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posted August 21, 2016 11:40 PM            

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My boyfriend is nice. I see him about once a week. I like him and all but every time I spend time with him I feel suuuuppper tired. Like I'm hungover and I have to sleep it off the next day. Its definitely something to do with him. This happens no matter what we are doing. e.g. if we just stay in and cuddle and watch a movie...I feel like he is sucking the life out of me

Are there any aspects which would point to this and has anyone had any experience with this? I don't want to dump him but its making it really hard for me to function.

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posted August 21, 2016 11:44 PM            

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Are you normally pretty introverted? Where you spend time with other people for awhile but need alone time to recharge?

I have had this experience too but not someone I have dated. I'm looking forward to the responses, I'm curious too.

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posted August 21, 2016 11:52 PM            

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I do have a lot of alone time but only due to circumstance and I've gotten used to it and now prefer it. I'm a libra with a lot of scorpio.
I spent about 3 hours yesterday with my bf and now I am exhausted even though I got 10 hours sleep. My eyes are closing as I write this. I could barely get 3 hours of work done and usually I can do 5- 7 with no problem. I've taken breaks from the relationship and it felt blissful. So much more energy. I don't get it. I like him and I don't want to hurt him but something has to change and I don't know what.
We've been going out for 1 year and this is an ongoing problem for me. Seriously thinking of just quitting.

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
Are you normally pretty introverted? Where you spend time with other people for awhile but need alone time to recharge?

I have had this experience too but not someone I have dated. I'm looking forward to the responses, I'm curious too.

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posted August 22, 2016 12:02 AM            

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Most of your personal planets are in Scorpio?

I would think something hitting your power and maybe drive, so Mars or Pluto?

Also, Neptune transits? My roommate has Neptune transitting their 12th house and all they want to do is sleep and it is unusual for them because they're an Aries ASC.

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posted August 22, 2016 05:59 AM            

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Is their Pluto conjunct or opposite your Sun or Mars? Or maybe YOUR Saturn is in harsh aspect to their Sun, Mars, or Jupiter? The latter could make them seem like the energizer bunny that's constantly ON while you are on OFF.

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posted August 23, 2016 07:01 AM            

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Incognito,

This is interesting. Can you post your synastry with him in Interpersonal forum please? Or here is ok too.

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