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Topic: Poll: Sun opposite Moon people, did your parents divorce?
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Violets unregistered
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posted August 16, 2016 11:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Condoowit: My son has the opposition and yes his father and I are divorced.I didn't know that you and I were in the same boat Violets, both having a mother with borderline personality disorder. I know exactly what you mean about energetic disruption, and it's hard for her to stay away when there's a lovely grandson for her to visit. I, however, am plagued by a Cancer moon that would feel waaaaay too guilty if I moved away from her. It's a doozy Cancer moon. Makes me more conscientious than is good for me. Grrrr.
Yes, I have Saturn in Cancer, trine my Sun...so although I often wish I could put more distance between us, I do what is right for my son, which is to try to balance that the best I can. Uranus conjunct IC has always added a huge blessing when I move just far enough away from my family to be able to visit periodically, but not have to see them regularly. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 15804 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 16, 2016 11:41 PM
My husband has moon in cancer squaring sun and he cut ties with his mom...This thread shows more a consistency by divorced parents and the luminaries squaring than with the opposition. My parents truly have a nice marriage. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 15804 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 17, 2016 12:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by Violets: Yes, and I feel more emotionally healthy when I have that distance between my family and I. I have Pluto in 3H, and while I love them very much it's harder for me to maintain my own balance when I have to be around them often.
That is very much exactly my case too wow! We both have sun opposite moon in the Pisces Virgo axis although reversed.. Also pluto conjuncts my 3rd house ruler and falls in the 12th. IP: Logged |
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posted August 17, 2016 01:51 AM
At least we know we're not alone, lol. Each time Saturn has opposed my asteroid KARMA I move back to my hometown, which just recently happened. I haven't lived near my family for twenty years, quite happily. Hopefully it will be a better experience this time.  IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 2950 From: Welcome to Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 17, 2016 02:05 AM
My mom has the square. Cap Sun/Aries Moon. She got married young and ending up divorcing her first husband. But she's been with my dad (Aries Sun/Taurus Moon) for over thirty years. I can't see either one of them asking for a divorce.  My grandparents have also been married for over fifty years. I have the square by sign (Virgo Sun/Gemini Moon) and my brother has the square by aspect (Aqua Sun/Scorpio Moon). No quoting please. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 5490 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 17, 2016 09:49 AM
No, but I wished they had :-/ Would have saved me ALOT of grief growing up but they were selfish ******** ..IP: Logged |
madelineleo23 Knowflake Posts: 297 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 17, 2016 11:30 AM
I have sun (leo) opposite moon (aquarius) and my parents divorced when I was 16. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6318 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 17, 2016 01:38 PM
I have this but the orb is wide so I don't know if it counts. But my parents haven't divorced yet it has come up before during arguments. IP: Logged |
Lerena Knowflake Posts: 1402 From: Registered: May 2015
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posted August 17, 2016 02:39 PM
Are there any other divorce indicators besides Sun opposite Moon? I'm just curious, because I don't have Sun opposite Moon but my parents are divorced.IP: Logged |
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posted August 17, 2016 03:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lerena: Are there any other divorce indicators besides Sun opposite Moon? I'm just curious, because I don't have Sun opposite Moon but my parents are divorced.
I don't think that Sun opposite Moon is proving to be a solid indicator for divorced parents at all... I don't know if you can really totally point to such things through astrology, although I think it can be widely indicated along with other possibilities, like anything else.  IP: Logged |