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Topic: what makes someone to believe in himself?
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Enneline Knowflake Posts: 5667 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 11, 2016 07:03 AM
We all know that self-confidence is of crucial importance when you want to achieve anything in life. But what placements/aspects confirm self-confidence? Please don't start with leo placements IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 2704 From: INTJ Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 07:31 AM
Sun-Jupiter I would say could be one. IP: Logged |
headintheclouds91 Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Registered: Mar 2016
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posted August 11, 2016 07:32 AM
Aries placements then If mars is strong in someone`s chart i have noticed that can give someone self-confidence. Like making aspects to the sun, moon, mercury and ASC. Sag/jupiter can also give great self-confidence. Check if these two influences are doing something in a chart for self-confidence. IP: Logged |
headintheclouds91 Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Registered: Mar 2016
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posted August 11, 2016 07:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by DopGang: Sun-Jupiter I would say could be one.
True. My friend got sun conjunction jupiter and she can be very self confident to a point where it borders over to arrogance sometimes. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 3798 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 11, 2016 02:00 PM
JUPITERRRRRRRR! *pets mine*IP: Logged |
Vradec Knowflake Posts: 295 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 11, 2016 02:04 PM
Jupiter and also maybe some planets in 1st with good aspects.IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces Knowflake Posts: 1000 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 02:16 PM
I dont have much self confidence and I wonder if that is because I have thousand jupiter squares.I feel unlucky too lolIP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 18832 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 11, 2016 02:34 PM
CapricornNot confident in every area but we learn from our mistakes and know it. Also we tend to uphold the status quo, so in petty arguments can resort to pointing to our diplomas and trophies saying, "Who's really the expert, though?" - Just being silly, don't shoot. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 586 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 11, 2016 02:43 PM
Sun in Leo. IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 2343 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 11, 2016 03:20 PM
I agree with Sun/Jupiter conjunct, trine or sextile, personal planets in Aries, personal planets in Leo, Sun in Aries or Leo. Also sun or mars in 1st house or on ascendant. Sun conjunct North Node. IP: Logged |
Federal_Reserve Knowflake Posts: 38 From: - Registered: Oct 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 03:57 PM
My Aries Venus in 9th house, always shouts BRING IT... I't always starts with mars cancer saying maybe I'm not that good...And then I get some extra kicking...Man UP you BOY. Time to SHINE. Bring IT. IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 754 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted August 11, 2016 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: JUPITERRRRRRRR! *pets mine*
Lol Definitely Jupiter, especially when conjunct the ascendant or mixed in with a stellium. I have it in the 10th house conjunct mars, uranus and pluto. I'm not necessarily cocky (ok, sometimes) but I do not give in to social pressure or follow the crowd. Not shy in the least -ha ha
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CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 539 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 05:52 PM
Strong 1st houseIP: Logged |
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 3113 From: intimate sky dot net Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 11, 2016 06:05 PM
Yes, strong first house. Yes, a robust Jupiter, especially angular / conjunct vertex axis, but Jupiter with luminaries too... Aries haven't developed as much self confidence as they give off, and yet they're complete and they know it. 1st house is similar. Still prone to self questioning, but bouncing back pretty quick to give it another go...I think Faith is onto something with Capricorn. The 10th house is all about self confidence, it has already been proven, there is no need to prove anything The shadow of any sign is so similar to it's light... Capricorn excels and needs no accolade or proof except the direct fruit of the labour to entirely manifest, eventually. But when they get caught in worrying whether they are proving themselves... that's the shadow. They need to do what they're doing because of that inner confidence in.the rightness of whatever it is. They dont do well unless they're pursuing something with heart, at least I don't with Leo on the MC, and a Capricorn Sun would be the same. I'm emotionally level with Moon in Capricorn, but the Neptune conjunction doesn't help with self assertion, it helps with the inner confidence which comes of intimately feeling interconnectedness... that's what feels really good... Aries is limitlessly self assured, and yet the polar extreme is contained within the sign, because they don't actually know who they are until they relate, by reflex action, through Libra. We know ourselves through others, and self assurance comes through balance, inner knowing... and also through the acknowledgment of others... IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 3113 From: intimate sky dot net Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 11, 2016 06:11 PM
A well aspected Sun Moon midpoint can really make all the difference here as well.There are actually many midpoint measurements I would include. Sun/Jupiter=Moon, and more combinations of same... IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 3113 From: intimate sky dot net Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 11, 2016 07:30 PM
Also have noticed that folks with a well aspected stellium around the IC tend to be very self reliant, not needing a lot of external input to do their thing. It doesn't necessarily lead to believing in oneself, but an acceptance of one's inner reality which does help them to feel confident in a lot of cases. A strong orientation below the horizon can sometimes give a deep insecurity, because there is never recognition or accolades coming from above the horizon...Ideally, there would be a lot of factors which balanced out. But self awareness, knowing ones self really well, can help with self confidence, astrology aside.. IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 1038 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 11, 2016 07:59 PM
My SO has a leo sun in 10th house along with Jupiter and Gem moon (in 8th i think) He believes in himself alot especially in his career. Has ALOT of self confidence. IP: Logged |
PixieMG Knowflake Posts: 98 From: Argentina Registered: Dec 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 09:14 PM
I have Sun (2) trine Jupiter Rx/MC (9) and I can be arrogant sometimes, mostly on my mind or inner talk, I have to fight with the feeling that nobody lives up to my expectations daily (I'm too good for anyone). On the external side, I'm shy and I lack confidence, which is totally confusing.------------------ Gemini Rising. Cancer Sun. Capricorn Moon. 6 Rx planets. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 881 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 09:30 PM
Why not Moon/Jupiter? IP: Logged |
MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 09:42 PM
Maybe MARS trine Jupiter. This is one of the aspects in my natal chart and I'm like that. I also have Sun (Pisces) square Jupiter (Sagittarius) and Sun conjunct Saturn. Sun conjunct Saturn can make you doubt about yourself sometimes but I think it's a great aspect.IP: Logged |
DualGem Knowflake Posts: 258 From: Toronto and Area, Leaving Ottawa Registered: Oct 2015
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posted August 11, 2016 09:55 PM
Harsh Saturn and Karmic DebtI left Toronto when I was 18 and moved to Ottawa. I have a few courses left an I'm an Engineer...yay!!! I have always had to stay strong and be a defender of the way I was taught/raised to view education and employment. Be liberal for social problems when they shall arise..but don't over do it, but also understand conservative views for business to boom in the competitive world. Ideally you should come somewhere in the middle, that's the typical Toronto view. Ottawa is a different society that's to dependent on the federal government. The people here are either: a) Employed in the federal government and are oblivious to the bigger problems and unable to improve because there to conservative and would rather preserve there way of thinking. b) Working poor and also unable to improve because there too liberal and dependent on social services. I'm neither.. I'm not a tax wasting government employee and I'm neither a dependent on social services. Whats hold me together is the fact that I knew long term neither is sustainable and both are only a short term fix. The true purpose of Government jobs and social services is to help you move on in the short term, its not a permanent solution, But both groups fail to see that. Both groups have seen changes in there way of life and what keeps me strong is the fact that I haven't inherited the problems that they have. The government workers and the social service dependents have seen continued cutbacks and funding cuts. ==================================== Gemini Sun, Capricorn Rising Aries Moon Gemini Mercury Venus Taurus Mars Cancer IP: Logged |
Soltze Knowflake Posts: 1162 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted August 12, 2016 03:18 PM
Sun-Jupiter is the major one....I believe in myself just not in othersIP: Logged |
visions Knowflake Posts: 384 From: france Registered: Feb 2010
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posted August 12, 2016 03:47 PM
i am aries and i have mars conjunct mercury involved in a grand trines and i am just all by meself but i can make an exception if i can get a girl like Emgem DDDDIP: Logged |