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@lycat74
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posted August 16, 2016 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for @lycat74     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What was your most painful period in ur life & how did U get over it astrologically?

If you can give age and transits during that time.

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posted August 16, 2016 03:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Radium     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I manned the **** up and let god lead me, astrology is just a nice guide to help you understand your life path and how to go about it

But it is not going to hold your hand and tell you to motivate urself only you can do that and God is the only way to help your troubles, make your own happiness and don't think for a second stars in the sky will do it for you

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posted August 16, 2016 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Age :32

Recently difficult time: 2014 August

Planet in transit: Saturn return conjunct natal Venus

How i got it together: Reading self help books, a good friend and waiting it out -as the storm does pass.

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posted August 16, 2016 09:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the second hit of TR Saturn opposing my Moon

my two beloved dogs were taken away from me by animal control ( after they bit a stranger) and were killed 10 days later. Everything happened so fast, I couldnt even tell them goodbye or give them a hug.
I cant remember I suffered so much before. I remember I was thinking I didnt mind dying so I could re-unite with them over the rainbow.

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posted August 16, 2016 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto was conjunct my Moon, Saturn was transiting my 12th and 1st. My dad died and my daughter's father and I were having insane times...

Patience...

It took time to recover... lots of time.

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posted August 16, 2016 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So sorry Orange that sounds horrifying . Sending love. My dog once he passed used to seem to gallop in midair... I know their souls do go on

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posted August 16, 2016 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, my dear. It happened just 2 months ago.
They both came to visit me in my dream the other night. It was only for a minute, but I was able to tell them I love them. The feeling was so intense that I woke up jumping the moment they left.

TR Pluto on your Moon must have been very heavy.
Fortunately, TR Saturn was on your ASc and even thou this creates tension in personal relationships ( DSC opposite), it gives you the stamina and perseverance you need to help you fight the obstacles.

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posted August 16, 2016 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alludeu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lmao I can't think of any of my transits for recent hard times, but in my solar return for when I was 5 years old pluto was exactly conjunct my IC and I can definitely say it was not a good time to be living at home. It was like a literal war :/ But I'm guessing anyone who had pluto transit conjunct ic wouldn't be having a pleasant time at home either

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posted August 16, 2016 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Radium:
I manned the **** up and let god lead me, astrology is just a nice guide to help you understand your life path and how to go about it

But it is not going to hold your hand and tell you to motivate urself only you can do that and God is the only way to help your troubles, make your own happiness and don't think for a second stars in the sky will do it for you


Why are you here?
You don't seem interested in astrology 9 times out of 10. Your recent thread has absolutely nothing to do with astrology whatsoever. The asc thread seemed more about getting attention if you combine it with your other posts here.
All you seem to do is run around here tossing around your infinite wisdom that you got from living in a car and hitting your head. That and about how you're going to be a famous star that revolutionizes the music world.
I don't know how you're going to do all this through an astrology forum. It's like you're handing out flyers hoping that someone buys into your garbage.
There's a retired NFL star from around here so we always heard about him outside of what happened on the field. He was known for being humble. Oh man, people love that. He helped a woman change her tire when she got a flat. She offered to pay him. He said, "No thanks. Just cheer on number 84."
Famous or not, the way you act around here I'd tell you that I hope your music equipment shorts and gives you a shock.
You're like an irritating little mosquito flying around. No one cares except for wanting to swat you away.

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Lucia23
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posted August 16, 2016 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Orange, I'm so sorry. It made me cry to read that.

I love this topic, because I'd been looking at past transits to see if there were correlations between the hardest periods of my life and what's going on now. I haven't been able to figure out what the problem was for some of the hard times. It's actually been easier to see why the good years were good.

The past two years have been the hardest---my mother died, my aunt died, my beloved cat died, I had a surgery that didn't go well, my baby's father lied to me and humiliated me and then HE left ME the year after my mother died, when our child was not yet two.

I had tPluto opposite my Moon-Saturn conjunction--things only really got bad when it touched the Saturn part....and tUranus moving into a conjunct with my Chiron and opposition to my Uranus (natally, I have a T-square with Chiron opp Ursnus square Venus.). I think at some points the transiting cardinal t-square was hitting my chart hard.

I haven't gotten over and not sure whether I will. If I do start to be okay again, it will probably be when tSaturn moves from my 12h into my 1h at the end of 2018.

One thing I've learned is that even if you're living your life lovingly and well, sometimes life hits you with painful curveballs and if you don't "get over" them right away or immediately manage to leap back onto your feet with a positive, constructive attitude, that doesn't mean anything is wrong with you or that the slow healing time is your fault.....rather, some injuries to the psyche and spirit and psychology and emotions take a long time to heal from even if you were healthy before they happened, just as some physical injuries or diseases happen to healthy people and take a long time to heal from.


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posted August 16, 2016 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
to everyone's stories here.

Before I thought t.Saturn in my 12th house (2007/2008) was the worst, however August 2014-January 2015 takes the cake.

t.Saturn conjunct n.Pluto
t.Jupiter conjunct n.South Node
t.Pluto conjunct n.Uranus
t.South Node opposite n.Venus
the first hit of t.Chiron conjunct my Mars

*edit* Death of father, betrayal of three different people in my life afterwards, isolation, hard work, eventual victory without toxic people surrounding me

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posted August 16, 2016 12:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lucia23:

The past two years have been the hardest---my mother died, my aunt died, my beloved cat died, I had a surgery that didn't go well, my baby's father lied to me and humiliated me and then HE left ME the year after my mother died, when our child was not yet two.



That's a big loss for such a dense period of time. You are a very strong woman, Lucia.
Hugs and wishes for positivities to enter your life in abundance, it's the balance time!

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posted August 16, 2016 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ari-Sco     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
for me first when uranus conjuncted my mercury, venus and sun at the same time in the 5th and 6th house this totally reshaped my thoughts, situations and feelings about myself and what I want in life and I cut off toxic and abusive relationships and I finally got the job that I wanted then second after 2 years when saturn conjuncted my moon and pluto transiting the 1st house it really cleaned my feelings and the anger and the hatred and all the psychological pain I had for a long time.

I'm never the same after these transits they changed me forever.

usually I do nothing special to get through hard times but patience because only time can show you that this was happening for a reason and later everything will fall into place.

crying and releasing your pain is a healthy way too..

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posted August 16, 2016 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sulkyarcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whatever a person calls it; hope, God, universe, fate. That's what I relied on during a Pluto transit.

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posted August 16, 2016 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
<3 athenaia... I hope your trip is so wonderful.

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posted August 16, 2016 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by athenaia:
to everyone's stories here.

Seconded

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posted August 16, 2016 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tr Pluto conjunct NN in Scorpio, age 14

On vacation in a beautiful section of New England, staying in a rented cabin on a lake. Days spent reading while floating around on in intertube, listening to my brother playing the guitar by a campfire, and that kind of thing.

My mother was ill but somehow I didn't understand that she was not going to recover. Nobody had explained this to me, and she didn't seem that sick. One night in the cabin, someone said: "Can't wait to do this next year!" And my mother replied, "If I'm alive then."

That's when I realized she wouldn't be alive then.

That night I couldn't sleep, I just stared at the naked lightbulb over my bed with moths flittering around it, grappling with the fact that something impossible was about to happen to me, like an oncoming train about to hit me. I knew life would never be the same. I knew life was going to get worse. With 1,000% of my heart I did not want my mother to die, but it was going to happen.

So that was the worst time. Not when she died. But when she was still there and I had to start saying my goodbyes. Every moment for the next three months.

How did I survive?

Well, astrologically: my progressed sun was at 0° Aquarius when she died. I made more friends, as Aquarians do. I ate dinner at friends' houses, went on vacation with friends, was adopted and parented and healed by my widening circle of friends.

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Losing my father was no picnic either, but because I was so young when I lost my mother and grappling with the shock of that first unthinkable loss, I would say it was the most painful.

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posted August 16, 2016 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieMG     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wishing the best to all who's still having hard times, and I'm really glad some of you got through all of the sh*t and are stronger than ever, it gives me hope.

My story.

I had some really bad times in the past, but currently, I'm having the worst time of my life so far.
My older sister suffers depression and psychosis, the last 3 years where very very difficult for me and my mom (the rest of our family is not very invested). My life is being consumed by my sister's mental disease, and I feel emotionally drained most of the time. I just want everything ends soon. I love my life and everything I have and achieved, but I can't enjoy it.

I can attribute this to my Saturn return last year, and Tr Moon square Pluto (5th). I really don't see any other hard aspect, maybe Tr Neptune opposite Venus (3rd).

My sister, on the other hand, has the following aspects:

Tr Saturn opposing Moon (5th), until October 7, I'm really expecting that day.
Tr Pluto (12th) trine Saturn (8th).
Node conj. Saturn
She also has had Tr Uranus opposite Pluto and conj. IC recently.

In the last 3 years, her mental illness got worse, she left her BF, move, lost her job and was unemployed for a year.

I may add that her Saturn conjunct my 3rd house Venus, which makes our bond strong (in bad way).

I'm going to therapy and yoga, but I believe only time will heal my wounds.

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posted August 16, 2016 07:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If everyone would be kind and not quote, please.

Well I realize that this isn't going to be a lengthy, detailed post. I've been putting in tons of hours at work (not by choice). Also, the period of time is long. 15-20 years... ish. It's difficult to define exactly.

Basically, Pluto squares to personal planets and asc. Right down the line, bang, bang, bang... 12th house planets at that.

So pretty much for years and years all that I thought about was not belonging with where I was. It didn't matter where I was, I didn't feel that I belonged there. I thought about suicide all the time. A few crazy things along the way. Sat in a garage with the car running for 1 hour. Even ran a hose in through the window. Not sure why the only thing I got was a headache. Modern low emission cars I guess. They save more than the environment. I've done numerous other things along those lines.
So, I guess it was just a waiting period. Nothing to do but to wait for the craze of pluto squares to cease. Not that I knew that, but once they were gone. I felt.... free. I felt that I had an identity. It really taught me that my identity is my own. I don't need to identify with anything, or anyone. I carry my own. I shine my own light, whether anyone sees it, likes it, doesn't matter. It's complicated I guess.
I feel stronger though. .I feel that I've found myself through it. Though there have been times of relapse. It's an "almost never" kind of thing now.

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posted August 16, 2016 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am so sorry, ORange

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posted August 16, 2016 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sandra018     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DopGang:
If everyone would be kind and not quote, please.

Well I realize that this isn't going to be a lengthy, detailed post. I've been putting in tons of hours at work (not by choice). Also, the period of time is long. 15-20 years... ish. It's difficult to define exactly.

Basically, Pluto squares to personal planets and asc. Right down the line, bang, bang, bang... 12th house planets at that.

So pretty much for years and years all that I thought about was not belonging with where I was. It didn't matter where I was, I didn't feel that I belonged there. I thought about suicide all the time. A few crazy things along the way. Sat in a garage with the car running for 1 hour. Even ran a hose in through the window. Not sure why the only thing I got was a headache. Modern low emission cars I guess. They save more than the environment. I've done numerous other things along those lines.
So, I guess it was just a waiting period. Nothing to do but to wait for the craze of pluto squares to cease. Not that I knew that, but once they were gone. I felt.... free. I felt that I had an identity. It really taught me that my identity is my own. I don't need to identify with anything, or anyone. I carry my own. I shine my own light, whether anyone sees it, likes it, doesn't matter. It's complicated I guess.
I feel stronger though. .I feel that I've found myself through it. Though there have been times of relapse. It's an "almost never" kind of thing now.


Thank you DopGang.

i was hoping someone would go over the pluto sq personal planets.

i will have this in a few years..
My personal planets are also in the 12th.
at that time, Saturn will move to Cap and sq them as well.
i am dreading these few years even now.
i know it will transformational in many ways.


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posted August 16, 2016 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am so sorry, ORange


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posted August 16, 2016 11:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To be honest I still have Neptune opposite Midheaven on my mind, because it happened recently and no one could fully grasp why I was so upset. I made several attempts to complain about it here, but I was too depressed to write the post so it never happened.

No one was supportive during this time in my life. Other people viewed my problem as trivial even though in my eyes I had committed a personal crime against the standard of who I was as a person and as a writer. I was forced to endure the transit alone.

After November ended I was left with a severe wound. For two days of early December I was overcome with the most powerful anger I had ever experienced and somehow I managed to avoid doing any damage as a result.

While I received no emotional support during the transit and the rest of 2015 I think my boyfriend played a role in me recovering from the emotional damage that Neptune's opposition to my Midheaven caused. He wasn't trying to help me, but after an argument we had last December it must have been a case of two -'s equaling a +. If I wasn't too busy trying to make things right with him that month I'd have gotten lost in the self-destructive tendencies of Neptune's negative side as soon as January began. Our argument forced me to prioritize so I wouldn't make things even worse than they already were.

There isn't much astrologically to suggest what happened to get me over it. Maybe Chiron was involved somehow.

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posted August 18, 2016 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by @lycat74:
What was your most painful period in ur life & how did U get over it astrologically?

Definitely the last four years.

I have 6 important planets and points (Venus, Uranus, MC, Moon, ASC, Sun) in the first half degs of mutable signs, in different houses. The planets and angles are related to one another so when one planet in the cluster was hit, others were also affected. It means that since 2012 they have all been challenged by hard transits from planets transiting mutable signs - Chiron, Neptune and since 2014 Saturn. And so I have had 18 hard transits (mostly squares or oppositions) to abovementioned points since then! And my other transits were not very supportive either (ex. Pluto opp NN)

The beginning of 2015 was the worst, I guess. At some point I had tr Chiron opp. Sun and ASC, tr Neptune square MC and Moon, Saturn square Venus and conjunct Uranus.
Most of these transits are over now, Saturn will hit my ASC and Sun for the 3rd time until the end of this year and tr Neptune will opp. ASC and Sun in the near future.

In the last four years I was struggling with my career (I was unemployed most of the time), experienced a painful separation and social rejection. It was a very stationary time in my life and whatever I tried to do was blocked either by external circumstances or people. I hope better days are to come.

I think that the fact that I could explained what was happening to me astrologically helped a lot, at least I knew that these transits would pass, eventually. The situation finally improved a bit but I also had to give up a lot… These difficult passages managed to destroyed pretty much everything I had built.

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posted August 20, 2016 08:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My heart goes out to everyone here. So many of you have suffered such terrible losses in a short period of time.

The hardest period of my life was age 5-12. I have no idea what transits were hitting me at that time since I didn't know any astrology. Some painful events that occurred during this time:

- my neighbor shot my dogs because he thought it would be fun
- my father abandoned me
- I grew up in extreme poverty and had to dig through trash cans for food
- my best friend moved away
- my grandmother died
- I witnessed one of my friends being stabbed during class
- I had to earn money in order to support my family.

Basically, I did not have a childhood. I don't know what it means to be carefree. I've been worrying about paying bills since I was in kindergarten. In order to cope, I focused on my schoolwork and prayed daily for relief from all of this pain. Unfortunately, I didn't get any relief until age 23. Life was good until 27 and it sucks again. Come to think of it, most of my life has been miserable.

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