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Enneline
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posted August 11, 2016 07:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We all know that self-confidence is of crucial importance when you want to achieve anything in life.

But what placements/aspects confirm self-confidence?

Please don't start with leo placements

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posted August 11, 2016 07:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun-Jupiter I would say could be one.

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posted August 11, 2016 07:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for headintheclouds91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries placements then

If mars is strong in someone`s chart i have noticed that can give someone self-confidence. Like making aspects to the sun, moon, mercury and ASC. Sag/jupiter can also give great self-confidence. Check if these two influences are doing something in a chart for self-confidence.

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posted August 11, 2016 07:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for headintheclouds91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DopGang:
Sun-Jupiter I would say could be one.

True. My friend got sun conjunction jupiter and she can be very self confident to a point where it borders over to arrogance sometimes.

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posted August 11, 2016 02:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
JUPITERRRRRRRR! *pets mine*

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posted August 11, 2016 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vradec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jupiter and also maybe some planets in 1st with good aspects.

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posted August 11, 2016 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont have much self confidence and I wonder if that is because I have thousand jupiter squares.I feel unlucky too lol

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posted August 11, 2016 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorn

Not confident in every area but we learn from our mistakes and know it.

Also we tend to uphold the status quo, so in petty arguments can resort to pointing to our diplomas and trophies saying, "Who's really the expert, though?"

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Just being silly, don't shoot.

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posted August 11, 2016 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sulkyarcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun in Leo.

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posted August 11, 2016 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with Sun/Jupiter conjunct, trine or sextile, personal planets in Aries, personal planets in Leo, Sun in Aries or Leo.

Also sun or mars in 1st house or on ascendant.

Sun conjunct North Node.

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posted August 11, 2016 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Federal_Reserve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Aries Venus in 9th house, always shouts BRING IT... I't always starts with mars cancer saying maybe I'm not that good...And then I get some extra kicking...Man UP you BOY. Time to SHINE. Bring IT.

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posted August 11, 2016 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ann7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charlie:
JUPITERRRRRRRR! *pets mine*

Lol

Definitely Jupiter, especially when conjunct the ascendant or mixed in with a stellium. I have it in the 10th house conjunct mars, uranus and pluto. I'm not necessarily cocky (ok, sometimes) but I do not give in to social pressure or follow the crowd. Not shy in the least -ha ha

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posted August 11, 2016 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Strong 1st house

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posted August 11, 2016 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, strong first house. Yes, a robust Jupiter, especially angular / conjunct vertex axis, but Jupiter with luminaries too... Aries haven't developed as much self confidence as they give off, and yet they're complete and they know it. 1st house is similar. Still prone to self questioning, but bouncing back pretty quick to give it another go...

I think Faith is onto something with Capricorn. The 10th house is all about self confidence, it has already been proven, there is no need to prove anything

The shadow of any sign is so similar to it's light... Capricorn excels and needs no accolade or proof except the direct fruit of the labour to entirely manifest, eventually. But when they get caught in worrying whether they are proving themselves... that's the shadow. They need to do what they're doing because of that inner confidence in.the rightness of whatever it is. They dont do well unless they're pursuing something with heart, at least I don't with Leo on the MC, and a Capricorn Sun would be the same.

I'm emotionally level with Moon in Capricorn, but the Neptune conjunction doesn't help with self assertion, it helps with the inner confidence which comes of intimately feeling interconnectedness... that's what feels really good...

Aries is limitlessly self assured, and yet the polar extreme is contained within the sign, because they don't actually know who they are until they relate, by reflex action, through Libra. We know ourselves through others, and self assurance comes through balance, inner knowing... and also through the acknowledgment of others...

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posted August 11, 2016 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A well aspected Sun Moon midpoint can really make all the difference here as well.

There are actually many midpoint measurements I would include. Sun/Jupiter=Moon, and more combinations of same...

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posted August 11, 2016 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also have noticed that folks with a well aspected stellium around the IC tend to be very self reliant, not needing a lot of external input to do their thing. It doesn't necessarily lead to believing in oneself, but an acceptance of one's inner reality which does help them to feel confident in a lot of cases. A strong orientation below the horizon can sometimes give a deep insecurity, because there is never recognition or accolades coming from above the horizon...

Ideally, there would be a lot of factors which balanced out.

But self awareness, knowing ones self really well, can help with self confidence, astrology aside..

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posted August 11, 2016 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My SO has a leo sun in 10th house along with Jupiter and Gem moon (in 8th i think)

He believes in himself alot especially in his career. Has ALOT of self confidence.

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posted August 11, 2016 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieMG     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Sun (2) trine Jupiter Rx/MC (9) and I can be arrogant sometimes, mostly on my mind or inner talk, I have to fight with the feeling that nobody lives up to my expectations daily (I'm too good for anyone). On the external side, I'm shy and I lack confidence, which is totally confusing.

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Gemini Rising.
Cancer Sun.
Capricorn Moon.
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posted August 11, 2016 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why not Moon/Jupiter?

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posted August 11, 2016 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe MARS trine Jupiter. This is one of the aspects in my natal chart and I'm like that. I also have Sun (Pisces) square Jupiter (Sagittarius) and Sun conjunct Saturn. Sun conjunct Saturn can make you doubt about yourself sometimes but I think it's a great aspect.

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posted August 11, 2016 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Harsh Saturn and Karmic Debt

I left Toronto when I was 18 and moved to Ottawa. I have a few courses left an I'm an Engineer...yay!!!

I have always had to stay strong and be a defender of the way I was taught/raised to view education and employment.

Be liberal for social problems when they shall arise..but don't over do it, but also understand conservative views for business to boom in the competitive world.

Ideally you should come somewhere in the middle, that's the typical Toronto view.

Ottawa is a different society that's to dependent on the federal government.

The people here are either:

a) Employed in the federal government and are oblivious to the bigger problems and unable to improve because there to conservative and would rather preserve there way of thinking.

b) Working poor and also unable to improve because there too liberal and dependent on social services.

I'm neither.. I'm not a tax wasting government employee and I'm neither a dependent on social services.

Whats hold me together is the fact that I knew long term neither is sustainable and both are only a short term fix.

The true purpose of Government jobs and social services is to help you move on in the short term, its not a permanent solution,
But both groups fail to see that.

Both groups have seen changes in there way of life and what keeps me strong is the fact that I haven't inherited the problems that they have.

The government workers and the social service dependents have seen continued cutbacks and funding cuts.

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

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posted August 12, 2016 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun-Jupiter is the major one....I believe in myself just not in others

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posted August 12, 2016 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for visions     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i am aries and i have mars conjunct mercury involved in a grand trines and i am just all by meself but i can make an exception if i can get a girl like Emgem DDDD

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