 10 months, my second longest relationship. He bored me, we weren't sexually compatible, and he was SO whiny.The second one I just ended about a week ago and we dated for 2 weeks. We had fun together but he was deceptive and constantly talking to other girls. There was also this fling that lasted not even a week with another Pisces and I had no interest in his personality, all it was was cybersex. I'm an Aquarius Sun, Cancer-Leo Moon in the 12th house!, and a Leo Rising. I've been told before Pisces would be great for me. But I've decided I never want to date a Pisces again. I love Cancer men. It starts out as a friendship and they feel like big brothers to me, but then I realize my full feelings for them but it's not reciprocated, ever. Why am I more compatible with Cancer and Scorpio, though, and Pisces is one of my least favorite signs (even before ever dating one)? I have a 12th house Moon, and Saturn at the cusp of Aquarius and Pisces. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 19768 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 09, 2016 01:05 PM
Takes a while to understand Pisces. Edit: For some people, I guess I should say.My best friend is a Pisces, we grew up next door to each other. It took us about 6 or 7 years to become close friends even though her sun is conjunct my moon. I didn't understand her. Now we understand each other so well our conversations are punctuated back and forth with "right....right....exactly...I was going to say that...." IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4954 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 10, 2016 07:37 PM
I find Pisces men physically attractive but it never works out with them either for me. I am most compatible with Scorpio followed by plutonic cancers and sadly not very compatible with Pisces men...My experience with them is that they don't know what they want..I have Taurus in the DC and Juno so I need dependability and reliability so little patience with Pisces games. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4954 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 10, 2016 07:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Takes a while to understand Pisces. Edit: For some people, I guess I should say.My best friend is a Pisces, we grew up next door to each other. It took us about 6 or 7 years to become close friends even though her sun is conjunct my moon. I didn't understand her. Now we understand each other so well our conversations are punctuated back and forth with "right....right....exactly...I was going to say that...."
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 793 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 10, 2016 09:17 PM
I don't have a problem with them, they have a problem with me. I can be a bit too blunt for them; Sun in Sagittarius and Mercury in Sagittarius. And Mars in Aries.I'm working on not being too blunt though. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4954 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 10, 2016 09:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: I don't have a problem with them, they have a problem with me. I can be a bit too blunt for them; Sun in Sagittarius and Mercury in Sagittarius. And Mars in Aries.I'm working on not being too blunt though.
Awwwwwww. That is so sweet you are working on that, bless you. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 793 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 10, 2016 10:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Awwwwwww. That is so sweet you are working on that, bless you.
Heehee! I also have to be careful I don't compromise myself too much too. If someone doesn't feel good being with me, it might just simply be their problem, partly too. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4954 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 10, 2016 11:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: Heehee! I also have to be careful I don't compromise myself too much too. If someone doesn't feel good being with me, it might just simply be their problem, partly too.
Right on! IP: Logged |
MermaidDreamz Knowflake Posts: 528 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted August 10, 2016 11:48 PM
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 793 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 11, 2016 12:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Right on!
If this was Facebook, I would 'Like' this comment! IP: Logged |
Radium Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 11, 2016 12:10 AM
I'm a Pisces and no one likes us...yawnnnn next one but the female Pisces seemed to be adored IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 875 From: USA Today Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 12:28 AM
I've dated many Pisces and had flings with them. I attract them with my Aura in my 5th House Pisces. My Saturn is also in the 5th so I attract them by my Cap qualities. I have a love/hate relationship with them. My 2nd longest relationship (1 year 2 months) was with a Pisces who broke my heart, cheated on me when I was in the hospital and constantly lied to me. I could not stand how much Neptune he had in him. My cut and dry Cap mind was constantly being turned upside down. One minute he was saying he loved me and that he would marry me, the next he cheats on me and tells me I'm "not the one." Literally, in one day he told me he loved me and that he always wanted to be with me, and then he broke up with me hours later because of a feeling. All the flings I had I ended. Some asked me to be their girlfriend, when I didn't respond right away they disappeared. I'm very attracted to Pisces, but not their drama and feelings. My Leo moon needs to be the dramatic feeler in relationships, not the other way around. My mom is a Pisces with heavy Pisces energy and I've experienced a lot of pain from her. One second she was self-sacrificing for me and treating me well, the next she's binge drinking, abusive and I have to parent her. I love her a lot, but she gets taken advantage of a lot because she does many kind things. I have always had to protect her, I worry about her every day since I left her. Pisces energy is sometimes hard to handle. I do much better with their opposite, Virgos. Their in my 11th house. I do love Pisces though, I think they can be the most wonderful and kind people. They really can make you feel so good, and many Pisces men are very romantic. Judging from your placements I don't doubt that cardinal Cancer and Fixed Scorpio are better for you. They have strong beliefs like your Aquarius sun.
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4954 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 11, 2016 12:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mergoatsun: Literally, in one day he told me he loved me and that he always wanted to be with me, and then he broke up with me hours later because of a feeling.
Lmao!! Sorry but that made me laugh bc it's exactly what I said and a great illustration of what I meant; they don't know what they want. Ohh snap come to think of it I have moon in Pisces and that sounds like me a little, lmao. I guess I am attracted to Pisces but I can't be with some one who is just as crazy and unstable as me; two people who don't know what they want won't get anywhere. I have Pisces in the 5th too and specially like moon in Pisces and Venus or Mars in Pisces, love it. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 875 From: USA Today Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 01:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Lmao!! Sorry but that made me laugh bc it's exactly what I said and a great illustration of what I meant; they don't know what they want.Ohh snap come to think of it I have moon in Pisces and that sounds like me a little, lmao. I guess I am attracted to Pisces but I can't be with some one who is just as crazy and unstable as me; two people who don't know what they want won't get anywhere. I have Pisces in the 5th too and specially like moon in Pisces and Venus or Mars in Pisces, love it.
That's okay it makes me laugh now too at how ridiculous it was. I decided I couldn't be with a Pisces heavy person either because I'm too crazy myself, I needed a rock. I'm so attracted to Pisces but it's true, they never know what they want or for that matter, need. I'm dating someone now who's a little like that, he's got heavy Cancer and Virgo in him. I think the cardinal energy balances his mutable energy out though, he's got more earth than water in him, I call him my emotional rock ------------------ "Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama IP: Logged |
vertiver Knowflake Posts: 2132 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 11, 2016 02:25 AM
My best friend is a Pisces sun, I can tell her everything and heart her so much, we refer to each other as life partners. I have Pisces Moon in the 3rd H. Romantically, speaking I've only had a fling with one Pisces Sun and he was weird - he had Aquarius Venus - not a fan of it in men. And I recently, I've talked and hung out with a Pisces sun - who seems to really like me. Not really used to men pursuing me. Oddly enough I'm a Leo/Merc. Sun, Pisces Moon, Sag ASC, Gemini Venus and Aries Mars.
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 19768 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 11, 2016 08:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by Radium: I'm a Pisces and no one likes us...yawnnnn next one but the female Pisces seemed to be adored
Pisces women are fabulous and some of my favorite people. But they can be a little bit tough, which takes some getting used to. And Pisces men are even tougher, sometimes to the point of being intimidating. Most of my husband's friends are Pisces men, and so is my uncle, and I just keep very low profile around them, because even a whiff of their anger is just too much for my delicate little Pisces moon nerves. LOL Especially if they have Aries planets, holy cow. Usually they are some of the nicest people around though, and sometimes extremely open, warm, inspiring. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 19768 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 11, 2016 09:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Lmao!! Sorry but that made me laugh bc it's exactly what I said and a great illustration of what I meant; they don't know what they want.Ohh snap come to think of it I have moon in Pisces and that sounds like me a little, lmao. I guess I am attracted to Pisces but I can't be with some one who is just as crazy and unstable as me; two people who don't know what they want won't get anywhere. I have Pisces in the 5th too and specially like moon in Pisces and Venus or Mars in Pisces, love it.
I keep wanting to make a thread asking other Pisces moons whether or not we just flat-out suck at relationships, but I don't want to be insensitive asking that question. Maybe I just have to think of the right way to phrase it. LOL IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4954 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 11, 2016 09:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: I keep wanting to make a thread asking other Pisces moons whether or not we just flat-out suck at relationships, but I don't want to be insensitive asking that question. Maybe I just have to think of the right way to phrase it. LOL
Lmao hahaha IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 2057 From: Gotham Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 03:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mergoatsun: Literally, in one day he told me he loved me and that he always wanted to be with me, and then he broke up with me hours later because of a feeling.
Umm.. Not proud of it, but I have done something like this. Someone had been asking me out, and then one day I said yes, let's be together. Four hours later, I backtracked. Said I can't do it blah blah. We did end up dating later. But not before thst incident caused a hell of a mess, of course. I'm not a Pisces moon, I'm a 12H moon. There are other things that colour the behaviour of my moon. But some qualities do overlap. The fogginess and extreme sensitivity, for instance. Especially when I was younger, it was hard for me to understand *what* exactly I was feeling. Actually, to be more precise.. It was hard for me to isolate my feelings/wants/needs from those who were (emotionally) close to me. That's when I started to realize I need some time off, some solitude. Only when I can somehow get the outside influences temporarily switched 'off' can I know how *I* really feel. You know how you must conduct science experiments in sterile environments (to get accurate results)? It's kind of like that.. P.S. not defending his behaviour. What he did (and what I did) was not quite excusable. Just sharing an experience.. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 19768 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 11, 2016 03:15 PM
^^Brilliant
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 19768 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 11, 2016 03:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Lmao hahaha
Thanks The issue is just as Elysia described. And other things come to mind but I will save that for the thread in case I decide to create it. IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 12, 2016 11:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mergoatsun:
Pisces energy is sometimes hard to handle. I do much better with their opposite, Virgos. Their in my 11th house. I do love Pisces though, I think they can be the most wonderful and kind people. They really can make you feel so good, and many Pisces men are very romantic.
I'm a pisces sun and mercury, I always thought pisces energy was a hard thing to deal with for ourselves, I never thought it was also hard for others D: But yeah I can tell you, sometimes it's hard to be a pisces, too many emotions, it's like the energy belongs to another world, but not the planet earth itself, oh yeah I'm being a pisces right now. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 875 From: USA Today Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 12, 2016 11:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Elysia: Umm.. Not proud of it, but I have done something like this. Someone had been asking me out, and then one day I said yes, let's be together. Four hours later, I backtracked. Said I can't do it blah blah. We did end up dating later. But not before thst incident caused a hell of a mess, of course. I'm not a Pisces moon, I'm a 12H moon. There are other things that colour the behaviour of my moon. But some qualities do overlap. The fogginess and extreme sensitivity, for instance. Especially when I was younger, it was hard for me to understand *what* exactly I was feeling. Actually, to be more precise.. It was hard for me to isolate my feelings/wants/needs from those who were (emotionally) close to me. That's when I started to realize I need some time off, some solitude. Only when I can somehow get the outside influences temporarily switched 'off' can I know how *I* really feel. You know how you must conduct science experiments in sterile environments (to get accurate results)? It's kind of like that.. P.S. not defending his behaviour. What he did (and what I did) was not quite excusable. Just sharing an experience..
It wasn't like we were just getting to know each other though, we'd been together over a year and we we're living together when he decided this. I had nowhere to go except back to my dad's place ------------------ "Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4954 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 13, 2016 12:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by Marandana: I'm a pisces sun and mercury, I always thought pisces energy was a hard thing to deal with for ourselves, I never thought it was also hard for others D: But yeah I can tell you, sometimes it's hard to be a pisces, too many emotions, it's like the energy belongs to another world, but not the planet earth itself, oh yeah I'm being a pisces right now.
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swampys Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Missouri Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 20, 2016 12:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by MermaidDreamz: The less than enchanting emotions over the Pisces sign could be due to it (sun) on the natal chart is too close. I have read the sun signs aren't usually good matches when it is the neighbor signs. In truth, I'm a sun AQ and Pisces and Capricorn are kinda meh to me generally . It all depends on individuals tho.What AQ decan are you? Have you tried the synystry of yours/these water sign partners? The Mars and Venus are supposed to give good indicators too. I look at the moon synystry. I can't get all my past bfs natal data but like you, I have been attracted to many water signs. I did well with Cancer. Pisces was to melancholy but he might have been incompatible to my moon or ac. The 2-3 Scorpios I dated were jelly but there was a strong connection , it just was too intense. If only we could get data to learn of 'others' before getting so deeply in it to learn there's no compatibility. 😄
Hi! So sorry I haven't been replying! I'm first deacon Aqua. I actually love capricorn so much, my fav sign, and I've gotten along so well with them. This could be because I have a 6th house stellium that starts in Cap (I also love virgo too )
My last pisces ex's main planets in my house Mars: 11th Moon: 6th Sun: 8th Venus: 8th I'd say that's not that bad. About the 6th house moon, he's actually always trying to motivate me and get my butt to school/work. Like, he was always just cheating on me which isn't something I'd expect from a Pisces (he's a cap moon?? That could be it/Aries venus/cancer mars). He and I aren't back together now but we're friends and "dating" until we both find something serious (he lives in canada and I in the US lol) and last night he told me to record me saying like "thanks for coming over tonight it felt so good" and Im p sure he's trying to make someone jealous through me 😂 So, like, I'm just so confused as to why a Pisces would act this way? IP: Logged |